How to treat a critical mother-in-law who marries such a family is really unhappy.

How to treat a critical mother-in-law who marries such a family is really unhappy.

My mother-in-law is always picking on you. What should you do? Many daughters-in-law will suffer indignities after marriage, and they will feel wronged after a long time. At this time, we still have to defend our position.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a major problem in the family. My mother-in-law is very picky about her daughter-in-law's eggs, and her daughter-in-law is dissatisfied with her mother-in-law's various interventions. After all, a mother-in-law is not a mother, and a daughter-in-law is not a daughter. Any problem may lead to war. The way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along can be summarized as: treat them as their own, and respect the guests. Why do you say that? Caring for yourself means caring for your mother, other people's mothers, your daughter and other people's daughters; Being polite means that the daughter-in-law is not her own daughter after all, and she can't be as close as her own daughter!

My mother-in-law and I often quarrel over trifles. My mother-in-law and I were at home the day before yesterday. It was after 7 pm, and neither of us wanted to cook dinner. Finally, when we came home from work, our husbands, as husbands and sons, cooked it. After cooking, I went to my neighbor's house to invite my mother-in-law to dinner. As soon as I arrived at the door, I heard her mother-in-law scold me behind my back and said, "Our daughter-in-law Wei is too lazy to cook, and she wants to starve me ..." I was really furious when I heard this, so there was an earth-shattering "fierce battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law".

In fact, we are far away from our husband's family, and we go back to live for a few days a year. We thought we could live in peace, but my mother-in-law often told her husband behind my back that I was not good. I said before that I would spend a lot of money and not live. I also gave an example. I will eat Dicos when I go out. Really speechless. I don't even know where their Dicos door is open, so I was labeled inexplicably! Don't say I want to eat Dicos as soon as I go out, so what if I eat it? It's not that I don't have a job or make money. To say the least, even if I don't make money, what's wrong with spending my husband's money on Dicos? What's bothering her? I squandered my money, not hers! If only she had covered her pockets, why would she bother us?

Half a month ago, my husband called home, and my father-in-law said that my ankle suddenly hurt and I couldn't get off the ground. He went to the hospital for gout, and they called for a long time. I didn't quite understand their dialect, and my husband didn't tell me what happened until he hung up the phone. It was very late at that time, and I planned to call again the next day to ask. Who knew I was arrested again for this? The next morning, my mother-in-law called her husband and said why his father was ill. I didn't even say a word!

Go to my mother-in-law's house for dinner tonight. My mother-in-law got angry when she saw that my mouth was broken. She actually said, "Are you too busy playing with your mobile phone to drink water?" Hehe, you are so picky. Many people have gone too far. When they are angry, they just can't play with their mobile phones or drink water. Is it also because you play mobile phones when you are angry?

In her mother-in-law's mind, she and her father-in-law have been taking care of her son since childhood, and they have developed a selfish problem that her son has no sense of responsibility and only cares about himself. Her husband is 30 years old, and now her mother-in-law treats her son as a child. Once I said that you only raised him as a child, and my mother-in-law said disapprovingly, "Yes, what can I do?" Hehe, that's not enough. In the deep-rooted concept of mother-in-law, they are used to serving their son, and I should serve my son like them, instead of taking care of each other between husband and wife.

Once I went shopping with my mother-in-law (only once) and bought a dress for my husband. I asked her how to wash and dry. My mother-in-law opened her mouth and said, "Yes, you should know how to wash it so that you can wash it for him later." My mother-in-law talked so much that I was anxious. I said, "I won't wash him." Mother-in-law said, "If you don't wash, who will?" ! Yawn, why take care of his son? "

My brother and his son quarreled. This is obviously his son's fault. Mother-in-law always makes excuses for her son and says it's my fault. I want to ask: is there such a great, spoiled and stupid mother-in-law? Not only that, you pick on me when you have nothing to do, and let me do everything. Why? How should I treat my critical mother-in-law