What do you know about the living conditions of stay-at-home mothers born in the 1990s?

I have been a stay-at-home mother for nearly a year, and I think it was a time of happiness mixed with atmosphere and helplessness. Many people say they want to be with their children, even if they earn less, they still have to take their children with them. I really admire their courage. I was still in confinement, and my mother-in-law and I had a fight. I went to my mother-in-law's house just after my child turned 30 days old. I stayed there for half a year before returning to my mother-in-law's house. Within two days, I started getting angry and quarreling again. At that time, my mother-in-law It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t like me, she doesn’t even love her own grandson, because she has been helping her daughter take care of the child, and my child has always been at my mother’s house, so she doesn’t love her grandson, and gives pickles to us and my mother when she gets home. I had two pickles a day and said I had no milk to feed the child, so I asked my husband to buy two boxes of eight-treasure porridge and she started to argue with me. My husband was still paying off the mortgage, and the down payment from my parents-in-law had to be saved on everything, including clothes and shoes. I bought it before I got married. I didn’t dare to buy a new one. My parents didn’t have the money to honor me, so they had to subsidize me. I was fed up with other people’s shortcomings, and my life was miserable. I wasn’t the type to quarrel with others, so I gave the child to me. Throw it to her and let her take it. It’s not easy to be a stay-at-home mom, but if your family supports you, it’s okay.