What if you have nothing to say to your parents?

The older you get, the more you will find a generation gap. However, even if you are young, there is a generation gap. After all, you don't live in the same era. But the real generation gap is when self-awareness appears and becomes stronger.

In my opinion, when we fully have our own independent consciousness, it should be after 18 years old. The rebellious period of adolescence really doesn't count. The ability to think independently is not to resist our parents, but when we begin to think rationally. For example, I don't want to eat this apple, not because your mother gave it to you, but because you don't want to listen to your mother, but because you are full now, the apple doesn't taste good, or you don't like it.

When self-awareness becomes stronger and stronger, it will become more and more difficult to talk to parents. Because of different positions, the ideas held are essentially different. As a result, as the saying goes, the bull's head is not right. (Embarrassed) Your mother told you, "It's really a relationship with a cow." You said to your mother, "stubborn and unreasonable." This will lead to deadlock and heated arguments.

But what should I do? A friend who brushed a circle of friends yesterday said, "

The traditional way for housewives in China to be nice to you is to ask you what you want to eat three times a day, and ask you if you slept well last night in the morning. Because other than that, she really can't figure out how to be nice to you. "

Later, I chatted with her. As a matter of fact, we already feel very natural about this phenomenon. Parents don't go deep into our study and work, and all they can mention are the little things in life. The help she can give you is to remind you of your physical condition. On the other hand, this is because parents know more about the importance of good health, but young people don't. We can't tell our parents all the puzzles. First, I am afraid that my parents will worry. Second, parents may not be able to solve it.

But when parents want to talk to you, they are there for you. Even if you can't say anything, tell your parents about your life, especially your mother. Mom cares about your life, of course, you talk more about your life. If you are bored, you should calm down. This is just a concern, a greeting, and a unique maternal love. Greetings from others are always not as warm as those from your mother. Let your parents feel your concern, listen to what they say, and don't make them feel alienated, even if you don't talk, okay?

It is a sunny day in this cold winter, and it is also suitable for parents to bask in the sun on the balcony. Parents can watch TV, and you can brush Weibo. Nothing, this feeling is very comfortable, and it is warm without talking. (Don't ask me how I know, haha)