Daughter-in-law never cooks, and often dislikes my lack of pattern in cooking. Should such a daughter-in-law get used to it

Daughter-in-law never cooks. I believe you knew before you got married. Before you got married, did you promise to cook breakfast for her all your life and never repeat it? Think about your problems in love. You should try to tolerate her and take good care of her.

Of course, whether you want to continue to spoil her depends on the nature of your work. If you have enough time, you might as well continue to do it, which is good for you, her and your family, and will make the family more harmonious.

But there is also a situation where the nature of your job simply doesn't allow you to cook for her often, let alone cook for her in another way, and communication is needed at this time.

In marriage, especially in love, I feel that I can do a lot of things at first, but I can't stick to it for a long time, especially after marriage, many beautiful vows have not been realized, which often leads to estrangement between the other party. Of course, some of this persistence is because you are bored, and some are because the reality does not allow you to do it. I believe that when more families don't allow you to do it, the other party will understand.

Of course, boredom also has a lot to do with motivation and evaluation. Motivation for action can be divided into external motivation and internal motivation. The so-called external power is nothing more than carrots and sticks. For example, if my wife tells you how many fancy dishes you cooked today, I will reward you with a kiss, which is a carrot, that is, a reward; If your wife gets angry or even loses her temper directly because you didn't cook what she wanted to eat, or make all kinds of tricks, this is a big stick, which is punishment.

In real life, I believe that everyone wants to get radishes, not sticks, so try their best to drive each other's changes through their own changes.