Speaking skills of men and women in love

1, give him enough space for heterosexual communication. If you find yourself every day, it will make the other person feel very stressed and feel that he has no personal space. Everyone needs privacy and wants to have their own personal space to do their own things. However, if you look for him every day, he will have no time to do his own thing. I believe you must love him enough to keep in touch with him, but your love will make people suffocate. Being exposed to novelty every day means that you don't have your own secrets, and everything you know is known to the other party. Love needs preservation. The secret of keeping fresh is to keep yourself attractive all the time. Couples who are not fresh will break up easily. Being together every day is boring, in a good mood, with more and more contradictions and easy to quarrel. After a long time, they will get bored easily and don't want to maintain this relationship. 3. Know your own value. Daily contact will make you "fall in price" and others will not cherish you. What is easy to get is also easy to be abandoned. You have to understand your own value, a person is precious enough to be cherished. Looking for each other every day will also make people tired of you. I just want to stay away from you, and I don't want to be "cheap". Just know your own value. The above is the introduction of speaking skills about love between men and women introduced by Bian Xiao. I hope I can help you and pay more attention to Aichat. Speaking skills of men and women in love II. Boys' speaking skills about dating For boys, dating can't talk, and they don't know what to say is the most deadly taboo. Not only will it make girls feel boring, but it will also directly lose the opportunity to date each other for the second time. If you don't want to have the embarrassing dating experience of saying the wrong thing and not knowing how to save the scene, boys have to make up their speaking skills when dating. 1, prepare the topic points in advance before the appointment. If you don't want to be the topic terminator in dating, you have to fight a prepared battle. It's hard to get an appointment with each other. How can you not grasp this key performance opportunity? Prepare some topic points in advance before the date. If you know each other's hobbies, you can also prepare some topics related to the theme. Avoid sudden silence during the conversation and let the other person feel that you care about her. Don't be stingy with your praise when you speak. Why do you need skills to speak? Because the same meaning is expressed in different words, the other party will receive different signals. Therefore, as a boy, I might as well listen to the girls' speeches from the perspective of appreciation and show interest in each other's topics from time to time. More importantly, you should learn to praise each other appropriately. You can compliment your clothes, hair and temperament on the first date. Don't be stingy with your praise, because girls' pursuit of beauty is endless, and it can also increase each other's goodwill towards you. Why not? 3. Learn to avoid thunder spots and enliven the atmosphere. When dating, the best way to avoid silence is to try to say something that makes people feel comfortable, and at the same time, avoid some sensitive topic minefields. For example, on a first date, try to avoid topics such as income and ex. If you step on the other side's thunder spot, you can learn to change the topic skillfully, let the atmosphere warm up and resolve unnecessary embarrassment. However, we must not be too clever to create an atmosphere, which will give each other a real feeling. Generally, try to convey your sincerity to each other. Second, girls' speaking skills when dating. You know, talking when a girl is dating is not your plus point. It's good that we turn silence into a sub-item. After all, in men's eyes, your appearance and temperament account for the largest proportion, while your speech only accounts for one tenth. Therefore, dating generally follows a principle: don't say more if you can, but smile if you can't. Especially the girl on the first date, because you accidentally screwed up the date is the last thing to do. Therefore, if you want to master the speaking skills during dating, start from the following aspects. 1, leading men to become the dominant speakers. If you want to know a man, throw the topic you want to know to the other person and guide him to become the leader, instead of waiting for you to finish a lot and ask the other person, "What about you?" Just like you want to know if the other person likes small animals, the opening line should be "Do you like small animals? Do you like cats or dogs? " Guide him to talk about some thoughts and likes about animals. Instead of moving your puppy to the front of the topic at the beginning, forcing the other person to be your listening object, making you unconsciously commit the common problem of talking too much. 2. Try to be vague about yourself and talk as little as possible when dating. So, what should you do if a man seduces you on a date? The word "resist temptation" was written. Suppose the other person asks you, "Do you like watching movies? Which one do you prefer? " Then you can use: "Oh, me? Korean drama, what have you seen? " Ingeniously throwing the topic back to the other party will avoid saying the wrong thing or saying too much embarrassment, make the other party more curious about you, and undoubtedly enhance their attraction. 3. Create a topic atmosphere in a timely manner. We don't deny that the other person may be a talkative person. Although he doesn't need our guidance, he will talk endlessly. Then, when we meet such a man with high self-appreciation, we should learn to stop the uninterested topic appropriately and create a new topic, so that the atmosphere of the conversation will not be reduced and we can chat more happily with each other. However, when expressing your opinions, remember to be slow, try to be concise, and it is best to bring a little pathetic expression, which will greatly increase the other party's goodwill towards you! Third, what matters should be paid attention to when saving love? In the process of saving love, you should pay attention to some matters when you speak. The most important thing to save love is to attract each other again. In the process of chatting, if you make a mistake, you will expose your excessive demands and make the other person dislike you again, then what you have done before will be in vain, so you need to be skillful when you speak. 1. Don't bring up emotional topics. When you chat after separation, you must pay attention to avoid emotional topics. You just let the other person accept a brand new you and have feelings for you. If you mention your feelings to her, then you will restore your image in the other person's heart and destroy your previous efforts. After you reconnect with each other, the other party is still very entangled. One side still has feelings for you, and the other side is afraid that you will return to your previous state. When you mention your feelings at this time, it will put a lot of pressure on the other party and lead to the decision to leave you again. 2. Don't argue, respect each other and listen to each other's ideas. You broke up together because of the stimulation of contradictions. If you still think you stick to your own ideas and stick to your own opinions, then no one will want to chat with you again. Everyone should be understood and recognized. You have your own ideas, yes, but you should also know how to listen to and respect others' ideas. This way, the other party will think you are polite and want to continue chatting with you. People who know how to listen are the most attractive, which is also to build their own charm. After learning to listen and respect others, your circle of friends will also expand. Don't interrupt each other's topic during the conversation. Don't interrupt others when they are talking. This is the most basic courtesy. You can't say whatever you want as you used to. You are saving each other, and you should stand on the same level as each other, so that you can have the same topic to talk about. Don't interrupt each other's words, and at the same time understand each other's life state during the conversation. If the other person is willing to talk to you more, it means that she will put down your military preparations, which will be very helpful for you to save her. Saving is not an easy task, it takes a lot of time and energy, patience and confidence. Saving is actually a process of constantly improving one's attractiveness. When you can improve yourself and master your speaking skills, you can get twice the result with half the effort. I wish you a successful rescue!