A long trip to send my son to study abroad.

The first preparation is to ask yourself seriously: Why do you want to send your children abroad? What is the significance of studying abroad? In a widely circulated article, many foreign students feel that the most important thing is not English, not a diploma. For me, there are two points: one is the ability to survive anywhere; Second, luxury cars can't shake the dull mentality of being willing to take the bus every day to pursue simple dreams. Studying abroad is really more than just taking classes. Of course, the educational environment abroad is also a great shock. For people who have never met before, you can greatly broaden your horizons, brainstorm and ask constructive questions at any time. More importantly, studying abroad also gives you a good thing called "adversity education". Accepting setbacks is not accepting the darkness or inequality of this world. The most important thing is to learn to challenge life by yourself.

In a sense, parents' psychological preparation may be more important than children's, because what is more lonely than studying abroad is actually "children go to school". On the one hand, parents should arrange their own lives to prevent inner emptiness from becoming a disease. On the other hand, it is necessary to help children adjust their mentality, encourage them to face the new environment, adapt to the new life, and be the strongest support in their minds.