The relationship between husband and wife is becoming more and more strange.

The story has sadness and joy, love and hurt.

Say good night every day, I hope you will like me.

There are a few words written in front:

Why do couples under the same roof suddenly become familiar strangers and don't know what to say next before saying a few words? It is difficult for many people to understand why they become strangers with nothing to say at the beginning of the rest of their lives.

When I was in love, I always thought about each other, so I was single-minded at that time, but it was different when I got married. There are many things to consider, and sometimes you may give each other less love or even ignore it for some reason. After a long time, the feeling of love will gradually fade away.

So as far as marriage is concerned, why do loving couples gradually become strangers? I think these three reasons are inseparable.

The first point: there is little or no communication between husband and wife.

Mr. Liu Zhenyun once said: A person's loneliness is not loneliness. A person looking for another person, one sentence looking for another sentence, is the real loneliness. Emotionally, too. If you always communicate alone and take the initiative to find a sense of existence in marriage, then such a couple will inevitably lack sweetness.

As long as one spouse turns a blind eye to the other, there can be no good communication between them. In this case, even if one party wants to communicate, it will break up in discord because of the dispute.

Marriage without communication can't stand the erosion of reality and time, and the hot feelings will gradually get cold. Based on this situation, the relationship between husband and wife has become more and more strange, which has become an inevitable trend. It is impossible for a sweet relationship to become speechless.

So the relationship between husband and wife is getting more and more strange. The first reason is the lack of communication between husband and wife.

The second point: husband and wife can't be honest with each other and have something to hide.

Family, friendship or love, if you want to be honest with each other for a long time, you can't have a little distrust. A little distrust may lead to the other person's disgust, and then you won't get the feeling of care.

This is especially true between husband and wife. A relationship without trust will never last. Emotions are infected by gains and losses, and one person's suspicion naturally causes another person's suspicion. What happiness can such feelings talk about? Will this relationship be harmonious?

On the surface, there is a set, and behind it, the trust between husband and wife is almost zero. How can such two people live well, let alone sincerely.

So the second reason why the relationship between husband and wife is getting more and more strange is the lack of mutual trust and understanding between husband and wife.

The third point: the degree of concern for feelings between husband and wife is too low, and there is no husband and wife at all.

The relationship between husband and wife is far better than that of friends around them, so it is natural to treat such a relationship with different degrees of care, and it is impossible to treat it like ordinary friends. Therefore, if a couple just regards each other as familiar friends, then there will be many problems in this relationship, the most obvious one is that they don't care about each other.

People who care will try their best to love each other instead of seeing beautiful scenery but no one wants to share it. Such a person is not lonely, not that she doesn't know how to love others.

If you let a person feel your intention in your feelings, then he will definitely give you feedback. For example, if you have a dog and you are kind to it, it will be kind to you and will definitely help you look after the house. Animals are like this, and people are even more so.

So the third reason why the relationship between husband and wife is getting more and more strange is that the husband and wife care too little about this relationship, and there is no husband and wife at all.

It says on the back:

Marriage is not a kind of imprisonment, but a sublimation of sweet feelings. It's really not easy to know each other, fall in love and come together, so I hope you can cherish this.

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