If you have many complaints about your stepfather, what will you do?

Influenced by traditional ideas, some men pay more attention to blood relationship, so their attitude towards non-biological ones is much lighter, and most men are not good at expressing their feelings. Therefore, we can first find out whether the post-dad is such a character, cold and not close to people, but gentle in his bones; Or just for you, or even did something too much?

Anyway, since mother chose him to live with you, in order to make family life harmonious and beautiful, and not let mother get caught in the middle, you can try from the following aspects:

First, communicate with your mother. As a middleman, mom wants you to live in harmony with your stepfather, live a happy family life, and get rid of the pain of your last marriage completely. You can communicate your thoughts with your mother, so that you can know your stepfather better and ask your mother to give you advice. At the same time, after your mother knows your real thoughts, she will also communicate with your stepfather, so that the family can resolve misunderstandings and get along better.

Second, take the initiative to communicate with your stepfather. Communication is always the premise of solving problems. Without communication, misunderstandings and contradictions will only get deeper and deeper. If my stepfather is a reasonable man, he will listen to your thoughts. The more communication, the closer the heart will be, and the easier the relationship will be established. Of course, if my stepfather is an arrogant and unreasonable person, it will be futile to do more and talk more, and only try to get out of the way in the future.

Third, multi-family gatherings, entertainment, outings, etc. You can let your mother be the middleman and organize more family activities. In a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, going to the next level is most suitable for heart-to-heart communication and communication.

So, try to be more active. Everyone is meat, and your stepfather will definitely change his attitude towards you. Of course, if the stepfather is a particularly mixed and unreasonable person, it is useless to do anything, and it is difficult for you to change him. Only by strengthening yourself and learning to protect yourself. Of course, your mother shouldn't jump into such a fire pit when she gets married for the second time. Since I chose this man, I naturally have his gentleness, kindness and consideration.