Everyone has a Pan Jinlian in his heart.

Everyone has a Pan Jinlian in his heart. She is not only a dissolute beauty, but also an irresistible desire!

Pan Jinlian, who is very familiar to everyone, has become a lewd, beautiful and heartless woman through the portrayal of Water Margin and Jin Ping Mei.

Therefore, on the table, we criticize, we lash, avoid, and confidently stand on the moral high point to examine.

Every woman regards her as a negative example, and every man regards her as a negative example.

But, you know what? Everyone has a Pan Jinlian inside!

A man's hypocrisy is to ask his daughter-in-law to get a kitchen under the hall, but also to be pure in appearance and enchanting in heart. To put it bluntly, he just wants to put Pan Jinlian's lewdness and charm outward!

The hypocrisy of a woman is that it is important to hope that her husband will have money and face value, be infinitely good to himself, be filial to his family, have a career and have power, and live a better life. However, she wants to give herself vanity satisfaction externally and a sense of security internally!

In fact, this is not terrible, this is a beautiful wish, terrible is the infinite desire to grow! This extends a point of view-choose what you love and love what you choose!

The recent divorce shocked me, not because of gossip, but because I can't understand people's hearts! This reminds me of a conversation at the banquet.

Is it poisonous?

Yes,

What?

He dinghong,

Is there anything more poisonous than crane top red?

Yes,

What?

will of the people

People's hearts are unpredictable, and they may not be emotional for a long time, but seeing through people's hearts is poison!

I don't judge them, because I don't understand, just to talk about the understanding of human nature and emotion!

In fact, in love and life, these two models are basically. One is to choose what you love and the other is to love what you choose. Of course, the third mode is very difficult, that is, two types!

To choose what you love is to follow your heart, so you must be worthy of your heart.

Loving what you choose means that if you fulfill your responsibilities, you can afford it.

That's easy.

You have chosen the person you like and the career you like, so work hard. Even if you don't reach your ideal appearance, you can't blame others, you have to bear it yourself.

You may not choose the person you love or the job you love, but who chose it for you? You have to be responsible for your choice, don't you?

However, once the heart is out and the responsibility is out, the problem comes.

Pan Jinlian who lives in everyone's heart will appear. In fact, she is not just a dissolute beauty, but an insatiable desire!

You will say; You are wrong in love, or you don't understand love, and you made a wrong choice. Just an excuse to show me!

For example; You will feel very happy when you drink a bowl of porridge. Once you have a restaurant, all you want is how to eat better.

Yes, but the psychological compensation in people's hearts is terrible.

You have money, you have a house, you are famous, but you are not handsome.

I have a house, I am rich, I am famous, but I am not happy.

So people have to compensate for not being handsome and unhappy, and of course there are other aspects.

That dissolute and romantic Pan Jinlian lives in your mind. Once you are weak or strong, she will come unexpectedly!

You are fragile, and she makes it up to you.

You are strong, she makes it up to you.

Everyone lives in the heart of a Pan Jinlian!

Remember, people, no different from animals, are still very low-level. Faced with too many temptations, they are richer, more handsome, more beautiful, with bigger breasts, cooler, more powerful, more successful and better understand you.

Men, like women, seldom know what to do, what to take and how much to take. If you can control yourself, then the world will be peaceful!

All forms of expression are caused by desire and psychological compensation. From the beginning to the end, all you have to do is to control your heart, do something to calm yourself and fight your desires. Trust me, you have no chance!

Not only in marriage, but also in life!

There is a Pan Jinlian in everyone's heart. Don't wake her up. Once the city is on fire, you can't resist her enchanting, because she is not only a dissolute beauty, but also a desire that is difficult to fill. Don't overestimate yourself, you can't resist her at all.

Finally; Good advice. In marriage, some people say that mental fitness is more important and reasonable, but it is difficult to do so. Even if the material is not suitable, the mental difficulties can be imagined, so choose what you love and love what you choose!