A boy won’t like a girl who talks awkwardly to him every day! Tell me about my experience chasing my little brother

Please stop talking awkwardly! ! !

After reading the chat records of many girls, it is really terrible!

First of all, let me emphasize that we must chat with a purpose. You are not here to chat with him. It does not mean that you can make him fall in love with you by talking to him a lot every day. All efforts are centered around Follow these three goals! ! ! The first level: make him feel relaxed and happy during the chat, the second level: show your charm during the chat! Some girls chat very well with boys and solve their problems every day, but in the end they forget to show their own advantages and can only be used as backup. The third level, which is the highest level, controls his emotions and makes him lose his mind! This is even better than making boys happy~ I will also talk about how to achieve these three goals next!

Things to note when chatting: Don’t be reserved or hold back! Don't study every punctuation mark, and don't be too polite and courteous. You are in a relationship, not reporting to your superiors. Use less words like thank you, can you, etc., which will make people feel distant. Don’t speak too openly and straightforwardly, like “Have you missed me?” “Handsome guy, can you come into my bowl?” Unless you want to be blacklisted by the other party, don’t complain every day and be full of negative energy. Don’t write every day. Tell him what happens to you every day in a diary style. He is not your fan either! Reject meaningless nonsense, such as "Good morning, are you there? What are you doing? Have you slept?" Don't say it, it's just greetings, not chatting!

How to start a chat? Many inexperienced girls hesitate to chat after joining a boy because they always feel too abrupt. There is nothing unexpected or unexpected, love is inherently unexpected and exciting! Of course, that doesn’t mean you can do whatever you want. I’ve compiled several opening methods for you.

1. Transfer comments in Moments to private chat. After the other party replies to you, don’t continue to reply. Just chat privately in the small window.

2. Start with the avatar, like this His avatar is Kobe. You can say "I want to try what it feels like to chat with Kobe." The same can be done with celebrities, anime characters, animals and plants.

3. Intersection opening. Find the intersection between the two of you to start the chat. For example, you met in the study room. You can open like this: "Let's see what you have to prepare for going to the study room every day." "Take the exam?"

4. Information sharing. Share the content that the other party is interested in. It can be in the form of photos, screenshots, or links. For example, if the other party is a postgraduate entrance examination party, you can send him "How is the postgraduate entrance examination school?" "Choose" content, and then say "What is said above makes sense. Have you chosen a school?" There are also some welcome additions in the comment area.

Chat frequency and length

1. Chat frequency. There is no unified rule on this. Don’t let him touch your frequency. You can’t let him guess “this girl”. You want to talk to me today”? Can you still surprise him? You have to make him unable to figure out your thoughts. You can do this, contact him for a few days in a row, and then not contact him for a few days in a row. The specific number of days is not fixed, it depends on his mood and his performance. .

2. Chatting duration, this is divided into centralized type and decentralized type. In the early stage of acquaintance, it is centralized type. The length of chatting with him on a certain night is not important. If the chat is happy, even five minutes will be enough. Two hours of chatting will help. Be sure to choose a time when he is free, such as during vacation, or when he has just finished posting on Moments or liking you on Moments. The time between 9 and 11 pm is the most suitable. Once the relationship becomes more familiar, you can chat in a distributed manner, that is, chat from morning to night, but you don’t need to reply immediately. You can discuss and share what happens every day together. This cultivates his habit and makes him dependent.

Content (how to find topics)

1. Talk about some recent hot topics, remember to be down-to-earth, preferably something that everyone is familiar with and interesting. When talking about current affairs and political topics, don’t always focus on politics, but go deeper into life from this topic.

"Is the epidemic serious in your home?"

2. Talk about his hobbies. This is not bad even in the early stages of acquaintance (if you don't know his hobbies, you can ask him? You can also talk about boys' feelings) Hobby games, basketball, movies, etc.) "What type of movies do you like to watch? Can you recommend a few to me?"

3. If the other person is a student, you can first learn about his major/school Start by getting to know him slowly, but do some homework in advance. "Are all the students in your school top academics?"

4. Talk about work, but don't ask him too complicated questions. The purpose is just It allows him to vent after work, after all, work occupies a lot of his life. "Have you ever encountered difficult people at work?"

5. Talk about his buddies/roommates/, and remember not to take the initiative to say bad things about them unless he complains to you first. In addition, this can only be used as an entry point. If you always talk about his friends, he will mistakenly think that you like his friends. "Which person in your dormitory is the best to you?"

6. Talk about life/ideals/dreams/pursuits "What was your ideal when you were a child? Did you realize it later?"

8 , talk about relationships, don’t talk in the early stage of acquaintance, wait until you are more familiar with each other before talking, remember not to tell all your relationship experiences, and keep it mysterious. “Have you ever chased a girl? Has a girl chased you? ”

How to deepen the chat?

Some girls can always get acquainted with boys quickly, but they are always in the state of being just friends. The chat always remains on the surface and cannot go deep. The chat should be in-depth! For example, sharing personal feelings, expressing opinions, and venting emotions can make your relationship go further than ordinary friends. Teach you a few methods

1. Our expression method

For example, if the other party asks, "The National Day passed so quickly," you can answer: "Yes, we will be there in a few days." I have to go to work." This can brainwash the other person, bring him closer, and make him think that you are familiar with him.

2. How to share private secrets to get the other person to open up.

You can take the initiative to reveal some of your little secrets, small embarrassments, innocuous shortcomings, and your unlucky experiences

How to guide ambiguity?

Ambiguous! Only with ambiguity can we take the next step, otherwise we can be good brothers at best? Good gay friend? How ambiguous?

1. Talk about what happened between you and him

1. What kind of person did you think I was when you first met me? Later, I felt that I felt right? 2. Do you think we have anything in common? 3. Why do you think I like to chat with you? 4. What do you think is our biggest difference? 5. Am I different from the girls you met before?

2. Learn to flirt

1. What do you think of my figure?

2. You chat with me every day, are you not afraid of falling in love with me?

3. I am very curious, do all boys watch pornographic films (sensitive words)?

4. You exercise every day, are you very good at getting in bed?

5. What kind of girl do you think is sexy?

Cautions that can be applied in chat

1. Orgasm Cutoff Method

When the atmosphere of the chat is very lively, when he is about to treat himself While we were chatting about our ideas and energy for success, we suddenly had a terminal conversation and said to him: Sorry, I'm a little tired and have to take a rest. The purpose is to make him feel itchy.

2. Don’t reply to every sentence.

For example, when chatting until very late at night, you can stop replying him at the right time, so that your topic is not over yet. Secondly Tian can continue chatting with him without any trace.

3. Disconnect appropriately (give a little love when you see this)

If he still doesn’t take the initiative to chat with you, it is better to disconnect appropriately for about a week. When he feels that you don't have such a strong feeling for him, suddenly contact him again, send him a message or call him to ask him out.

How to transition from chatting to reality

No matter how good your online chat is, you cannot always rely on being online. The two people have no intersection in reality, and the topics of conversation are bound to become fewer and fewer and slowly dry up.

Then let’s teach you how to guide boys to date you

1. You can make a bet with boys

For example, when playing games together, say to him: “What if this game is If you win, how are you going to reward me? Should you treat me to milk tea or watch a movie?" Remember, you must give him two options, rather than directly asking how to reward him.

2. You can say something to stimulate him

"I've been chatting with you for so long and I haven't seen you in person. Could you be an artificial intelligence robot?"

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