Why are some people so colorful?

Everyone's birth is not up to us, but the road and the content of life the day after tomorrow depend on us. If you want to see the blue sky, you just need to raise your head buried in your mobile phone for a long time; To breathe the fragrance of flowers and plants, just step out of your feet lying on the sofa for a long time and go outdoors or to the edge of the field; If you want to eat a long-lost Sichuan-style pork, just buy the ingredients and cook it at home, even if the taste is not so authentic. ...

Tolstoy once said that all happy lives are similar. Liang Qichao, on the other hand, told us that bitterness and pleasure are not objective things, but subjective hearts. Two people who were also in prison looked out from the bars of the window at the same time. Some people saw death and some people saw hope after their efforts. Just like in life, we often joke that others are blessed and don't know. In fact, this is the reason.

Instead of admiring others and lamenting others, it is better to have a pair of eyes for discovery and a wise heart to discover and create the wonderful things in your own time and space. At that time, you will be surprised to find that you who once thought you were as humble as dirt turned out to be a landscape in the eyes of others. In life, we always feel that other people's lives are always colorful, while our own life is always full of hardships and sweat.

Why are other people's lives always colorful? Because you don't understand life.

People living in "friends circle"

In the past few years, the rise of WeChat has driven people's interests and hobbies to burst into friends. Eat in the sun, sleep in the sun; Buy a house to bask in, decorate and bask in; Have a cup of tea to bask in, travel to bask in …

Many things in life can be basked in, but there is nothing wrong with it. But slowly, you will find that other people's circle of friends is full of sunshine, opportunities and challenges, and life is full of comfort. Not a famous car, but a mansion; Either exercise or have afternoon tea.

Look back at yourself, work, housework; Housework, work. In addition to being tired, I am still tired. Sometimes Lian Xiao has no strength ... no better than not knowing how bad his life is; The more obvious the contrast, the greater the impact on yourself.

Therefore, there are three kinds of people living in the "circle of friends": one is selling badly and laughing; One is selling goods; One is the leek in the "friend circle". Either harvest the material or harvest the spirit.

Why are other people's lives always colorful? Because you don't understand life.

Other people's lives, other people's faces

Look at other people's lives, and your own life is also recorded bit by bit; Editing into a book also takes time. Some places need polishing, and some places need modification or deletion. There are more people than you who know how to take care of them.

When taking a group of photos, they need to pose, what mood they need to meet, and write a few affectionate words after their own ideas; Or a group of photos, do nothing and put it in a circle of friends. Different people will have different methods, of course, the final presentation effect is also different.

This thing is the same as a woman's makeup. Without makeup, most people look ordinary, but once they put on makeup, the sense of hierarchy immediately appears.

Why are other people's lives always colorful? Because you don't understand life.

I remember watching opera when I was a child. I feel that the ladies on the stage look good no matter how they look, and the young women are basically the same, just good-looking. But one thing I just don't understand is how so many faces look the same. The only difference is that they are fatter or thinner. I'll understand when I grow up. It turned out to be makeup. No matter what your face looks like, as long as you put on makeup, it will be different immediately, which is one of the reasons why women love makeup.

This is life, you need to invest yourself properly. No one's life is born colorful, and no one's life is always dull. No matter how ordinary life is, there will be moments of joy, crying, anxiety and hesitation. How to reconcile life and how to make up for it is up to you.

Just like a waiter, chatting. The difference is that when you are chatting, people are sorting out their own videos and photos; When you complain, people are busy planning their day's work and life.

As long as you like it, as long as you want to do it, you have time!

People who know life are undoubtedly masters of fine time management. Know how to use time to do what you think is meaningful. For example, if you play drama and brush Weibo, they will use it to work overtime; When you are asleep, they are working overtime; While you are eating, drinking and having fun at festivals, they are still working overtime.

Why are other people's lives always colorful? Because you don't understand life.

The only thing that makes you see the beauty of not working overtime is what you can find time to do, and send a circle of friends by the way. Their circles are always full of positive energy: they are always glamorous, healthy, reading, cooking, taking part in love activities, or taking classes and taking exams.

It can be said that they are just patting, will they turn back? Eighty or ninety percent of people don't even know what they took, or what happened with that. It is said that taking pictures in the past will make people nostalgic and occasionally recall the past. However, the current circle of friends means nothing to themselves except letting others know what they have done.

Therefore, a seemingly colorful life is not necessarily more interesting than our quiet life. The content of our life depends on people.

Turn life into fantasy, and then turn fantasy into reality. Madame Curie

What is your life like? You have to plan first, then dress up, so that you can show your ideas. How can we expect reality to appear out of thin air without doing it yourself?

Instead of fishing in the forest, it is better to retreat and build a net.

Looking at other people's lives, I always feel colorful, because the bits and pieces in my life have not been sorted out. No matter how quiet the life is, there are joys and sorrows, and there are also separations; No matter how quiet the life is, there are breezes and ripples.

As long as you have the heart, it is not always colorful.

There is an aunt in her sixties in the community. After dinner every day, she packed her equipment and went dancing in the park 2 miles away from home. The neighbor asked her why she ran so far. She said that she likes to dance fast-paced square dance, which is also found in the square over there; Besides, there are many kinds of dances there. You can dance square dance, social dance, etc. There are many choices.

The neighbor asked her how she got there. She said to go by bike every day.

Why are other people's lives always colorful? Because you don't understand life.

Look at this life. Are you familiar with it? Have you ever cared about its color? Occasionally, many people dance in the community, whether it is ghost dance or ballroom dance. There are many people involved. Did you participate?

The rhythm of life is your own, and it will never take on a different look. And through your appearance, to present different aspects, that is, a colorful life.

Contentment is also life.

Sometimes, your sighs and complaints will be edited into videos to make others happy. Therefore, life has always been colorful, except for being good at discovering and then learning to be satisfied.

Many people can't help complaining about this and that; Of course, as long as it is a person, there will be complaints. Please think back after complaining. Is that really all?

It's true that you are tired of work, isn't it just making money to support your family? It is true that you are tired, but your home is still there, isn't it? Whether it is a small family or everyone. Even a person, everything he does must have a beneficiary.

Some people say that life with makeup is colorful; Some people say that the eternal theme is plain life. Anyway, everything has advantages and disadvantages.

Why are other people's lives always colorful? Because you don't understand life.

Make-up is the scenery in front of you, and plain face is the time to solidify.

Nothing is eternal, if there is, it is a state of mind and a realm.