Is it normal for a husband to earn money to support his family and a wife to earn money by herself?

Seeing this topic, I thought of a sentence: "marry a Han, dress and eat." This means that after a woman gets married, her husband is responsible for all the expenses of food, clothing, housing and transportation. Of course, this is the old society. Women's status is not high, they can't go out to earn money, and it is understandable for men to raise them.

There is also a saying in today's society: "You are responsible for earning money to support your family, and I am responsible for beauty." It means that as a husband, men should shoulder the responsibility of supporting their families, and women are only responsible for dressing themselves up and giving men a long face. Of course, in today's society, a man may not be able to keep a beautiful wife at home. A man with a successful career is often "the red flag at home is not falling, and the colorful flags are fluttering outside." The wife in charge of beauty is not feeling well. Instead of worrying about livelihood and money, I worry about catching a mistress every day. Perhaps, the red flag at home will fall, and the red flag outside will become a colorful flag.

If the husband earns money to support his family, the wife earns money by herself. I feel this phenomenon is normal. After all, the husband of a family usually earns more money. And the wife, due to female physiological reasons, will be pregnant and have children, and naturally there will not be much income. If the husband earns enough money to support his family, the wife can earn money by herself.

I feel that as a woman, I should not only earn money, but also raise children and take care of my family. Now, women are more tired than men As a wife, it is understandable to spend her husband's money. I earn money by myself, which shows that my life is more valuable, so why not?

Now there has always been an era of "marrying Han, dressing and eating" in my family. I can't help it It's been ten years. I can't go out to work because both children are taking care of themselves. It is to do WeChat business at home, open Taobao and earn a little money. To tell the truth, the money is not enough for my own consumption. Now that the children are older, I think I can find a job that doesn't delay taking care of the children even if I go out to work. I certainly can't make much money. This is the family situation. My income and my husband support this family together. I feel that my income is really a drop in the bucket for the huge expenses at home.

And the money I earn now is enough for my own consumption and expenditure. Just don't let my husband keep it. A woman who sacrificed her youth for her family and delayed her work, I wonder how many people are still calculating the money she earned, and how many people have the heart to let her support her family with her husband.

The husband earns money to support his family, and the wife earns money by herself. I feel good. As a woman and wife, I can support myself and take care of my family. Shouldn't I be satisfied as a husband?