Dad's flattering made her daughter's heroic journey.

The film begins with a black-and-white snowflake TV in a small Indian village in 1988. The film narrates and describes my uncle, Pelgas, the father of the protagonist, from the third-person perspective of my nephew Omkar. Finally, it ends with dzogchen, my daughter whose guitar won the championship in an international competition. This is exciting and encouraging.

? Dad starred in amirkhan. His works are classic and deeply rooted in people's hearts, including My God, Mysterious Superstar and Bollywood. In Wrestle, Dad, Dad Perrin changed from a handsome national champion to an old and frail but bloated man. amirkhan is an Indian national treasure. He is perfect for the role of father. The whole film is the ultimate interpretation of dad's perfect image, the complete father's love, and the father's support to make her daughter's heroic journey.

? In the modern family unit where fatherly love is seriously lacking, how to give full play to the role of the father and realize the successful and happy life of children is of great educational and enlightening significance.

1. Dad is Bole, a coach.

Dad has always had a dream of being a champion. At that time, the country was unable to support the development of sports, and he was forced to retire because of his livelihood. He failed to win a gold medal for his country, nor did his wish come true. I put my trust in my future son and expect him to help me finish it. God did not give him a son, but gave him a daughter who inherited his father's fine genes. When the daughters were bullied to fight back against their male classmates and complained at home, the father discovered his daughter's talent potential in wrestling. This dream of really seeing my daughter Bole, which was about to give up, was rekindled at that moment. This discovery made my father ecstatic and determined.

? He is the daughter's Bole and the best coach for her daughters. It's really not easy to change the roles of dad and coach. He should not only give his daughter a complete father's love, but also strictly demand her as a coach, give her scientific and reasonable sports training, and take into account the difficulties encountered in her training, do a good job in her inner construction and ensure her nutrition.

? This also fully reflects his father's wisdom and alertness. He is really a master of solving all kinds of problems.

? In order to supplement the nutrition for the children, he ignored his wife's objection and negotiated with the chicken vendor to solve the dietary nutrition problem. After being refused to enter the wrestling field, he personally built a wrestling field for his daughter in the paddy field of the yellow land, as well as a sunshade, which fully reflected his father's nuance; The daughters said it was inconvenient to wear skirts for training. He asked his nephew to bring clothes and sew them for his daughter. He can't cook himself, so let his nephew learn to cook to ensure that his daughter has enough nutrition; He knew that his daughters must have sparring partners to improve their skills, so he called his nephew over. The daughter needs to overtraining gradually on the wrestling mat. He went to the sports bureau for sponsorship. After being rejected, he built a new wrestling ground for his daughter with a blanket pad. After being stopped by the school from letting his daughter go out to school, he presciently gave her a mobile phone, and by watching the videos of competitors' previous games, he carefully analyzed and gave telephone guidance ... This father is really wise, and nothing seems to beat him.

2. Dad is her daughter's persistent guardian.

Father's love is the sky, when you are young, it will hold up a sky to shelter you from the wind and rain; Fatherly love is an open hand. When you fall, hold you tightly, hold you to the stage you want to reach, and then quietly retreat behind the scenes; Father's love is a mountain. Whether you look at it or not, it is like a mountain, firmly there, giving you dependence and support.

My father is well aware of the laws of social existence, and he is far-sighted. He clearly knows that if we follow the tradition and let nature take its course, our daughter's fate will be the same as that of other girls, and they will get married early and stay together for life. Daughters are too young to stop and change their fate. Dad must stand up and help children make choices that make their future more likely.

Dad's love for his daughter is deep, subtle, delicate, social darkness, secular prejudice, and he silently shouldered it, taking care of his daughter's self-esteem in every detail to prevent them from being hurt.

Before I decided to train my daughters, my father did not forget to take them to eat spicy food because of strict diet control. When my nephew won his daughter's first sparring match, my father didn't accuse her of being proud of her, but said to her, "Why don't we try?" The details highlight her father's love for her.

Guitar took part in the competition for the first time, although she was still proud of her failure. Her father looked at her with a loving smile and said, "Never mind, let's go", and kept the special prize of 50 rupees banknotes won in the first competition intact.

Father is most angry about the wedding of a girl of 14 years old. His raised hand finally fell on his nephew. During several trainings, he saw that his daughter was not focused enough and her raised hand fell gently. He doesn't want to hit his daughters, but he just wants to give them a warning when necessary.

Fatherly love is implicit and profound. In the whole movie, the father didn't say "I love you" directly in front of his daughter, but his love for his daughter runs through.

Dad taught them to "save themselves" from the beginning, because dad may not be able to help and protect you at the same time. Dad told them to save themselves, not just talking but teaching them the ways to save themselves step by step.

3. Dad is a successful example.

Dad himself is a successful model, but due to the real social situation, the national environment does not support sports, and he was forced to retire, but retirement did not kill his dream of winning glory for his country and winning the world championship. The medals, medals and honors on the wall recorded dad's great achievements. Dad has reached the peak of his time. Tiger father has no son, tiger father has no son, and the children will make new achievements and climb new heights.

4. Dad is the giver of strength and spiritual leader.

? Dad is a giver of strength and a spiritual leader. This film vividly shows his perseverance and courage. He is confident but not grandiose. When the film first met a national sports element provocateur, he met the challenge humbly and quietly taught the provocateur a lesson with just the right strength.

? Dad's sense of strength overflowed all aspects of the film, especially when the daughters rebelled for the first time to attend a companion's wedding. Dad was furious, and the daughters felt very wronged, complaining about the hardships that Dad had trained himself as a wrestler. In this lively wedding, the beautiful and sad bride burst into tears and said, "I really hope to have such a father." This sentence surprised Guitar and Barbita, and then her words awakened the sisters. "At least he is thinking of you, otherwise you will be like me. From birth, you are destined to deal with pots and pans. You have endless housework all day. When you 14 years old, you will get married to lighten the burden of this family. In the end, you will be sent to a man you have never met and spend the rest of your life for him. This is my life. At least your father regards you as his child, for you to fight against the whole world and for you to endure the ridicule of the whole world. Why? What's wrong with him just so that you can control your future?

This episode made the daughters fully understand their father's painstaking efforts and stopped complaining about his strictness. Instead, I stimulated my inner motivation and started active training.

Next, under the leadership of his father, Guitar and Barbita took part in the competition and won. Their frequent successful experiences have made them gain a sense of value and identity in wrestling, and the attitude of people around them towards themselves has changed from ridicule and sarcasm at first to admiration and respect for them, and they have followed the trend of idolization.

Before the guitar participated in the most important world championship, she still longed for her father to give her a strategy. This time, instead of telling her specific strategies, her father earnestly gave her the meaning of winning: that is, let people remember you. If you win the silver medal, you will be forgotten sooner or later. If you win the gold medal, you will become a role model, and the role model will never be forgotten by people and never see them (referring to the little girl fans who come here). If you win tomorrow, the victory belongs not only to you, but to all the girls like them in Qian Qian, and to all the girls who are considered inferior to boys and can only deal with pots and pans and spend their lives together.

Tomorrow's game is the most important. Because your opponent is not only Australians, but also all those who look down on girls.

At the beginning of the game, dad was framed by the coach and locked in the warehouse. Dad didn't show up at the guitar championship. Guitar can't see dad. She's a little flustered. She thinks she can't live without his support and encouragement. But it still faces the challenge calmly, and the competition process is thrilling.

? In the last 1 game, it was almost more difficult for Gita to turn the tables. With 22 seconds left in the game, she thought of being thrown into the water in her early years. Dad's words: Geeta, remember that dad can't come to save you every time. I can only teach you how to fight. The rest is up to you. Come on, you can do it. "

The strength and spiritual guidance given by my father went deep into the bone marrow, and the belief that "you can do it" was deeply implanted into the subconscious, supporting and inspiring my daughter, and injecting a shot in the arm for Gita. Dad's continuous training keeps her calm and comfortable. In order to win the game, Gita had to score 5 points at a time and beat her opponent by 1 point. Dad's early admonition appeared in the picture, "It is difficult to get 5 points, but it is not impossible." In the end, less than 10 second, my father's voice said, "You should try to figure out your opponent's intentions, make a fake move first, and make a diversion." Under the guidance of her father's spirit, she skillfully and quickly went around her opponent's back, picked up her opponent's waist and threw an elegant arc from her head. The super slow-motion broadcast shocked almost everyone. The applause thundered and Gita won. Dad, who is still in the warehouse at the moment, has nothing else to do. Dad prayed silently for his daughter, which is what he can do for her. India's national anthem resounded throughout the audience. Dad heard the faint song and his eyes filled with tears. He has been waiting for this moment 10 years.

This is the power of a father. For the sake of his daughter, he dared to confront the whole world, not afraid of the ridicule and sarcasm of the world, not afraid of other people's comments, not afraid of the coach's deliberate difficulties, facing difficulties, cutting through difficulties, and leading his daughter to break through the shackles and prejudices of customs and walk towards the podium of the world champion.

5. Dad is the maker of rules and the destroyer of authority.

? After discovering my daughter's talent, my father decided to train her as a wrestler. Father's rules are beyond doubt and even seem harsh and unreasonable. My father will directly give the order "Come to me at 5 o'clock tomorrow morning". Such clear and unquestionable rules let the daughters clearly know the boundaries. In fact, only when there are boundaries and settings can they feel safe. Although the daughters were puzzled at first, they even thought that their father was like a devil, which was terrible. But the growth of a child needs both unconditional love and unconditional love. The unconditional love given by my mother is like a blanket, wrapped, hugged and tolerated; The conditional love given by dad helps children to shape stable high self-esteem, and also makes them realize that it takes effort, not waiting, to gain respect and recognition from others, and the gold medal will not fall out of thin air, so it needs enough effort.

? However, dad did not blindly abuse his power. After the guitar entered the national sports center for training, the different skills training methods of the coach and dad made the guitar begin to suspect that dad's skills were out of date, and instead recognized the coach's methods. Based on his deep understanding of the guitar, Dad knows that some of the coach's methods are not suitable for the guitar, but he still gives the guitar a chance to try and make mistakes instead of suppressing or accusing the guitar of having to listen to himself. After the guitar suffered many setbacks according to the coach's method, the guitar reconsidered.

Fatherly love sometimes seems harsh, unreasonable, indifferent, even like a demon. But it also highlights dad's rationality, temperance, forbearance, not explaining himself, and fatherly love is inclusive.

6. Dad is a consistent trustor and supporter of his daughter.

? Dad's trust laid a solid foundation for his daughter's sense of self-worth. Dad always trusts his daughter. Dad's trust in his daughter, from the moment he discovered her talent, told his mother with certainty that "they are born wrestlers" and affirmed their talent and ability; The father wants to increase nutrition for his daughters, communicate with the vendors selling chickens, and show his trust in his daughters. "1 day, Gita and Barbita will become famous wrestlers."

After Gita won the national championship, she will go to the National Sports Institute to concentrate on training and exercise. Father felt uneasy about the coach, and even his father, who has always been in high spirits, began to question the coach. It turns out that my father's worry is necessary. In the subsequent training and competition, the coach and father have completely different ways to Gita, which shows that the father has always trusted his daughter. When Jita participated in the World Championships, the coach accused and even crushed Jita. After Jita's losing streak, the coach gave Jita a devastating crush after pretending to be relieved. The coach said: It can only be said that someone is doomed to miss the world championship. Gita began to doubt herself. During the training, the coach thought that if Gita could not get the bronze medal at 55kg, it would be required to downgrade Gita to 5 1kg. And my father firmly believes that Gita 55kg won the championship without any problems. And provide effective support, even watch the videos of previous world champions, analyze and guide Gita one by one, get to know each other and know yourself.

Guitar briefly realized that after the coach was frustrated, she was also depressed and suffered a heavy blow. She is ashamed to face her father. Encouraged by Barbita, Guitar got in touch with his father again and cried and apologized with him. The father, who has always been strong, burst into tears, and the father and daughter are reconciled. When Guitar indicated that she needed her father's support, her father immediately set about giving her support and guidance, and gave her unconditional support.

? Such a father, if he is not perfect, what should the perfect father look like?

Daughter was not a hero from the beginning. With the help of her father, she became a daughter, eventually changed her destiny, became a hero and became a role model for women.

? Daughter's mental journey has the following stages, taking Birgitta as an example:

1, blindly obey the authority stage. The first time was because I was bullied and fought with a male classmate, and I was complained by my parents at home. The two sisters are timid, waiting for a lesson. Self-awareness is not yet conscious, and I have awe of my father.

2, the first 1 rebellion, self-awareness budded. Dad's harsh devil-like training made the two sisters unbearable, and their rebellious hearts quietly rose and made some destructive little moves, but Dad pretended to be confused and covered up the past. To truly understand dad's good intentions is to understand dad from the mouth of a sad bride of the same age at the wedding, and the small flame of resistance quietly extinguished itself.

3. Obey authority and identify with dad. Inspired the inner motivation, followed his father step by step, and frequently gained the peak experience of success.

4. Doubt authority again and rebel for the second time. He won the national championship in Gita, finally got rid of his father's "talons" and entered the national team training, and tasted the wonderful taste of freedom. Once he tasted freedom, his ego began to swell. Faced with the different training methods of the coach and his father, he was once in chaos. Gita began to rebel against her father's authority and obey her coach. In several games, he questioned the coach only after repeated battles and defeats.

5. Recognize the authority of dad again. The reality gave the guitar a heavy blow, and the coach's suppression and questioning also made the guitar begin to doubt itself. Persuaded by her sister Barbita, the guitar got in touch with her father again, and her father's effective and accurate training made her make rapid progress in training. Guitar once again realized her father's authority.

6. The road to independence, self-salvation and miracle. Dad grinds a sword for ten years, deliberately cultivates his daughter, lifts her to the world stage, wins gold perfectly, and realizes the heroic journey of women.

? Scott parker mentioned in The Road Few People Walk that true love is not simply giving, but also includes appropriate refusal, timely praise, appropriate criticism, appropriate argument, necessary encouragement, gentle comfort and effective urging. The father in the movie did it. He is perfect, impeccable and unconditionally supports his daughter. The fatherly love given by the father is also solid, great and inclusive.

? At the same time, the film also gives the formula of children's success, that is: children's high achievement = parents' unconditional love and support+high expectations+absolute trust from authoritative sources+deliberate practice+children's peak experience of success. This is something that every parent who wants his child to succeed and become a phoenix deserves to ponder.

This film is not just a myth about wrestling created by father and daughter; More importantly, my father dared to break the unreasonable concept, left his contempt and prejudice for women at his feet, and achieved a miraculous journey of the heroine's journey through his all-round and powerful support. It also lights a bright light for many women who are eager to change their destiny and have more choices, points out a way for women to realize their journey, and ignites the hope of many women to change their destiny.