Why is it difficult and annoying to see my husband contacting his ex-wife?

"It's all my fault." In Ms. Lin's crying, she told the deep secret to Teacher Chen.

Back to five years ago, Ms. Lin successfully changed from a beautiful girl to a mature young woman. Her husband is busy at work and often absent. The carefree environment makes Ms. Lin feel a little lonely. In order to fill the shortcomings in her heart, Ms. Lin returned to school for further study. In her spare time, she looks for her old classmates to go shopping, go shopping and sing K … It's hard.

At a small classmate party, Ms. Lin met Mr. Chen who came back from abroad to visit relatives. Mr. Chen was a master at school then. Before graduation, he was invited by foreign research institutes and decided his way abroad early. In contrast, Ms. Lin and others can only seek interview opportunities with diplomas.

But when I saw Mr. Chen again this time, I found that he had lost his pride in the past, leaving only those who were destroyed by years unwilling to stay on his cheeks.

"I haven't seen you for years, are you okay?"

Chen took the initiative to strike up a conversation, and Ms. Lin was really shocked. She never imagined that Mr. Chen, who was well received by teachers and students, and even the principal regarded him as the light of the school, would take the initiative to chat with her.

After some pleasantries, Ms. Lin learned that Mr. Chen's work abroad was smooth sailing. After successfully getting the green card, she lost because of family problems. Today, Mr. Chen is not only divorced, but also his children are taken away by his ex-wife, and even he has to pay a lot of maintenance every month. Many people can't imagine the ending of both people and money.

The next thing is like a soap opera. Ms. Lin and Mr. Chen have developed feelings beyond friendship after this class reunion, and they don't know whether they are possessed by ghosts or empty and lonely. In short, Ms. Lin and Mr. Chen crossed the final moral bottom line, and this derailment should have ended with Mr. Chen's return to China.

But Ms. Lin, who was confused by the temporary stimulus, originally planned to write a love letter to her lover who was far away from home. She described her loneliness in her mind, but somehow she returned the love letter to the original site and fell into the hands of Ms. Lin's husband.

Recalling that experience, Ms. Lin had to stop and drink a glass of water to ease her panic. In short, her husband saw all the sweet words of Ms. Lin and her lover Mr. Chen. What is even more frightening is that Ms. Lin even left a letter in which she regretted marrying her husband and even wanted to divorce Mr. Chen.

The husband was furious and directly filed for divorce with Ms. Lin. After that, with the joint efforts of family and friends, the two finally succeeded in saving their marriage. After this change, Ms. Lin finally woke up and understood her innermost thoughts. The only person who is truly loved is her husband.

However, I made a big mistake. In the next five years, Ms. Lin lived carefully, not only reporting her whereabouts to her husband every day, but also having no right to speak at home. As long as she is careless, she will be criticized by her husband for her past mistakes.

Originally, she wanted to live a happy and stable life, but she wanted to be like a prisoner. At the thought of countless five years in the future, Ms. Lin felt extremely desperate. After some comparison, Ms. Lin finally made up her mind to ask the emotional Ms. Chen for help, not only to save her feelings with her husband, but more importantly, to eliminate her husband's knot and improve communication with her husband, so as to master more family discourse rights.

Teacher Chen carefully combed the emotional entanglement between Ms. Lin and her husband in the past five years, and then came to the conclusion that Ms. Lin's derailment really hit her husband hard, but the more serious problem was not Ms. Lin's derailment, but what everyone did not expect. Her husband thinks that Ms. Lin is with him because she is greedy for his material conditions, not for love. Fortunately, my husband still loves Ms. Lin in his heart, and he longs for Ms. Lin to love himself. Otherwise, in these five years, my husband would have divorced Ms. Lin. The key to saving marriage is to let her husband really feel Ms. Lin's love and rekindle her confidence in love.

Ms. Lin got the correct guidance from Teacher Chen and began to gradually reverse her husband's original thinking from daily communication. The communication between them has obviously improved. Her husband is not only willing to share his troubles with Ms. Lin, but also begins to feel Ms. Lin's psychological pressure. The relationship between them was born again after five years.