It's boring to live to 32 this year. Living is suffering. What if I can't adapt to this society? How lonely it is to be unemployed without a wife!

There is a big gap between the rich and the poor now, and it is natural to have a comparison, but this is largely not your problem.

Nowadays, it is difficult for young people to get married and have children without the help of their parents. Many people have it, and they will have your troubles. You may look at other people of the same age who have cars, houses and wives, but they also need someone to support them when they get married, or they work hard on their own, but on the whole, the former is the majority.

Unemployment: Many people are unemployed now, but life still needs to go on. If they earn less, they should save some money. I know a girl who earns 4000 yuan a month and can keep 3000 yuan. She lives in the company dormitory, which is economical, but it is still enough. After a few years, she paid the down payment for a small house, which was very hard, but she also did it. Maybe you can refer to it.

If you can't find a job for the time being, it's difficult to run a takeaway or be a waiter, but it's also quite short of people.

Marriage problem: It is really no advantage to find a wife with poor economic strength, but not all girls look at economic conditions. Clean up your image, exercise some muscles, have a sense of responsibility and so on. The charm of men lies not only in making money, but also in taking the initiative in your life. Opportunities are reserved for enterprising people. I hope you can find someone you like.

Mentality problem: most people nowadays compare EMO, and some people just don't say it. The present state does not represent the future state. Everyone's trajectory is different. Some people may be better in middle age, and some people may even be later. The ups and downs are flat and there is no fixed number. It can only be said that it is not easy for everyone to work hard in society. The best way is to relax your mind. When their hearts are really strong, these problems are not problems. You can see other people's lives. Many people in the world are miserable and unhappy, and many people are happy, but everyone is concerned about happy people.