My mother-in-law scolded me for being nice to outsiders, I admit it, but I have a clear conscience.

"This daughter-in-law is really married for nothing. She didn't come to see her in-laws first when she went home, and she didn't know to bring something home to honor her in-laws. Instead, she gave something to an outsider. " The mother-in-law swore, and the husband replied, "Then she has to have in-laws, too."

My husband Wang Chengjun and I are junior high school classmates. He is the tallest in our class. He always sits in the last row and especially doesn't like studying. He sleeps in class and is most energetic after class.

Our seats change every Monday, and there is always a time when I sit in front of him.

Our junior high school is a closed school and we only go home once a week. After class, everyone ran desperately to the canteen, only I was slow. I am so small that I can't squeeze in every time. I might as well cook at last.

Wang Chengjun doesn't study well, but I can't get enough food. Later, after school, he took two bowls and ran to the canteen. After dinner, he threw the bowl to me to wash.

Although Wang Chengjun is in my class, he is three years older than me. Some people say that he has been unable to go to school because of poor family conditions; Others said that he failed because he didn't study well.

After graduating from junior high school, Wang Chengjun went to be a soldier and was assigned to Tibet after training.

I went to a technical secondary school. I haven't learned anything for three years, and my parents don't want me to continue studying.

After a year at home, someone from the village came to propose marriage. I didn't want to get married, so I went to work in the city to avoid my parents.

When Wang Chengjun went home to visit relatives, he proposed to me directly. My parents are very happy. Compared with the people in the village, Wang Chengjun is tall and handsome, and he is also a soldier. Maybe he can find a job in the future.

More importantly, Wang Chengjun agreed to the bride price my parents said.

My mother called me, so I made an excuse not to go home. I didn't expect Wang Chengjun to find me.

I have known him for a long time. He has been at home with me these days, and we kind of like each other.

When Wang Chengjun returned to the army, he called and wrote to me as soon as he got the chance. Although there is a distance, our feelings are very good.

Wang Chengjun's grandmother was dying, so he hurried home. His parents told us to get married at once. On the one hand, they are happy for his grandmother. On the other hand, they are afraid that if Wang Chengjun's grandmother really dies, according to our custom, the family can't hold a wedding for three years.

Wang Chengjun and I got married in this way.

Wang Chengjun returned to the army after his grandmother's funeral.

We got married in a hurry. I've never been with my in-laws before. I always feel uncomfortable alone with my in-laws. I took advantage of my work to go to the city.

Unexpectedly, I suddenly fainted at work and was sent to the hospital by my colleague to know that I was pregnant.

The doctor asked me to be hospitalized, and Wang Chengjun was in the army, so I had to call my mother-in-law, who insisted that I be discharged two days later.

I went back to my mother-in-law's house, and her mother-in-law said that I was melodramatic and wanted to stay in bed for a few months. Always nagging in my ear that I'm lazy.

When Wang Chengjun called me, Wang Chengjun complained to me that Wang Chengjun called her mother-in-law and asked her to take care of me. Her mother-in-law promised me that she was fine and said that she always regarded me as her daughter.

Unexpectedly, when she hung up the phone, her mother-in-law changed her face and said that Wang Chengjun and I had complained, crying and making trouble.

I told my mother that I wanted to go home. My mother knew I was pregnant and wouldn't let me go home, saying that she was afraid that something would happen to her brother and sister-in-law.

In order not to conflict with her mother-in-law, she had to endure washing and cooking at home.

In-laws have no running water, so they have to fetch water from the well at the head of the village. When I come home from the hospital, my father-in-law will help me carry water. After returning home for a month, my mother-in-law couldn't see my father-in-law spoiling me so much.

Let me carry the water myself, and said that it would be easy to have children in the future.

I picked two buckets of water to go home, and my stomach hurts.

I told my mother-in-law that I had a stomachache and wanted to go to the hospital. My mother-in-law was not worried at all, saying that I wanted to go to the hospital to hide from laziness.

Aunt Zhang next door came to my house, saw my face and told me to go to the hospital at once. My mother-in-law is still swearing. I felt some liquid coming out, and Aunt Zhang also saw the blood on my pants.

Aunt Zhang asked my mother-in-law to call 120 quickly, and her mother-in-law said it would cost money to come over 120. Before I passed out, I heard my mother-in-law scold me.

As soon as I woke up, my mother-in-law began to blame again: "How much will you spend on this hospitalization? It's all your fault, Aunt Zhang. You insist on calling 120, and this trip is 500 yuan. "

I'm sorry my child didn't leave it. My mother-in-law not only failed to comfort me, but also began to blame me.

"This is really a girl's life, you have already confessed. Can't you protect your children? What shall we do if we marry you home ... "

Listening to my mother-in-law's words, my heart is dying. How can I meet such a mother-in-law

On the third day of hospitalization, my mother-in-law let me leave the hospital again. I don't agree. After everything, I understand that the body is my own.

Before I left the hospital, my mother-in-law left me alone and went home on the grounds that my family was busy with farming.

On the day when her mother-in-law came home, Aunt Zhang came: "I saw your mother-in-law coming home and thought you should be left alone, so I came to see you."

I cried when I thought of my mother-in-law's attitude towards me and my parents' cold-blooded ruthlessness.

Aunt Zhang was anxious: "This child is gone, but your fate has not yet arrived, and there will be children in the future. Don't be sad. "

"You must not eat? I'll cook you some brown sugar and eggs for tonic. This woman has a miscarriage, take good care of yourself. "

Aunt Zhang took care of me in the hospital for a week before coming home. At that time, I was able to walk by myself. She brought a lot of earth eggs and went downstairs to buy some brown sugar. She also left me 500 yuan money to buy whatever I wanted.

During this period, my parents-in-law never showed up. I can't help crying when I eat eggs. My in-laws have more chickens than Aunt Zhang, but she didn't send any to the hospital.

I wrote to Wang Chengjun asking for a divorce. A month later, Wang Chengjun returned to China.

Seeing Wang Chengjun, her mother-in-law started acting again: "Being a soldier is your daughter-in-law's fault, but it has nothing to do with me ..."

I was really fed up and said to Wang Chengjun, "Let's get a divorce."

Wang Chengjun doesn't want to, but I've made up my mind. I don't want to stay in this house for a moment.

Aunt Zhang came to see me when she saw Wang Chengjun coming back. Speaking of my hospitalization, she said, "It's really your mother's fault." Mother-in-law is not so happy, and all kinds of mean words are exported to Aunt Zhang.

Don't leave if you don't want a divorce, but I don't want to stay at my husband's house for a moment.

Wang Chengjun returned to the army, but he gave me money every month and wrote to me every week, always apologizing to me and begging for my forgiveness.

A year later, Wang Chengjun went home. Originally, he planned to be a soldier for a few more years, and when he changed jobs, he could have a job. But I have been ignoring him this year, and he applied for discharge.

Wang Chengjun didn't go back to her in-laws' house, but surrounded me, begging for forgiveness.

Actually, I just hate my in-laws, but I really don't care about Wang Chengjun's divorce.

Wang Chengjun and I made up, and Wang Chengjun opened a barbecue shop, which we operated together. Later, we bought a house and had two children, but I never forgave my in-laws.

When my in-laws come to see the children, I go out shopping or hide in my room. My in-laws offered to come and help, but I refused directly.

Wang Chengjun knew my heart was broken and didn't let her in-laws live in the city.

My in-laws are old now. Wang Chengjun is their son after all, and I will take him and the children home. But every time I go home, I buy something for Aunt Zhang.

I've been thinking that if Aunt Zhang hadn't been there, I might have died long ago. She is my savior.

Today, when I came home, my husband stopped the car. I didn't go back to my husband's house, so I went next door with something I bought for Aunt Zhang.

"This daughter-in-law is really married for nothing. She didn't come to see her in-laws first when she went home, and she didn't know to bring something home to honor her in-laws. Instead, she gave something to an outsider. " The mother-in-law swore, and the husband replied, "Then she has to have in-laws, too."

I can't forgive my in-laws. I don't care about my husband's filial piety, but I can't buy things for my in-laws, let alone treat my in-laws as relatives.

Aunt Zhang advised me to put it down. It's all in the past, and I'm tired of holding grudges all the time. But I don't want to, maybe in this life, I will bear the hatred.

@ Xiao Xie talks about emotions

It's really distressing to see your experience. Meeting such a mother-in-law is also very helpless. It's a good thing your husband is good and has your life now.

Your mother-in-law complains that you treat her worse than an outsider, but has she ever thought that she treats you worse than an outsider?

Xiao Xie thinks that if I meet such a mother-in-law, I will hold a grudge for life, right? Dear friend, if it were you, would you let go? Would you let go of your hatred for your in-laws? Welcome to leave a comment.

I am @ Xiao Xie. I look forward to meeting you in the world of words.