Nowadays, the problem between doctors and patients is serious. Who do you think is responsible?

I don’t talk about the system, hospitals and doctors. What I want to talk about most is the terrible psychology of patients.

The scary thing about patients is that they have an extremely superstitious idea that if they go to the hospital for illness, the doctor should cure them, preferably without any pain, without any side effects, without any sequelae. Returning to the original state, I wish I could be young again. If it doesn't meet expectations, it means the doctor's skills are poor.

Oh my god, do you think doctors are gods?

Doctors are not gods, they are gardeners. Gardeners cannot change nature’s cycle of spring, summer, autumn, and winter, and doctors cannot change the cycle of birth, old age, illness, and death. What doctors can do is to make the flowers in the garden of life bloom more beautifully in spring, summer, autumn, and winter.

Science and technology are advancing and diseases are developing. Doctors are really not God and cannot know so much about how the world and life operate. Otherwise, all cancers would have been cured long ago.

Unfortunately, many patients do not understand this principle, so they often feel disappointed, dissatisfied, and feel that it is all the doctor's fault, and the doctor-patient relationship becomes increasingly tense. I have money, why don't you cure me? Medical treatment is different from other products. It cannot be mass-produced, nor can the efficacy be completely guaranteed. In many cases, there is no chance to come back again.

In the hospital, patients are not God, and doctors are not gods.

Patients’ anxiety about life, old age, illness and death, uncertainty about unknown outcomes, dissatisfaction with current life, and inability to shoulder responsibilities, these things require self-cultivation, rather than blaming doctors for perfection and beating and scolding at every turn.

Another very scary factor is the misguidance of the media. Some people who do not understand medicine have produced a bunch of reports that seriously deviate from the facts, just to attract attention and click-through rates. Not only do they have no professional ethics, but they also greatly mislead ordinary people and aggravate the doctor-patient relationship. level of tension.

If patients could have a more rational understanding of life and the professional ethics of the media would be more conscientious, I think the doctor-patient relationship would at least be much better. ?