I have seen it once, but I will never forget to talk about it.

When two people are in love, it will be very sweet, and then it will be a positive result. The longer you get married, the more tired you get. Don't you really cherish it after you get it? I think the main reason is that there are essential differences between falling in love and getting married.

A certain quantitative change will cause qualitative change. During the period of love, two people will have all kinds of sweetness. Because they don't need to worry too much, just be happy. After marriage, two people's shoulders bear the responsibility of two families. They can't just focus on their own happiness and entertainment. They must think about the future. They should take up the responsibility of supporting their families. It's like going from a child to an adult at once. All kinds of pressures are exerted on them, such as family financial situation and work pressure, which will have an impact on the phenomenon of "mutual aversion"

Secondly, this is not a special phenomenon, only some families will have it. On the contrary, this is a common phenomenon. Two people changed from lovers to husband and wife. The longer you live, there will inevitably be friction and collision. Over time, you will have the illusion of hating each other. Actually, I can't live without each other. It is probably the "seven-year itch" that people often say.

I think everything most likely comes from stress. Why don't two people find a time to talk it over and get to know each other better? Make appropriate changes to your recent life. Making the unchangeable life colorful will also alleviate the situation of "mutual dislike" to a certain extent. More importantly, two people should learn to understand and tolerate each other, so that life will be easier.