When I’m chatting with girls, they never reply to my messages. What’s going on?

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Some time ago, a brother said: "I get along well with a girl. I quite like her and am ready to develop a relationship with her. But I found that When I was chatting with her, she was sometimes very slow to reply to messages, and sometimes she even didn’t reply on purpose. I saw her posting on Moments and ignored me. Teacher Ye Zi, why is this happening? Test me? Still don't like me? "Actually, this question still needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. If you are also interested, please read on with me.

If this girl is the girl you are pursuing, and she deliberately does not reply to your messages, or deliberately replies very slowly, then her purpose is actually very simple, or she is not interested in you. Let me tell you this way, this is actually very normal.

In the process of pursuing girls, it is inevitable that you will hit a wall. Sometimes a girl doesn't like you at all, so it's normal for her to not want to reply to your messages. If you don't know how to restrain yourself at this time and continue to send messages to girls, then the girl waiting for you is the girl's little black guy. Room.

Either girls want to be more reserved and use this method to test and test your sincerity. See if you really like her and have enough patience and tenderness to share with her. Then this is a psychological thought of girls deliberately not replying to your messages.

Some brothers may want to say, so what should I do in this situation? Don't worry, this method is coming, pick up your little notebook and write it down.

1. You can send a message again as a test.

When a girl doesn’t reply to your message, you can send another message after a while to test it out. You can choose to send it soon after sending the first message, or you can choose to send it again after a few hours. Send it and see what the other person’s attitude is like.

Maybe some brothers want to say that she doesn’t reply to my messages, why should I send her again? The purpose of sending her a message again is actually to confirm whether the other party really doesn't want to talk to you. If a girl takes several days to reply to your message, you should quickly ask her if something happened. Sometimes a girl really has something happen to her and ignores your message, so you need to ask her clearly. What reason.

2. The second is to turn the waiting time into time for you to improve yourself.

Many brothers are always very anxious when facing this kind of situation, so they can’t do anything well and just think about why girls are like this? Let me tell you, if you are like this, it means that you are emotionally involved by girls, which will not have any effect on your subsequent pursuit of girls.

What you have to do is not to wait for her to reply to you, but to use this waiting time to make yourself better. For example, during this time, you can read a book or watch some inspirational price comparison videos. You can also post some posts to Moments that show your personal value to see if girls will take the initiative to pay attention to you.

In fact, in general, sometimes a girl disappears without replying to you. Don't think about it, there are many possibilities for not replying to your message. Maybe I didn't pay attention sometimes, or my phone malfunctioned, etc. It's possible. Generally, as long as a girl doesn't dislike you, she will reply if you send her a message. After all, replying to a message is also a form of respect for people. If a girl doesn't reply to your message for a long time, then you should quickly ask her if something happened, or think about whether you did something wrong.

What are your different views on today’s topic? You are welcome to leave a message and discuss with us in the comment area. I will share it with you here. If you have more emotional questions, please feel free to consult Ye Zi at any time. See you in the next issue.