Mother-in-law looks down on her wife and in-laws.

Lead: My mother-in-law is my former daughter-in-law, and my daughter-in-law is my future mother-in-law; Therefore, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should respect, understand and learn from each other!

In real marriage life, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, accounting for more than half. It should be a loving family. Why is the relationship frozen? Nobody knows why. It is not one person's fault that an honest official does not break the housework and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious.

When a new daughter-in-law marries her husband's family, due to different social status, family background and wealth, it will inevitably lead to psychological obstacles. Those women who marry into rich families should follow each other's family rules and do what their mother-in-law wants. They look like landscapes, but there are also unknown sadness behind them.

When any woman just gets married, she hopes to get her mother-in-law's approval and win her mother-in-law's respect carefully. But some women will make some decisions that make their mother-in-law "look down".

Daughter-in-law is "looked down upon" by her mother-in-law. It is often these four decisions that silly women don't know!

One: Help her family freely.

It is right for a daughter to be filial to her mother, which is a valuable quality. However, after getting married, some women do not regard their small home as their home, but still regard their parents' home as their home, but as long as there are some good things, they will move to their parents' home. Most of my salary is spent on my mother's family. If I have no money, I will ask my husband for it. It doesn't matter once or twice, but the more times, the mother-in-law will have different opinions. Husbands generally don't have too many opinions. Compared with young people, they can make money, and there is nothing wrong with honoring the elderly. But the mother-in-law is afraid that her daughter-in-law will empty the house. So when a woman helps her parents without restraint, she will look down on her daughter-in-law and even her in-laws.

Two: The house is in a mess.

When the young couple get married, they all have their own small families, no matter how big or small, as long as they are warm and tidy. Generally speaking, cleaning the house is a woman's strong point. If my mother-in-law comes to this house and finds your house in a mess, clothes are piled up in the east and dishes are in the sink. How does mother-in-law feel? She will definitely help you clean up. She won't think it's her son's fault, but she will think that her daughter-in-law is too lazy. In the mother-in-law's mind, it is a woman's responsibility to have a dirty house. Whether you admit it or not, if you knew that your mother-in-law was coming home, you would definitely tidy up the house quickly.

Three: Give up your job

A woman should never give up her job. A woman who is completely dependent on her husband is the most despised by her mother-in-law. Women should be independent and self-reliant, and no matter how much money their husbands can earn, they should maintain their own economic independence. Only when the economy is independent can their personality be independent. It is the stupidest behavior for a woman to give up her job and career; Although you made sacrifices for this family, your mother-in-law was ungrateful. She will think that you don't want to work and just want to live on your son, so she "looks down" on you.

Four: Do not pay attention to the image

Women should be exquisite. Nowadays, when girls get married, their mother-in-law is often very young. I often see the most beautiful mother-in-law, anti-age mother. They all know how to maintain and dress up. They look young and fashionable. As a young daughter-in-law, if you often turn your face to the sky, pay no attention to your external image, and look clean and tidy when you go out without your mother-in-law, she will really look down on you.

There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women. When a woman is too lazy to make up, it is the beginning of depravity. If women don't manage themselves well, others will despise you.

Conclusion: If a woman wants her mother-in-law to look up to her after marriage, she must pay attention to these four points and not be looked down upon. She's still stupid and doesn't know!