I haven’t contacted my ex-husband for many years, but he suddenly contacted me today. He borrowed money from me. He was like this when we were together. He borrowed money to live like this. He is sti

I haven’t contacted my ex-husband for many years, but he suddenly contacted me today. He borrowed money from me. He was like this when we were together. He borrowed money to live like this. He is still like this now.

Here, first of all, you need to know your ex-husband’s character and whether he has ever repaid the money he borrowed. And is the amount of money he borrowed large? If he borrows and repays, then it is not difficult to borrow again, which shows that his character is still good. If his character is okay, then you can lend it to him if you scold him, but this kind of thing can only happen once at most. After all, everyone’s money is not brought by the wind, and everyone has difficulties. Just tell him directly. If you continue to be like this, you will have no future at all. Sometimes it's good to let him accept reality without being too tactful.