Do you think my life is easy? My husband and I run a grocery store. There is a four-year-old baby. He plays games every day and is not interested in business.

1, no one is perfect, no gold is enough. Speaking of LZ, she is a smart woman. She can see clearly the essence of some marriages. She didn't give up her family directly because of disappointment, so she can be called a good woman. It's a pity that she meets a big boy who is not sensible. Life is often like this. There are always some disappointments, and it is difficult to be perfect. Maybe what you meet is not the best, or what you want, but as far as life is concerned, I think such a man is the best for you.

If you feel uncomfortable inside, it's annoying to watch him play games. Imagine what your life would be like without such a person. Without a person, home is not home. Without a father who loves him, will you be happy at that time? Maybe it will be worse than it is now, and it will be more lonely and helpless. A family must have a man. Whether he is good or not, at least he is here. This is a complete family. You can't tell whether a person is good to you or not if nothing happens. Only when you are really down and out, can he stick with you, and you can really see the essence of a person.

As long as you are a person, you will always have a little hobby. Playing games is not good, but I don't think it's a big deal if you are not obsessed with affecting his health. From another point of view, it's worse than going out to fool around with people every day, or having an affair, or like gambling or something. No matter how bad he is, at least he knows how to make you happy. Many men will make people happy when they are in love, treat their wives as air after marriage, and even make their wives miserable, let alone make their wives happy. At least he knows how to be romantic. Although he likes playing games, he can't do housework to take care of the baby. Just because he hasn't grown up yet. In fact, the only child in many families is like this now. They can't even take care of themselves, let alone others.

4. What do women look for men for? Not just for love and life. No matter how much she loves, love will become dull after marriage. What is life? It's not just food and clothing, at least you don't have to worry about daily necessities. It is enough to have food and clothing, a lovely baby and a complete family. If you divorce your husband, no matter whether the man you are looking for is good or not, it will cause irreparable harm to your baby for a generation. Is this what you want to see?

5. Take 10,000 steps back. You think it's not good for your big boy to date now, so what kind of man do you think is the best? There are many kinds of men, one is poor and can't make money. People who can't make money must worry about their lives. Such men are relatively the most caring people, but they value money very much. If you want to use it, you must get his consent, let alone give it to you. One is to make money. This kind of people are generally busy, often socializing outside, and sometimes they may spend the night outside when they are drunk at night. There is also a rich family, and such a man has many opportunities to be tempted. Even if he is married, there are many women staring at him. As long as he can't resist the temptation, he may cheat. Are these what you want?

6. There are many men of various personalities. Some people hold their mobile phones every day and don't like to talk like wood. Some are very talkative, and they like to strike up a conversation when they see beautiful girls. Some people have strong personalities and like to argue about anything. Some are male chauvinism, beating their wives at will. Some wives at home are servants and lovers outside. Some people have no rice at home, so they borrow money to gamble when they are in debt outside. If you choose again, that's it.

7. Even if you don't want to have children and go out alone, even if you are married and beautiful, you will have less chance to find a man who has never been married than others, because even if an unmarried man is willing to accept you, his parents will definitely not want to know that you are divorced. If you insist on being together, it will be difficult to get along with your mother-in-law in the future. Because you are married and not married, you must deal with your new mother-in-law And if you find another divorced man, for whatever reason, as long as he has been divorced once, he is definitely not perfect in some ways. If you are happy and have a good life, if you don't get along well, it will be easy to get divorced again, because divorced people are more afraid of the blow of divorce than ordinary people. Is this really what you want?

8. I told you long ago that people should learn to be content. Maybe the person around you is not the best, but you should believe in your choice and believe that he is better than many people. As for playing games, it is not good for your health to play all the time. Such a man plays with a heavy heart and is addicted to the game just because he has not found a more interesting program. It's no use trying to stop such a big child. You can only guide him slowly like a child and be more patient. For example, when he is in a good mood, drag the child outside to play, for example, accompany the baby to the playground and let him play with the baby, or you can find out if there is anything outside that might attract him to play. For example, there are many board games now, and you can also play with him, such as outdoor CS and other projects. As long as it's fun, just tell him I think he'll always be interested. The same is playing, playing outside is better than facing the computer every day.

9. Now many children are addicted to games, and it is difficult to change him, let alone a big boy. It's no use preaching some big truths. You can only influence him slowly by your love. You can think of him as your child from another angle. You care about him like a mother. Every time he exceeds an hour or two, or when he stops by himself, you say to him, hey, boy, you. It would be better if we could speak in a softer tone: "Xianggong, do you want to have a rest?" Playing for a long time hurts your eyes too much. " As long as you have enough patience to touch him with love, I believe that one day he will be moved by your gentleness.