If you say a good word, say it if you get a cheap one.

"Being a good person" means "I didn't really get your benefits …" or "I didn't receive them …" Pretending that you don't really want benefits is essentially an act of showing that you don't compete for and are not interested in benefits, which is a kind of humility and a social instinct. This is to be good in front of others and to please others. You and I do it every day. When you say "Oh, no, no", it shows that you are not interested in interests, which is a kind of "courtesy" (everyone knows it is false and adults are hypocritical). For example, a person is cutting a cake in his room. You just go in and people ask you if you want it. You are hungry, but you say, "Oh, no, no, this is good. If someone says, alas. He smiled and said, "Hehe, actually, I don't really want it ..." Then he snapped a bite of "Mmm, it's delicious"-this is "taking advantage, making things easy", and "being polite" should be expressed before receiving benefits. Cheap is easy to handle affairs, that is, be polite after receiving the benefits, make it look fake, and you get the benefits. This kind of politeness is obviously false (people feel it is obvious). If you are polite before accepting the benefit, everyone will understand it and no one may pursue it. If you say "Oh, no, no, how dare you" in real time, no one will give it to you. At this time, you will think, this guy really doesn't give it to me, damn me, I'm just being polite, stingy; The other party also knows that you are "fake", so they will say you're welcome, but if you really take it, the other party will talk to themselves. This guy is really rude to me, greedy bastard! You also know that the other person's "don't mention it" is "fake", so you will carefully accept the other person's "mention it" and say thank you. So both sides know this is false, this is the dark world of adults ...) You just make this hypothesis clear and make it more false. )

Ah, talk too much, pretend to be cute o (∩ _ ∩) O. What is the tacit understanding of social idioms like this? Courtesy is reciprocated. It stands to reason that everyone should be banned for 18 years (in fact, it will be understood sooner or later). In eighteen years, only some movies, some games, some materials and some adult behaviors were really banned. According to this standard, it is actually meaningless. So if someone tells me where to go now: don't mention it, feel free to stay here, I will take it as saying, "Be polite ~ this is not your home."

Although it is a kind of * * *, Asia is generally a place with a high degree of socialization. For example, China called it a country of etiquette (not without reason), and the Japanese all followed a strict hierarchy. Even so, I still hope to see everyone keep their own nature and enjoy their innocence. After all, people live for their own happiness, don't do it deliberately. Social instinct is one of human nature, which has existed since childhood, but not necessarily. Finally, don't forget to ask questions. Give me a cheap and lovely explanation. Hehe, actually I don't want it either.

2. What do you mean by "selling well after getting cheap"? Literally means to say or do unreasonable things in order to get benefits.

Also known as "get cheap and sell well." Good boy, this is against reason.

Derivation means that when I got a bargain, I was extremely happy, but I still pretended that it was not what I wanted. For example, someone kindly gave him a good gift, and he was very happy after receiving it, but he didn't say thank you, just said that there were already many at home.

Cheap is also a common practice of businesses, that is, taking advantage of others and pretending to suffer. The specific explanation is that the seller sold you a commodity at a high price and made huge profits, but he said, "I will sell it to you at this price, and we can lose a lot!" " It gives you a feeling of getting a big bargain, so that is to say, to tell the truth, you are taking advantage of others and pretending to be cheated.

3. How to deal with people who are cheap and easy to sell? The attitude of newcomers in the workplace should be: 1) low-key life, high-profile work.

Newcomers who have just entered the workplace should forget their academic qualifications, forget their past honors, treat their work and colleagues as novices, especially those with lower academic qualifications than you, and put down their airs, lofty standards and be kind to others. Everything you encounter in your work, no matter how big or small, should be done with your heart as your own, so as to achieve the best effect you can. In this way, you can not only do a good job, but also learn more.

2) Act like a beggar, and feel like God. Treat people you meet at work with an open mind, whether they are leaders or colleagues.

From them, you can not only learn how to do things, but also gain something in life. Be generous and tolerant inside. Both leaders and colleagues are human beings. Everyone makes mistakes. You should adjust your mentality, forgive them and learn from their mistakes, so that you won't make the same mistakes again.

4. My mother said that I had no conscience, and I was still cheating after picking up the biggest bargain. Please help me to see if this is the case. You do a good job, but you all look at the benefits of others with a magnifying glass and ignore your own benefits.

They all got a great bargain, and you and your husband also got a lot of benefits. Love telling the truth, not getting angry. )

Personally, I think this is the best arrangement (house), the way of family members, and it is not difficult to spend some time and attention to please my mother. Next time her father says something, just follow her. Look, the house is not for you. The two old people are so kind to you. You must not destroy the only blood relationship in the world because of this.

Calling you "black heart" makes you careless when you smile. Who let me have a good mother who is willing to make me black? As for your sister, as long as mom is happy, she won't say anything. And you just giggled and kept silent, and your brother-in-law ignored it.