My wife pulled weeds with me and chatted.

I feel that when I am old, my children and my wife can grow up healthily. This is the happiest thing. Every lover will grow old one day. When you are old, some people choose the most reliable money, and some people choose their children to support the elderly. If I choose the most reliable wife, money and children, I am willing to trust my feelings and choose a wife! Money is not everything. It can't buy affection and companionship. Children are not the most reliable. Once you get married, it's different. For the rest of my life, happiness can only be accompanied by my wife. Why did you choose your wife? Let me explain it from three aspects: money, children and wife: wife: wife can accompany, accompany and take care of people. When you are old, you want someone around you to accompany you all the time. What is a wife? Isn't that the person who accompanied him through all stages of marriage? In the company of decades, all kinds of disharmony have long been smoothed out again and again. In the long-term marriage, companionship has become a habit, together has become an oath, and care has become a necessity in daily life. My wife is the one who can accompany me, accompany me and take care of herself.

Money: money is not everything, nor can it buy people's hearts and family ties. Money is important to life, but not everything. Even if it is very important, it can't be exchanged for human feelings and affection. As a measure of material things, money can't buy companionship and care, nor can it buy true feelings, nor can it buy people's hearts. When people are old, they can hire a nanny to wait on them, and they can make their children's clothes considerate, but it is difficult to hire a caring and sincere person. Therefore, money is not everything. It can't buy health, people's hearts and affection. Children: Although children are close relatives, they should also take care of their families. Children can be said to be the closest people to their parents. Before getting married, his parents poured out their hearts to him, and he wanted to repay them. After marriage, he has his own family to take care of. For example, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is destroying the feelings between children and the elderly. On the other hand, in the parenting relationship between parents and children, parents can pay unconditionally to their children, and children are filial to their parents, but they cannot pay 100% as parents do to their children. Judging from the importance of the three to the elderly, wife > money > children: the need for money is also the foundation. Money is needed by both the old and the young, and it is the basic condition. Old people need money to support their old age, and young people need money to support their families. In life, if you have a certain amount of money reserves, you will have a certain amount of living security. Without living security, there will be no subsequent series of relationships. Young people are different from old people. Once the old people have no money, they will lead a hard life. They have no place to earn money and no money to support the elderly. They can count on their children for a while, but not for long. Although the child is very filial, there is also pressure from the family and so on. Therefore, the elderly need money, but also need money to support the elderly.