My 14-word thesis on mate selection

everyone has a LUCKY STAR in mind, but when we choose him or her, the criteria are very different. Isn't there a saying that? "Radish and vegetables, each has his own love", in fact, it is also true. We don't need each other to be perfect, attractive and smart, but when we are together, we can share happiness and worry with each other. When we are not together, we can miss each other and think about each other! Although I have never been in a real love, I can grasp what kind of girl I want. Because I have been in contact with many girls since I was a child, I can vaguely feel my future partner from their words and deeds, their personality and family background, and finally my own personality, appearance and family conditions. But in my current state, this girl hasn't broken into my world, at least after four years of college! My firm assertion is not an expression, but a consideration of many aspects. First of all, my family conditions are not allowed. I am an out-and-out country boy, and my parents are ordinary farmers. It is really hard to plant a few acres of land for me to go to college all the year round! Thinking of this, I really can't bear to live up to them! Therefore, you can't fall in love in the name of reading during college! This will only increase their burden. We must calm down and study hard, get along well with the students around us, exercise our comprehensive quality and be a veritable three-good student. Stick to your original ideal, find a good job in the future, strive to get out of the mountains, and let parents enjoy themselves. Secondly, my personal ability is not enough. Compared with before, I have really made great progress, both in communication ability, expression ability and independence! But people are moving forward and can't always stay in the past, so the existing ability is not enough, and they can't have enough charm to attract some excellent girls. In this way, you need more time to exercise yourself and make your comprehensive ability reach the extreme. Then, considering the reality of college love, how sad it is that we can't be together because of various reasons when we graduate, but we have to endure the pain of being separated from each other in different places and forget the love experience in college for several years! I'm not afraid of such a scene, but I really can't afford to hurt! I don't like that my former lover will become a stranger in the future. Finally, which is more important, lovers or friends? Once in love, I will ignore the feelings of my friends and classmates around me, because I think I am a single-minded person. I'm afraid I'll be branded as a friend who values sex over friends if I don't handle my relationship with friends well, and I'm afraid I'll be in conflict because of some things in the process of love. If I have to choose between lovers and friends, I will not hesitate to choose friends! More often, friends play a vital role, which can help me realize the value of life and understand the meaning of life! I can have no lover, but I can't have no friends! In short, during my four years in college, I firmly spent Valentine's Day after Valentine's Day with my friends. When I saw couples celebrating the holiday, I was glad that I didn't have to do my best for gifts before the holiday, and I didn't have to put up with my girlfriend's ugly face when she vented! After graduating from college, I can look for LUCKY STAR in my life, because I have enough energy, ability and material foundation. It's time to make some efforts for my other half, because you in my mind are worthy of my possession, and no matter how big the sacrifice is, it is necessary! So what do you think of you? You-have the same experience, and each other's personalities can complement each other. You can grow very ordinary and have poor family conditions, but you must be kind-hearted, very filial to the elders around you, and trust your other half! I really hope you are a girl from the countryside, because the countryside gives you the same simple atmosphere as mine, and we work hard together towards the original simple atmosphere to build a simple and ordinary family. You are generous and enthusiastic, and you don't haggle over every ounce. You can be short, simple in appearance, and not romantic, but always think about each other and care about each other's feelings, so that you are more real, and I like you like this. Just need these, you can walk into my heart, and then I will say to you: "For the world, you are one person, for me, you are my world!" I will use my whole life to care for you!