How to deal with losing control?

1, if you always forgive yourself, you will often lose yourself; If you treat yourself well everywhere, you will lose yourself again and again.

2. Life is always full of irony and puzzling. Always hurt your heart before you understand what happiness is; Always make noise before you know that peace is rare; It is always necessary for some people to be gone, only to find out how precious TA is around them.

Most of the mistakes are because you didn't persist, didn't work hard, didn't stay, and then hypnotized yourself into saying that everything is fate.

In life, there are many fleeting moments, such as saying goodbye at the station, just hugging each other, and in the blink of an eye, we have gone our separate ways. Most of the time, you don't understand, and neither do I. That's it. When you talk, you change. Listening is tiring. I'm tired of watching it. You will slow down when you follow. When you walk, you spread out. When you love, you fade. I forget it when I think about it.

How many times have I looked for you, but I dare not visit or add friends. I just look at your head and guess how you are doing now.

Sometimes, we are willing to forgive someone, not because we really want to forgive him, but because we don't want to lose him.

When a girl tells you her troubles, it's not complaining, it's her trust in you.

8. A true friend is someone who can accompany you through loneliness, loneliness and silence. Talking about mood phrases

9. When I love you, you hit me and scold me, but I put up with it. I do not love you anymore. Please touch me again.

10, in fact, the herringbone structure is mutual support, as long as you are willing, anyone can give anyone happiness!

1 1. If your dreams fade, you will feel uneasy. If you get lost, you can't find it. If you leave, you won't stay.

12, it turns out that a person who is determined to treat another person can be magical enough not to pay back the money.

13, don't mistreat every enthusiasm, don't please any indifference.

14, don't let those who are really nice to you slowly disappear from your life. Regardless of family, love and friendship, we need to manage with our heart.

15, when talking to friends, I often speak too straight, not because I don't trust them or bless them, but because I'm afraid they will be hurt by others.

16, when we have something to do, we regard busyness as fatigue, and when we have nothing to do, we regard relaxation as boredom.

17, he always speaks cynically to me unscrupulously.

18, actually I don't want much. You are content to be around me.

19, everyone's youth cannot escape a love. Here, there is love, affection, joy and joy, but there is no eternity.

20. It took me ten years to forget someone, but it made her outline more vivid in my mind.

2 1, life is like a piano: white keys are happiness, and black keys is sadness.

22. Don't be paranoid about things you can't get, and don't be wishful thinking about people who don't belong to you. It is enough to live in the present and cherish what you have in front of you.

23. To be a man, the most important thing is to always maintain the essence of kindness. If you are kind, the world will be broad and others will be tolerant.

24, let go of yourself, no one can please the whole world and let yourself relax!

25, I suddenly understood that a woman's Excellence does not lie in her appearance, money or social status. But what kind of man stood beside her.

26. There is no hard work and no place where people are not complicated. If destiny takes a hand is a part-time job, then do it well. Don't ruin your youth. Cross your legs at home, so does youth. Time will not pass very slowly. Some people don't have to work, but that's not you. They will do it anyway. Why not do it happily?

27. We are not good at expression, so that we are used to guessing. Affirm, deny, repeat, and then we become sensitive and fragile.

28. People are happy when they are simple, but few people are happy; Complex times are painful, but painful people are bustling.

29. No matter how long the road is, it can be completed step by step; No matter how short the road is, you can't walk without taking your feet. Don't let too many yesterdays occupy your today.

30. Love is really a personal matter. When you fall in love with someone, you feel that the ocean is deep, the other person is on pins and needles, and others fall in love with you, but you feel helpless and funny. Perhaps the most rare happiness in this world is that the person you love happens to love you, because it is rare and short-lived, and those days are pearls, which should be used to illuminate the lonely road of life.

The world you left behind, everything is a memory

We promised never to let go of each other's hands, but reality has said that love alone is not enough. -Jane Zhang "Our Agreement"

I broke up with ta at that time, and I felt very enlightened when I heard this. I cried a lot and then lived my life.

I finally came, but what's more sad is that I finished our dream-Fish Leong's breathing pain alone.

When I was a child, we would talk a lot about "going to college together", "going abroad together", "going to a bar together" and "getting married together" ... but when you finally reach your destination, is there anyone around you? That man, who is it?

Maybe giving up can be close to you; You won't remember me unless I see you again. -Karen Mok's "Summer Fruits"

Love brings sorrow, love brings fear. If one day, I am tired, don't love, and let go, then nothing you can do can hurt me. You like you only because of me.

If I didn't love you, how could I sigh inadvertently? -Karen Mok's love.

I like this song very, very much, and my sadness is very shallow. This sentence, in particular, is one of the most beautiful sentences I have ever seen describing unrequited love.

I won't be sad without you and the past. But if there is, I still love you. -Karen Mok "Without You"

There is a sad but unforgettable line in Princess Zhu Huan: "I have waited all my life, hated it all my life, thought about it all my life, and complained all my life." But I still thank God for giving her someone who can wait, hate, think and complain. "

We became the most familiar strangers in the world. In the future, each has its own twists and turns, and each has its own sadness. -Elva Hsiao is the most familiar stranger

This is my life, without you. Because we are strangers, you don't need to know my twists and turns and sadness.

Who still remembers that when love began to change, I saw a different sky in your eyes. -May "Remember"

Let time tell the truth, although I am afraid. Time has already said, we are physically and mentally exhausted, tired of looking at each other, walking at a fork in the road, no one can turn back and no one will let go. This kind of love is a permanent robbery.

I was not born lonely, but lonelier than anyone else. Even if you give me the whole world, I still have nothing. -May "I want to be happy"

Have you ever experienced a day when you sleep alone and wake up alone? Do you feel that your heart is empty and you can't fill anything in? If there is, don't listen to this song, it will make you doomed.

As long as your eyes are positive, my love is meaningful. -Fish Leong's courage.

First, congratulate Fish Leong, and then thank her. The girl sang little love Sang Song all the way through all the joys and sorrows in the world. Some people say that Courage is a gay song. In my opinion, these are all people in love. They are ignorant and fearless. They are humble and great.

I'm not sad, nothing, just why I shed tears. -Stephanie "I am not sad"

Stephanie, born with a lofty and decisive attitude, I think that's why when she sings this stubborn song, it makes people feel particularly distressed.

Meeting you is the most beautiful accident. -Stephanie's "Meeting"

Listen to this song again and ask yourself, do you still believe in love?

Forgive with a sad smile, and it will be over. It is good to have yesterday. -Stephanie "Beginning to Understand"

We had a hard time. We have no choice. I'm afraid time is too fast to see you carefully; I am afraid that time will pass too slowly, and I am worried about losing you day and night. I hope I can grow old overnight and never part. --Sandy Lam's "At least you"

I have heard this song more than 200 times, and I will be moved every time I listen to it. In particular, these lyrics depict the feelings of people who love each other very well. Slowly, I will feel that "I am willing to work together and never give up" is really a beautiful hope.

I'm not afraid of thousands of people blocking me, but I'm afraid of surrendering myself. -Mayday "Stubbornness"

The lyrics of Mayday always make people's blood boil in their chests and their eyes slightly moist. Youth, dreams, fearlessness, stubbornness ... these words together are a dazzling world, maybe I will never reach it. However, the eyes that followed never stopped.

Don't say you love me and don't want to make me sad. Don't be afraid of regret. At least every inch of pain you give is customized for me-Jason tailored it.

Since I can't stay in your arms, why not shed tears when I leave? -Ten years in Eason Chan.

Without a dream, why be far away —— Yoga Lin's Cruel Moonlight.

Titanic tells us that people can live by memories all their lives.

I hope that when I am old, I can still sit in the warm and fresh sunshine in early autumn and miss him silently, and then tell myself: you are not afraid, you love him very much.

Loving you is the most beautiful wound, my achievement and my all. -The Phantom of Jolin Tsai.

I personally like this song very much, although most people may not remember her singing such a song. Jolin Tsai in the MV is also beautiful. I really don't like her now.

We're all fine, just not suitable. -Jolin Tsai's "The Taste of Lemon Grass"

It is said that we can identify people who love each other from our eyes. But from the eyes, can we identify people who have been together for a lifetime?

Finally, let go. Love can't come back, and you always understand it too late-Jolin Tsai's Rewind.

I have to say that Fang Zhouzi and Jay Chou are really golden partners. No matter what the lyrics and songs are, they are memorable. When they sing, they can't finish singing. Singing at the top of my lungs, always immersed in the song, my eyes are wet.

I can't escape the deeper I love, the deeper I hurt each other and the deeper I depend on each other. How can I love this blank? I love him.

How do you remember me, smile or silence? Over the years, is there anyone who can make you not lonely? -Rene Liu "Later"

I have always liked the woman named milk tea. Because she sang the first love, the air was slightly sour.

I want to ask you if you dare to be crazy about love like me-Rene Liu's Crazy about Love.

Love is a superstition of the right place at the right time. -Rene Liu "So you are here"

The Chinese characters produced in Yao Qian are great all over the capital. The sound of milk tea is warm and serene, and there is a faint sense of destiny at the same time.

I am used to not being alone for a long time.

Turn off your cell phone at the weekend night and snuggle up on the sofa.

Falling in love is not that easy. Everyone has his temper.

After the age of chasing dreams, it is better to be calm than vigorous.

Happiness is not so easy and charming.

An era of ignorance.

Once the most sincere, so the happiest.

———— Huang Xiaohu's "It's not that simple"

One of Yao Ruolong's favorite lyricists, he is best at writing warm and delicate love works.

I admire your skill, playing with love so skillfully-VAE's "gasp in admiration"

The combination of soft and hard style, free and easy writing and lyrics, and unique singing style make people feel an unrepeatable atmosphere.

I hope you, my exclusive memory, are in my heart, no matter what others say-Jordan chan's exclusive memory.

The memory I slowly crossed.

In this lonely season

It is still a lonely season

The same lonely season

-Tao Zhe's lonely season

Everything is the best arrangement.

1, we are often troubled by the dispute of one sentence, and finally only a selfish heart is left in the vast and distant world. In fact, in life, there can be countless indisputable reasons: be more open-minded, look down on gains and losses, think more about others, even if it is only a little less, and put aside seemingly important things indifferently. You will find that people's minds will be suddenly enlightened and the world will suddenly become bigger. There is no doubt that life is at its best.

2. Love is not possession. When we love someone, we usually have a tendency to control and possess, and we usually ask our courtiers to do this or that, but few people ask themselves and others at the same time, so there are contradictions and disputes. On the way to reincarnation, it is not easy to be a relative, lover and friend. Let's go on happily in trust and tolerance. When arguing and doubting, think more about each other's good, and everything will be relieved.

Put your hands in the field and look down at the water. A pure heart is the way, and retrogression is the progress.

4. Even the clearest water will not be clear if it is kept shaking in the cup; Even turbid water will naturally become clear if it is kept quiet. So is our heart. If you don't give it time to settle, but keep shaking, it will be in a turbid state. Calm down. If you are calm, there will be no distractions. Only when you are calm will you feel at ease.

If life is suffering and sinking in vain, even if there are thousands of hopes, it will become a bubble, and there will be nothing left in the end. If you cherish life, you should start by cherishing every day; To cherish life, we must start from cherishing everyone and everything. Take every step in a down-to-earth manner and leave every footprint seriously, so as to live without hesitation.

6. The more you can't leave footprints, the more determined you are. Although there are no footprints on the road, I have already passed.

7. Only true love can withstand dullness.

8. Don't forget your own way just because you stay in other people's scenery.

9. When you think of goodness, you are all good; Every evil thought is evil. Good causes lead to good results.

10, people are used to taking the care and warmth of others for granted, and they are used to pursuing distant warmth, but they can't see the recent sunshine.

1 1, what makes us strong in life is often not prosperity, but adversity; What can awaken us is often not happiness, but sadness.

12. Life is a Dojo, and living is a kind of practice.

13, follow the fate, follow the nature, follow your heart, laugh at the gains and losses, and don't blame others, then happiness will last forever.

14, when I was a child, happiness was a simple thing; After maturity, simplicity is a very happy thing.

15, people become more transparent in middle age, know how to go with the flow, and become gentle, humble and generous.

16, take care of yourself, love will not be barren.

17, the mood can be calm, but it can't tend to death.

18, meditation is over, gossip is not aimed at people; Insist on principles in important matters and learn to be flexible in small matters. This is the true nature of a wise man.

19, everything will be fine if you don't die. The most decadent thing is often not the bumpy future, but the loss of self-confidence; The most painful thing is often not the misfortune of life, but the disillusionment of one's own hopes; What makes people desperate is often not the blow of setbacks, but the death of the soul. So, embrace life with confidence, hope and love, no matter how bad it is, everything will get better gradually.

20. If you love the person you love, the lotus will bloom in the ice and snow.

2 1. Happiness is an ability.

22. Thought will become language, language will become action, action will become habit, habit will change personality, and personality will affect life.

23. Loss is for better satisfaction. There are always gains and losses, but your mentality is very important.

24. The real sorrow is self-indulgence.

25. People who are insatiable will eventually be poor. We can have desires and satisfy ourselves, but we can't be greedy. No matter what kind of desire you face, as long as you cross the line, you will be tired and tired. Many times, we always know what is beyond the mountain, and we can't resist the desire to climb hard. In fact, there is nothing there. Once we climbed up, we found it better here.

26. Don't do things with the purpose you can get. Everything in the world was not ours. When we came empty-handed, no matter how much we got later, it was an unexpected surprise.

27. Look in the mirror to find the soul and give it a physical examination. One eye observes the world, and the other eye examines itself.

28. Ideals will grow old while waiting.

29. Life needs precipitation, and you need enough time to reflect on it in order to make yourself more perfect; Life needs to be accumulated, and only by looking back often can it be sublimated in the gain and loss of taste. Looking forward is a dream and a goal; Support is the result, not the correction. How many things, if I look back, I will do better; How many people, if they can turn back, may have what they want. Looking back, the way forward is actually written behind me. Only by rowing backwards can the ship move forward.

30. What kind of peak you climb, what kind of height you have. This is the most obvious cause and effect in the world

3 1, strong in the doubts of others.

32. Doing things is often not because of difficulties, but because of timidity and difficulties.

33. Greedy people are the poorest at heart.

34. Go further and further; Life is getting shorter.

35. Shortcomings determine the comfort of life.

36. Some things only persist when you see hope, but only when you persist can you see hope.

37. Smile and silence are two effective weapons. Smile can solve many problems, and silence can avoid many problems.

38. Simplicity is to have a calm heart and accept some unchangeable realities in this world. See through, see through, and talk; Never mind, don't argue, don't be afraid.

39. The people you accompany are the wealth of life.

40. Know yourself clearly and you will feel at ease.

4 1, learn to know not to say, because if you say too much, you will lose; Learn to liberate yourself, because only in this way can you surpass yourself; Learn to think quietly, because only in this way can you wake up and understand; Students look at the world attentively, because only in this way can we see the origin of Chu people clearly; Learn to let go, because only by letting go can you start again.

42. Many people lament that they are too tired to live. Most of the reasons are that there is no clear direction in my heart, and then I feel that I have no better future. No matter how hard they work, they always lack a sense of practicality and don't know what their ultimate needs are. After a long time, such sighs will become habitual complaints, which will only make your heart turbid.

43. Our most painful loneliness is not that we don't know ourselves around us, but that we have abandoned ourselves in our hearts; The help we need is not from others' concern, but from practical and tenacious self-help. Even if you refuse to accept yourself, you can't ask the world to give you a place; Even if you refuse to accept yourself, you can't ask the world to give you a place; Even if you dare not face yourself, you can't find understanding in the world of mortals. We need to sit opposite and look at ourselves forever, learn to love ourselves and give ourselves a hug forever.

44. The person who can keep the inner mourning quiet is the most powerful. Remember to walk slowly when all the faces in the world are running hard.

45. People who take straight detours are smart because they have found shortcuts; People who bend the straight road are open-minded because they can see several scenery. The road is not at the foot, but in the heart.

46. The beauty in the world is not the absence of defects, but a clear understanding of defects. With this understanding, the pursuit of beauty will come into being.

47. Meeting the wrong person at the right time is doomed to be a heartbreak; Meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is ridiculous at best. Therefore, if you meet the right person at the right time, you must cherish it. As long as we are congenial and compatible with each other, as long as we are happy and harmonious, no matter whether life is simple or complicated, poor or rich, we should be satisfied.

48. Always keep an optimistic attitude and a happy mood: the first sentence: forget it; The second sentence: Never mind; The third sentence: it will pass.

After a long journey, we met more people and experienced more things. Inadvertently, we will find that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness of the inner world and the wisdom of the mind. The most extravagant thing in life is to have a childlike innocence, an endless belief, a healthy body, a lover holding hands forever, a free mind, a favorite job, a stable sleep and a good mood to enjoy life.

50. Success is growing up in difficulties.

5 1, with a calm heart, to tolerate sudden criticism and accusations in life, then living in the same environment will have a different look.

We should learn to compete more with ourselves. Things are big and small. Complex things should be done simply, simple things should be done seriously, and serious things should be done repeatedly. I believe you will succeed.

53. Feeling that you are needed and close to others is the greatest enjoyment and the highest joy in life.

54. A good person is not a complainer. They always sweep away the negative thoughts in their hearts and fill them with sunshine and hope. Complaining is the most useless and energy-consuming action. Instead of complaining endlessly, it is better to calm down and find relief.

55. If you can't let yourself go, there will be no wisdom, and if you can't let others go, there will be no compassion. It's a waste of life.

56. Don't use other people's road signs to determine your own direction, it will only make you lost. Only you know what is most appropriate.

57. Choosing what to put in your heart is a life science. If your heart is full of other people's mistakes, you will find fault everywhere with a magnifying glass, and it is not good for you to torture others. With kindness, tolerance and gratitude in your heart, life will be full of sunshine, and all the bad things of others will be solved in your broad mind. Therefore, whether life is bitter or happy depends on what you like to be with.

58. An open life is neither arrogant nor impetuous. A person who can't have peace of mind, his life is bound to be impatient and flustered.

59. Don't be afraid to do something wrong. Even if you are wrong, don't be sad. There is right and wrong in life. If you are wrong this time, don't make the same mistake next time. When you are in tears, don't make any decision. When you are in a negative mood, the less you say, the better. The earth is round, so dark clouds cannot cover the same place forever.

60. Only by going to a place where you feel safe in your heart can you not make mistakes.

6 1, there are no unhappy people, only unhappy hearts. We should learn to find happiness in self-satisfaction. Self-doubt is a great weakness of human nature. People who doubt themselves often can't concentrate on their work, let alone do it well. It is difficult for them to get rid of the entanglement of disappointment, and naturally it is difficult to be happy.

62. Emotion is an adjustable variable.

63. Love is the best nutrition in life.

64. Be a man with light in his heart. The sunshine of the soul is the endless power of life, which can be a kind of courage or a kind of belief. People must raise a sun in their hearts.

65. Retreat is something that people may regret for a lifetime. Life without initiative is incomplete, and youth without courage is not profound.

66. We must work hard in life, and hard work is a state of mind in life. Instead of demanding what kind of person you must be and what kind of achievements you have made, it is better to hone yourself to be a diligent person. Hard work is cultivation.

67. The premise of a person's luck is that he has the ability to change himself; The mentality can be peaceful, but it can't be lifeless.

68. Adversity makes people mature and despair makes people wake up. Don't turn others' giving up on yourself into giving up on yourself.

69. Everyone wants to be a very smart person and get people's approval, so many people will show their cleverness in various ways in front of everyone, and the result is often that they are smart. Many times, we need to be confused. Confusion is not fatuous, but open-minded and generous. Don't be too persistent in everything, be open-minded on the road of reincarnation, and be confused and rare when you are confused.

70, making mistakes is a normal state, not worth tangled. The key is to reflect on mistakes, sum up mistakes, find the right direction in the wrong people and things, and find the right way to live.

7 1, fatherly love is the ladder of life.

72. What is the threshold? The past is the door. Without the past, it becomes the threshold. Practice is to cultivate the mind. Everything starts from the heart, and when the heart exists, everything exists, and when the heart dies, everything dies.

73. Life needs a posture. The greater the difficulty, the greater the significance of your existence.

74. When you do something wrong, it is more direct and effective to correct it with action than to explain it. In the face of other people's mistakes and misunderstandings, maybe a smile is worth explaining a hundred times.

Smart people are often those who know how to think in silence. Silence is not to teach people to remain silent, but to hope that people can think twice before speaking. Those profound thoughts come from those silent thinking processes. On the contrary, people who talk a lot often have a little taste, and it is difficult to see the essence of things.

76. Live a full life so as not to get lost.

77. What you can't let go is not something, but your inner persistence. The road ahead, you can't stay too long for one thing and forget to hurry.

78. If the heart is small, the little things will be big; If you have a big heart, big things are small. Look down on the vicissitudes of the world and feel safe inside. Big heart, tolerant of the world; Empty your heart and love the beauty of the world; Calm down and talk about things in the world; Keep a correct attitude and deal with the changes in the world. Great things are difficult to bear. What is important is to look at the mind in adversity, give up looking at wisdom, and look at persistence in success or failure.

79. Only when the direction is right, the goal will not go astray and happiness will knock on your door.

80. In the viewer's heart, there are morning glow, dew and flowers that bloom all the year round.

8 1. He who can correct himself through other people's behavior is the real wise man.

82. When the heart is cold, everything will be far away.

83. Smiling is calmness in difficulties.

84. There are too many beautiful things in life, but there are always some things that are not worth giving up our healthy owners and overdrawing our lives to pursue, such as money and power; There are always some things, once lost, which will inevitably make people lament, such as your loved ones and your lover.

85. The reason is the excuse of the weak. On the way to success, the weak always complain in the same place, waiting for the conditions to come to them; However, powerful people will never wait for such meaningless and fruitless results. They will always move forward firmly and break through many obstacles with their persistence and wisdom. The key to success is never the condition, but our yearning and efforts for success.

86. Faith is bodhi.

87. Communication between people is more about accepting each other than changing each other. If you just want to change each other, it is not life, it is war.

88. Growth is not enough without injury. Don't care about the pain and suffering along the way, be grateful for yesterday's experience and pursue tomorrow's happiness. This is not only a big mind, but also a big realm. It is the calmness gained after cultivating the mind and the nourishment of Buddhism to human nature.

89. If you are afraid of it, it will help you. Extend a warm hand. Prove your integrity and do things honestly; Forgive others, just smile.

90. Respect everyone, no matter how humble or ridiculous you think he is. Remember, everyone lives with the same spirit as you and me.

9 1. Sometimes, we think we won, but in fact we lost. Because, we won face, but lost lining. We live in a society and know how to win or lose. Know how to compete and understand tolerance. We should know how to tolerate, give in and be grateful in a timely manner.

92. If the heart is narrow, everything is far away.

93. When you look at yourself when you are frustrated, you will find your soul sinking; When you look at yourself in high spirits, you will see the arrogance in human nature. Only by not indulging yourself and removing sediments can more transparent crystals be produced.

Seize the sensitive period of children, don't be afraid of the future, don't miss the past, I don't like this world, I only like you, I hope everything is fine.

I know no one can help me,

Even my dearest you.

I've always been timid,

I've always been weak,

I always do,

18 years,

Never changed,

I'd rather sulk alone,

I don't want to make a scene with my family,

It's all my fault.

I don't want to go,

I don't want you to worry about me,

Because it's useless,

This will only increase your trouble,

I'm glad to see you say that you will always stand with me,

I love you,

There is no doubt about it.

Complaining about some useless things,

I haven't kept a diary for myself for a long time,

I have a whim to write once and I don't know what to say.

That's it,

I hope to wake up tomorrow,

Everything is fine,

The sun is in the sky,

You are by my side.