Husband's cheating is the most ruthless way to rectify. This is the most ruthless revenge.

Love pays attention to fate. As the old saying goes, "A hundred years' boat ride will bring you a thousand years' pillow sleep." When we meet someone, the chances of falling in love with him are actually small.

In The Story of Seven Pa, Xue Zhaofeng tells us through probability that it is impossible to meet the most suitable person in one's life. Teacher Ma Dong immediately went on to say: Everything is normal. According to Xue Zhaofeng, love at first sight is the only thing in this life, but many people watch romantic dramas as an illusion.

? If there are two people in the world who are the only ones in each other's lives, they will never meet again in this life (to scare the baby). Because there are 7 billion people in the world. Imagine that 7 billion mung beans are put in a big barrel, and there are two red beans, which are the only ones in each other's lives. When this vat is running, the probability of two red beans meeting in a short life is almost zero.

Professor Xue also concluded: "The people we have made a promise are actually just those around us who seem to feel that it is almost time to choose. Those who believe in the only person in this life are actually just a misunderstanding of contingency.

Sometimes, fate is doomed from the beginning. Some couples meet by chance, two duckweeds in the world, but one day they meet and know each other because of a small matter, while some couples may have gone through many difficulties and dangers from meeting to entering the marriage hall before they make a positive result.

Take my own love, for example. My husband and I are online lovers, and it is purely accidental that we can get to know each other and fall in love. My university is in the northwest, and he is in the southeast, out of reach, but we met through Weibo. It was quite accidental. Of course, we finally came together because we both worked hard for each other. We met online in 12. I came to see you after graduating from college in 13, and then ended up in a different place. /kloc-married in 0/6,/kloc-gave birth in 0/7, and still live happily together.

I sometimes wonder, why did we meet? Think about it, there is only the word "fate".

Love is an accidental and inevitable combination, and couples in marriage also need the match of fate. Whether it can be maintained depends on whether we know how to cherish it. Since it is so difficult to meet each other, why torture each other and lead to separation?

However, many times it is particularly regrettable. Once a couple has been married for a long time, they may forget their original love and stop loving each other as before. At this time, they are afraid that some people can't hold on and do things that hurt each other, so that two people finally have to face the ending of "divorce".

Marriage has a bottom line, and the more people who love each other, the neater they are.

I told a story about a divorced woman. She is very decisive in the face of her husband's betrayal. Friends around her felt sorry for her divorce and thought that she let her husband go too easily, but she said, "Only in this way is the most ruthless protection. If you break it, stop, don't make trouble, and let yourself get the upper hand. "

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The truth of divorced women: in the face of her husband's betrayal, this is the most vicious revenge. Liu Jing and Cheng Peng were childhood friends. They went to primary school and junior high school together. Although they went to different high schools, coincidentally, they actually attended the same university. Even if they are not in the same college, they often meet.

Because they are far away from their hometown, basically they don't go home on holidays, so they often have dinner together. Liu Jing actually has a crush on Cheng Peng. Growing up, no matter what Cheng Peng did, Liu Jing would support him very much. She likes Cheng Peng from the bottom of her heart.

They spent a lot of time together in college, and friends around them thought they were lovers. In the long run, they simply "pretended to do it" and established a love relationship. In recent years, their relationship has been very stable.

In Liu Jing's mind, she and Cheng Peng have a special fate. Since childhood, she has followed Cheng Peng, and Cheng Peng is her "the only thrill".

After graduating from college, they worked in the same city, and when they reached the age of talking about marriage, they got married as they wished. Up to now, they have been married for ten years. The son is seven years old and the daughter is two years old. The family is very happy. Because of their different jobs, Liu Jing pays more attention to family, while Cheng Peng is very busy. After promotion, I often go out for entertainment and always go on business trips, which lasts for more than half a month.

Liu Jing understood this, but one day when Cheng Peng came back, there was a woman's lipstick in his bag, and Cheng Peng didn't give it to her. Liu Jing became suspicious of Cheng Peng. In addition, Cheng Peng went on business trips twice and stayed out for nearly a week each time. Liu Jing, who once trusted Cheng Peng very much, became restless.

However, she was afraid that random suspicion would hurt the feelings of two people. Liu Jing chose to speak first and complained to Cheng Peng: "Do you think it is appropriate for you to stay at home after working overtime all night? And every time I go on a business trip, I have to go for ten days and a half and never come back. Don't you miss home? "

However, Cheng Peng gave her a deep hug and said, "How can I be homesick? But you also know the work, am I not very helpless? Then I promise to bring you some gifts to make it up to you every business trip in the future, okay? You know me better. "

From Cheng Peng's words, Liu Jing didn't hear anything strange, but she began to secretly look at her husband's mobile phone. While taking a bath in Cheng Peng, Liu Jing directly checked his chat records, phone records and text messages. She did see some clues from it. Apparently, every time Cheng Peng deletes the chat record, she replaces the woman's note with a customer. However, when she opened this woman's circle of friends, she saw Cheng Peng hugging this woman intimately, and Liu Jing's heart was about to break.

Originally, Liu Jing wanted to directly question Cheng Peng with her mobile phone. After her daughter suddenly cried, she quickly put down her mobile phone and went to her daughter's room.

That night, on the grounds that her daughter couldn't sleep, she didn't sleep with Cheng Peng and thought about it all night.

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A woman is stupid, knowing that she already has the answer in her heart, but she still doesn't hit the south wall and doesn't look back. Liu Jing must prove with her own eyes that she doesn't want to be cheated.

The next day, I secretly followed Cheng Peng to the company. This is really not what she expected. The woman Cheng Peng met halfway saw in a circle of friends yesterday. Seeing two people get on the bus, Liu Jing almost collapsed. Just when she wanted to have a serious talk with Cheng Peng, Cheng Peng said in the evening that she might be late.

Seeing his son doing his homework and his daughter playing beside him, Liu Jing suddenly felt that he should calm down. It was late, and Cheng Peng came back. He is dizzy. Liu Jing secretly recorded the chat between them with her mobile phone and casually wrote down the woman's phone number.

Because Liu Jing and Cheng Peng were childhood friends, and her mother-in-law and parents knew each other, she told her parents about it first. Parents are eager to rush over and settle accounts with Cheng Peng directly, but Liu Jing doesn't want to do so. She also told her in-laws, invited everyone to dinner in the evening, and invited the woman in the name of Cheng Peng. When Cheng Peng came back, Liu Jing was already crying in the restaurant, which made her parents-in-law feel very distressed. Liu Jing took out his printed divorce agreement and said to Cheng Peng, "Divorce."

Cheng Peng was also surprised and asked guiltily, "What's the matter?"

Liu Jing directly showed him the screenshots of the saved chat records, and the woman arrived soon. Looking at the third party standing beside Cheng Peng, her in-laws stood firmly on Liu Jing's side. Liu Jing is determined to get a divorce, but her in-laws won't. My father-in-law flew into a rage and slapped Cheng Peng. Finally, Liu Jing's parents came to pull one. Finally, Liu Jing insisted that Cheng Peng sign the divorce agreement that night. She also got a considerable divorce fee and a wedding room. Since then, Cheng Peng has given her child support every month.

She insisted on raising her children by herself and refused to be raised by her in-laws, saying, "If you give your children to such a stepmother, it is my children who suffer. You don't want your children to be bullied by such an irresponsible father and such a woman, so you can only let them follow me. "

Everyone has different views on Liu Jing. My best friend thinks that she doesn't love her husband that much, because she can handle such things without making noise and at the most appropriate time, divorce her husband immediately without giving him a chance. Half of the property and children in the house belong to her, and her husband has to pay alimony. Finally, she became a good man in front of her in-laws.

But only Liu Jing knows that a woman who doesn't cry or make trouble is the most chilling. The more she loves someone, the less she can tolerate betrayal.

She said: "The most sad thing about divorce is me. I still love him, but I can't stand his betrayal. I have to think about my children. What will I do if I love another person and the other person is unfaithful to me? Since divorce is our doomed ending, he should pay the corresponding price. "

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For most couples, women are most likely to have problems in their relationships. Once they know that they have been betrayed by their lover, they will lose their temper, think nothing and never think for themselves. As a result, the more reluctant I am, the more sad I am, the more noisy I am, and I can never calm down, so that all I do in the end is stupid.

Therefore, please remember that ending the wrong marriage is an unfortunate ending and a good beginning. Divorce is not the worst outcome of marriage. I'm afraid I can't get along with myself, and I'm afraid that the last quarrel will lead to both people and money.

I used to read My First Half Life about Luo Zijun's divorce. I don't understand why He Han should teach such a simple thing as divorce. From asking for a house to asking for money, I need more support. If Luo Zijun didn't calm down later, her quiet life would be more bitter in the future. It was the divorce that brought up Luo Zijun.

In marriage, a woman must be independent and confident. Even in the face of family changes, she must be calm and not let herself lose anything at will. If you want to sacrifice your feelings in the end, you should also sacrifice something valuable.

In fact, everyone knows the cost of extramarital affairs, but some people will try. It is nothing more than because husband and wife have been together for a long time, their own selfish desires and lack of passion in life. If this situation is normal and inevitable with the passage of time, I'm afraid I will be possessed and go astray at this time, and don't put extramarital affairs above my family.

We often say that we should put family first, men should know responsibility, women should know loyalty, and if we want to "do what we don't know", for many men, cheating is a temptation and a short-lived sweetness. You can be happy for a while, but you may not be happy for a lifetime. You always have to pay for your irresponsible behavior.

Liu Jing said, "What is the most ruthless revenge in the face of her husband's betrayal? Don't cry, don't make trouble, think for yourself, and it will be broken when it is time to break. Serves you right. As for the rest, it's none of your business. I have loved and hated, and after the divorce, I know. "

Marriage is not a child's play, and a wife is not a product. There is no shelf life, and you can't change it if you want. In the face of temptation and selfish desires, think well and review yourself, and don't be carried away by temporary passion.

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