Children are introverted and dare not visit relatives every year. How to guide them?

In this case, parents need to lower their bodies and communicate with their children from the perspective of a child, and children communicate with other children, so that children can communicate with others better and better.

My Dabao used to be introverted! Every time I visit my relatives, I can't hide in the car. When I come down, I need someone to hold me. I refused to play with others and went to answer the questions of my elders! You talk about him, he cries, which is a headache!

Later, it was found that children and children are the easiest to communicate, and it is also a breakthrough to open up introversion and get close to relatives and friends. Once, I saw my child with a cousin, and the child kept looking at the Altman three-dimensional card in his cousin's hand. So, I took the opportunity to ask my cousin to show his toy Altman Kolor to my children, and said that I was also interested. I asked my cousin to introduce the card in his hand to me and my children. Then, the cousin proudly played and introduced to the children! In order to further enhance the friendship between children, I took out building blocks and guided them to the living room to play, exchange toys and exchange ideas! There are other relatives near the living room, but they have been in their own world and are not so afraid.

Later, when it is necessary to visit relatives and friends or go out for dinner, I always guide my children to say that there are other friends and other toys, and we can also bring our own toys to share and play with friends. Once, twice, three times ... Over time, children don't want to participate anymore, and finally take the initiative to bring toys! Now I have completely changed my introverted personality and can answer my relatives' questions! This is very gratifying.

Therefore, if your child still has this kind of social phobia, it is recommended to take the child to play with his familiar friends and help the child communicate with the child. I believe that children will no longer be afraid of socializing!