My daughter was slapped by her parents. Why is she angry?

The girl was slapped by her father and called the police, saying that she would remember it all her life. Recently, a girl chose to call the police after a dispute with her parents. At first, the girl was indignant because her father hit her, and said that she would remember these five slaps all her life, but the deeper problem was far from it. From the girl's words, we can know that she was beaten this time because she had some contradictions with her brother. As a result, only she was punished, which also aroused the girl's dissatisfaction with her parents' eccentric behavior for many years. The girl cried excitedly. She didn't understand why she was the one who quarreled with her brother and was beaten since she was a child. Her parents put all the responsibility on themselves. I don't understand why my parents keep saying that they gave birth to my brother for her. For the behavior of parents having a second child, the girl also shouted a lot of "firstborn" voices: I didn't ask them to have a second child. The mother on the side was very excited to explain after seeing her daughter say this, but the sugar mother found the common psychological misunderstanding of the parents of the second child from those words. On the surface, it is good for the first child, but in fact it is not the love that the child really needs. Girls wear brand-name clothes since childhood, but this is not necessarily the love she needs. In some disputes, my mother thinks that girls think too much, and she is not bad to girls. The girl wears more brand-name clothes than her younger brother, and she also wants her two children to have a better life. But sugar mom wants to say that in children's minds, the competition for brand-name clothes, snacks and pocket money is actually the competition for parents' "love". We often associate fairness and material things between two children. In fact, children need fair love more. Younger children don't know much about it. They will regard the number of snacks as their weight in their parents' hearts, and they will be unhappy if they miss a bite. When I grow up, I will care more about my parents' attitude and the fairness of a girl in handling things. In reality, many children are like this, just like parents gave a girl a doll that she dreamed of holding in her arms, but when she saw her brother and sister sitting in her parents' arms empty-handed, she would still be jealous. Giving birth to a second child for Dabao may be an irresponsible lie, and the only child era is coming to an end. When the couple started fighting for a second child, some people obviously wanted to have both, some wanted to support themselves, and some couples simply liked children, but it was more like an irresponsible lie to talk about having a second child for Dabao. In the story of the girl who called the police, she always had a good relationship with her brother, but when the two brothers and sisters had conflicts, they were not satisfied with their parents' solutions. The girl in front also expressed her feelings. Her parents said that she gave birth to a younger brother, not the one she asked for. However, the second child should be taken from the baby after birth, which will take away some energy and love of parents until they can take care of themselves, leading to Dabao being ignored. It is inevitable that girls will be wronged when they have this experience. Parents either really don't have time to take care of Dabao, or think Dabao should make way for Bauer. In short, for Dabao, if his younger brother and sister are born, they will be wronged, instead of having an extra companion, so the reason why his parents "are good for him" is equivalent to an irresponsible lie. Giving birth to a second child is a disaster? Don't let partiality affect your feelings. No matter what the gender combination of children in a family with many children is, no matter how old they are, since they have children, they are relatives of each other. In life, many brothers and sisters' feelings get worse, which is related to their parents' partiality. Small things make children's mentality unbalanced. Finally, they attributed their unhappiness to having another child at home. In fact, there is not much contradiction between children. In fact, if you think about it carefully, it is unfair to Bauer to have a second child for Dabao. Every child deserves an independent personality and should not be an accessory of brothers and sisters. We should be glad that we have a son or daughter who likes to compete for "love", because watching parents love other children shows that they are numb and indifferent inside. Finally, the girl asked her father to apologize to herself. After her father apologized, the girl quickly forgave him. Some people say that girls make a mountain out of a molehill, while others say that they will keep these five slaps in mind. But sugar mom only hopes that after this incident, parents can understand the girl's feelings. Candy mother has something to say: brothers and sisters are real relatives, and parents are partial to one child, which is not good for the growth of both children. Favored children are often fearless. Neglected children may have to spend a lifetime to heal their childhood and achieve fairness in love, so as not to affect the feelings between children and close the parent-child relationship.