Is there anything that makes you have a bad impression of a person?

There is one thing that greatly affected my impression of my friend Xiao Wang.

Xiao Wang is a friend I have known for a long time. We usually have a good relationship with him, and he is relatively sincere to his friends. We also drink together when we have nothing to do. My home and his home are about two kilometers away. When we are on holiday, we can just make a phone call and come to our house to cook a few side dishes and drink some wine. After a long time, we become more familiar with each other.

My friend Xiao Wang has two brothers. He is the eldest and has a younger brother. A few years ago, I met his younger brother when we went out for dinner, but we didn't like to eat together. We only said hello when we met. One time I asked his brother to come and have dinner with me, but my friend said forget it. It may be a bit unfair when his parents split up their property. It may be because his younger brother is behind his house and he has to walk through his family's private land when he goes out. When the family is divided, there must be a way for his younger brother to enter and exit. , and occupying his small private land, maybe his parents did not have a clear support friend Xiao Wang, and gradually the relationship between the two brothers became abnormal. We generally don't interact with each other. When I go to dinner, my parents are separated. The father follows the eldest son, and the mother takes care of the younger son. Each of them supports one, and there is no big conflict. I have advised my friends that it is all in the past. Brothers who only have brothers in this present life and no brothers in the future life, why should we care so much about it. My friends always feel that the emperor loves the eldest son and the people love the younger ones, and I am at a loss. So I didn't say anything.

One day while eating, my friend Xiao Wang cooked some dishes and killed a chicken. I asked my friend to invite his old mother over to have a meal with her, but my friend didn't move and I didn't say anything. After all, it was his family matter. His father fell ill and passed away the year before last. He left behind an old mother who was over 80 years old. She was old, often sick, and in poor health.

One time, my friend Brother Xiao Wang met me on the street and pulled me in to chat for a while. It means that my father is gone, and if my mother needs help, I hope my brother can come forward to help. I said that my mother was sick once and wanted to take her to the hospital. I didn’t have a car, but my brother had a car, so I asked my brother to help take her to the hospital. But my brother didn't move, and he didn't know what he was thinking. I hope I can communicate with his brother.

Two days later, I met my friend Xiao Wang. Xiao Wang said that when the family was separated, each of them supported one, including birth, old age, illness and death. The two brothers had nothing to do with each other. I supported my father and I fulfilled my responsibility. I also know that my friend Xiao Wang did his best to support his father. But I feel vaguely sad that the family separation will strictly separate the two old people, which is a pain for the old people. As an old man who leaves behind an old man after he leaves, as a child, you should cherish your parents more, but Xiao Wang always shirks his obligations with one reason or another, which makes me feel chilled.

The eldest brother is like father, and the eldest sister-in-law is like mother

Since then, I have not been to my friend Xiao Wang’s house, and I have not contacted him. I feel sad for Xiao Wang's parents and feel sad that I have such a friend.