Don't like to meet relatives, do you think it's just talk?

I recently read a sentence on the Internet: Everything is fine in my hometown, but people are wrong. I think you are poor and afraid of being rich. I talk nonsense when I meet people. I don't have much knowledge but a lot of brains. My parents are short in my hometown.

When it comes to the word rural, most people have some different views.

But I think the most fundamental reason it reflects is personal quality.

As we all know, the quality of China people is still very low in the world. Among them, the material level is too low and the inequality between the rich and the poor is obviously a big reason. This problem is also well reflected in poor rural areas and prosperous cities.

Whether it is rural or urban, as long as there are such people with no quality or low quality, it is the same everywhere.

We can't generalize, but it can be said that warm, simple, hardworking and kind people in rural areas are hard to see.

There are a few people who receive higher education in rural areas, and their overall cultural level is relatively low, and their comprehensive quality is also lacking!

I am a real rural person. I grew up in the countryside. It can be said that I have never been out of the countryside except high school and college. Although I like life in the countryside, I don't like people in the countryside.

Let's talk about our personal experience!

When I was very young, I went to a relative's house in the same village to play with their children. Because I am not sensible, I put too much lime when we fertilize the potted plants.

Later, the potted plants were "burned to death" and the adults were very angry. The next day, they convicted me. She was fierce, and I was scared, but I denied it.

Since then, she has been obsessed with this matter, and whenever she has time, she goes to the villagers' home and says, "That child in that family is so bad that he did it. . . . . There is really no tutor for this kind of thing. "

I didn't know until I grew up that that woman was a nuisance to many people in the village because she often quarreled with others and had problems with many people, including my mother.

It can be said that it was my fault in that matter, but she was a little too secretive on the surface. It's best for such relatives to die of old age.

Also, I went home on annual leave the other day, and my friend asked me to buy me some new year's goods.

On entering the room, I saw my father's relatives chatting with my sister-in-law. I said hello to her politely.

Then she saw the new year's goods in my hand and said, ah, I bought so much food, why don't I share them? "

I said, "Oh, it's not mine. My friend asked me to buy it back. "

So she suddenly said, "oh, if you don't want to give it, just say you don't want to give it, and make an excuse to say it's a friend's." How stingy! "

When I heard this sentence, I was actually quite angry. I didn't want to talk to her for a second and said, "Whatever you say." So I didn't go back upstairs. What a speechless event!

Right? I don't know much, but I have a big heart.

Do you think I don't want to see my relatives, but I'm really just talking?

I don't know how to say this kind of thing, and suddenly feeling indifferent will be a good coping attitude.

I heard from a friend that she had encountered a similar thing.

Her home was being decorated, and one day she met a relative in the same village. She and her children used to be classmates.

When the relatives met, they said, "Adong (a friend's nickname), I heard that your home is being renovated recently. You are very rich. It's very kind of you, not as poor as our family, and not as good as Ayue. "

The friend replied, "Everyone is different and the road is different. There is no need to compare. "

Relatives said, "Yes, Ayue is not as good as you, and she is not promising enough."

. . . . . .

My friend said that she didn't speak any more, but chose silence.

It can be said that rural people have different degrees of acceptance of knowledge, but this is itself a question of consciousness. What quality can we talk about without consciousness?

I know this is a generalization, and I don't mean to discriminate against rural people. Besides, I'm from the countryside myself.

The poor quality of China people is a big problem, but it is more obvious in rural areas. And cities. Who's in charge?

When we return to the countryside, we will always meet people who spit everywhere, swear at the first opening, have poor awareness of environmental protection, talk behind their backs and be cynical. . . . . .

What rural people's feelings of hospitality, kindness, simplicity and innocence were once the ideal of dreams, while laziness, swearing, disrespect and rudeness gradually became the standard of rural people.

The world is developing and China is growing. I still believe that the quality of China people is constantly improving.

How to deal with the relationship between relatives, I can only say: I can't see you several times a year, so I agree with you, and I don't have to agree with you from the heart; There is no need to compete for a high or low view.