The harm caused by lying

Lying is wrong. It will cause a lot of harm to people. For example: Lies will be exposed sooner or later. If the lie succeeds, that person will feel lucky and may develop a habit of lying, resulting in inner emptiness and lack of magnanimity.

If he fails to lie, his self-esteem will be damaged and he will lose trust in others. In short, lying is harmful but useless. Of course, the above are malicious and self-serving lies, and white lies can only be done in a certain amount. The most important thing for people is to live openly. People who are aboveboard make people happy.

In fact, lying is the time when a person's subconscious is exposed the most. The reason why you choose to lie is because your subconscious helps you make a judgment - telling the truth will harm my interests! Everyone has the instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Lying is a highly intelligent behavior unique to humans, with the purpose of protecting oneself.

For children, cheating is a needle when they are young, and gold bricks when they are older. "This is the education given to us by the previous generation. Faced with children lying, most parents will find it difficult to accept. Because they are afraid that the word "liar" will appear in their children's consciousness or behavior. In other words, starting from infancy, We are constantly undergoing the "evolution of lies" - as early as infancy, we know how to fake crying, when we are about 1 year old, we learn to conceal the truth, when we are 2 years old, we can scare people, and when we grow up to 5 When you are 10 years old, you can lie without drafting and learn to achieve your goals through flattery.