What's the use of pleasing mother-in-law?

The reason why many daughter-in-law are unwilling to try to please her mother-in-law now is that even if you please her, she will not get any attention from her mother-in-law. And the more you please him, the more he will think that you are anxious to marry his son, fearing that you are not worthy of her son, so you deliberately please him. Such a mother-in-law would not feel the same way. And there is always a sense of superiority. So there will be no children and wives who want to please their mother-in-law slowly.

The mother-in-law is just her husband's mother. She has nothing to do with you. She has never taken care of you for a day. So there is no need to please the mother-in-law. People's hearts will change. If your mother-in-law is good, then you are also good to her. The biggest contradiction after marriage now is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Because the mother-in-law is always confused and wants to intervene in her son's housework. But what he should know is that since his son is married, it means that he has a new family. At this time, he should stay out of it, and his son and daughter-in-law can handle this matter well. And once you get involved in their affairs, it will cause family conflicts. It is not wise to let your son be caught in the middle.

There are also more and more mothers-in-law who feel that they have raised their sons all their lives, but in the end they are good to another woman, and their hearts will be somewhat unbalanced. That's why we are targeting our daughter-in-law everywhere. But now women have the ability to give themselves a better life. After marriage, they will also work and bear the burden of the family. And after giving birth to their own children, they also have the ability to give them a better life, or they can find a nanny without their care. Since you don't need to please your mother-in-law everywhere, there is no need to please her deliberately. Especially please also won't get any benefits.

I feel unwilling to please my mother-in-law. The most important reason is that this mother-in-law is difficult to get along with and too strong. Everything in her family has to be obeyed by her, so she also wants to be the boss in her son's family. This will not end well.