In fifth grade, my children always quarreled with me. No matter what he says, he always talks back. How should parents educate him?

What if children always talk back to their parents?

1, children are simple, and generally quarrel for a long time over a problem that they are not satisfied with. As parents, we should calm down first. Losing your temper can not only solve the problem, but also aggravate the contradiction with your child. They should deal with problems calmly, set an example for their children, and their thoughts will be more mature.

2. In a sense, children are like a "mirror", and every word and deed can reflect whether parents' training and education methods are correct.

It is inevitable that children will talk back. When children talk back, parents should learn to reflect on themselves, whether they have done something wrong, set a wrong example for their children, correct problems in the process of reflection, and make progress with their children.

As parents, it is very important to discipline children. Parents can also understand that the initial intention of scolding children is to be good for their children, but there is more than one way to discipline them.

Don't let temporary emotions get the upper hand of reason. Instead of swearing, it is better to adjust your emotions first, communicate with your children calmly, allow them to express themselves and encourage them to speak out. Let the children speak out first, and then the parents will guide them.

4. To understand children, parents need to think from the child's point of view and learn to feel the child's heart. Inner changes are invisible, although it is difficult to capture, but there are always some superficial signs.

If you want to really help children, you must start with your heart. Only by reading the child's mind can we really prescribe the right medicine and solve the child's problems.

Why do children talk back to their parents?

First, the rebellious period

Children always talk back to their parents when they are in a rebellious period. At this time, the child will have a strong rebellious mentality. In addition, today's children have strong personalities and complicated thinking, which leads to the phenomenon of talking back to their parents.

Second, parents like to keep up with the joneses.

Some parents like to compare the advantages of other children with the disadvantages of their own children, and often use this unequal comparison to reprimand their children and arouse their rebellious psychology.

Third, the study pressure is great.

Nowadays, children are under great pressure to study, and this problem is also a main reason why children always talk back to their parents.

Fourth, parents did not do it.

Some parents ask their children to correct their shortcomings, but they don't set an example, which will make their children dissatisfied and retorted.