A profound and thoughtful understanding of life

1. The deep maturity may be: eating less and less, treating the world more and more tolerant, learning to be patient and not losing your temper, and gradually having a 1 growing heart. I also began to be afraid to hear anything related to illness, and my greatest wish became the health of the whole family. Compared with two or three years ago, I can't wait to see my heart in the distance. I hope to have nine-tenths of the time to eat 1 meal with my family in soft light.

2. Time is really the best span in the world, which makes the pain pale, makes persistent people choose to leave, and then people come and go. After vicissitudes, you will understand that everything is life and nothing can be helped by people.

There is no hard work in the world, and no place where people are not complicated. Even if you reject the present unhappiness, time will not pass slowly. So don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you. Learn to keep a low profile, there must be gains and losses between choices, and don't care too much. Learn to be practical and pragmatic. The harder you work, the luckier you will be. When a person has enough connotation and material backing, life will become full of confidence.

Fight for what you like, cherish what you get and forget what you miss. Life is not complicated, we make it complicated by ourselves. What is complicated is not only the relationship between people, but also the relationship between ideal self and realistic self.

5. The more you think, the more trouble you will encounter; Nothing, but no trouble at all. The more you are afraid, the more others will bully you; You are not afraid of anything, but no one dares to bully you. This is the world. If you have a good character, others will take advantage of you. If you cross the line a little, everyone will come to please you. Don't give in blindly, but be brave to say no when you are wronged! Wishing people happiness is the stupidest thing in the world.

6. If you want others to take care of your feelings, don't compromise everything.

7. A person who achieves great things can't care about others everywhere and spend his time arguing with others, which will not only damage his temperament, but also lose his self-control. Be humble to others if possible. Rather than go with the dog, let the dog go first. If you are bitten by a dog, even if you kill the dog, you can't heal your wound.

8. A person can strive for perfection, but he must suffer enough on the opposite side to make himself complete.

9. Really smart people are confused about small things, wise about big things, keep a low profile and keep an open mind. Being a man is like water, combining rigidity with softness. Only those who fight for the truth can laugh at the end and become real winners. Low-key people are more likely to do things well, and those who are capable must not show their abilities. Only by learning to keep a low profile, knowing how to hide others, being as smart as a fool and keeping a low profile can we win life.

10. People who have expectations, every day is a new day.

1 1. Sometimes you let go of something, not because you are suddenly willing to give up, but because the deadline is up, you are more willful and mature, and you know it's time to turn over the page.

12. At the moment when the problem appears, you must control your emotions, don't be angry, don't be extreme, don't say anything drastic, and be patient. Patience is not to keep you from dealing with this matter, but to avoid doing things that embarrass you when your emotions are out of control. You will know later that there are really few things in life that deserve our courtesy, education, character and pattern.

13. In this world, there is no perfect choice once and for all. You can't have both flowers and fruits. You can't get all the benefits. You should learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You should learn to accept the deformity and sadness of life, and then, be calm. Because this is life.

14. Freedom is not doing what you want to do, but the ability not to do what you don't want to do.

15. The most beautiful thing is not to keep time, but to keep memories. True strength is not to forgive others, but to let go of yourself.

16. If your back can't move, you have to put it down; If you can't afford to get hurt, look down; If you can't figure it out, you can't think; If you can't hate, you have to heal. Life is a process of self-cultivation. Why do you want to look at people and things with such an uneven heart? That is to humiliate yourself and live up to the years.

17. Don't envy the brilliance of others, and don't laugh at their misfortunes. People in this life, different opportunities, different marriages, good luck or bad luck, are their own lives. Try your best to do things well and try your best to do yourself well. Morning is daytime, and running around is life. No matter how far the road is, it will come to an end. No matter how deep the pain is, it will eventually end. In this world, there is no constant eternity, and there is no immortal love. When you are happy, make good use of it. When you are upset, don't care. No matter how stormy it is, it will be sunny ahead.

18. Don't rush to know the so-called "comprehension". Understanding of life can only be achieved through constant touch and perception. What others tell you is not your most personal experience after all. Hold on, walk slowly, learn to try and feel.

19. Only by keeping a humble heart can we be more perfect. Life is not perfect, only perfect; Time is not perfect, only try.

20. When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person insists on his own ideas in his heart and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.