How to attract boys to actively pursue you?

How to attract boys to actively pursue you. How to attract boys to actively pursue you. In life, girls are more reserved. Even if they meet a boy they like very much, they will only attract boys. Children take the initiative to pursue themselves. Let me take a look at the relevant information on how to attract boys to actively pursue you. How to Attract a Boy to Chase You 1 1. Don’t chase a man actively, you have to attract him to chase you. This is what a love expert in my college dormitory told me. She can handle two men at the same time and even fall in love with one of them after being exposed. The chosen person gets married, her methods are very powerful, and her appearance is really not beautiful (she is a good friend of mine, but I also judge it objectively). My own feeling when using this technique is that you exude attraction but don’t make it too obvious for him to realize that you like him, which means that he feels that he just has a chance, and then in the end he thinks that he is the one chasing you, not you. Chase him. I can't quite explain the techniques here, so you have to adapt to circumstances. But it’s best not to answer his too explicit and ambiguous words, don’t show any joy or joy, and don’t let him think he can easily get you. In fact, most of these words are just to test you, and you will lose if you take them seriously. Attraction is femininity, and it is best to use it together with innocence, otherwise it will be easy for you to become romantic. Shyness, reserve, and simplicity are all good signs. In short, it is absolutely necessary to make some changes for some people. It does not change your nature, but makes your temperament more lovable, so in the cartoon lz posted above I don’t agree with many of the statements. A lot of what Yi Shu said was very reasonable and practical. For example, this girl probably did it unintentionally. She was very cold towards her boyfriend. She was still in college at the time. She was afraid that dating her boyfriend would affect her studies, so she didn’t study with her boyfriend every night during self-study, or even tell her boyfriend. Which classroom will she go to. Her boyfriend often flies between several teaching buildings at night hoping to find her. He is so infatuated. Also, when her classmates go on a trip, she doesn’t take her boyfriend with her (the boyfriend is not theirs). Later, her boyfriend couldn't bear it anymore and took the initiative to break up with her. But two or three years later, even if he had a girlfriend who was a school beauty, he still said that in fact, that girl was very good and pure, and he should not have broken up with her in the first place. (Just saying, I didn’t go back and pursue her, but at least it makes me remember her.) In fact, this girl went too far, but being a little egotistical in getting along with her, and making your boyfriend feel that you care is still beneficial to the relationship. Long lasting. 2. Women are passive. If you use attraction tactics but he doesn't take the bait, you have to give up. I won't fall in love with a man who doesn't like me, but I have to choose carefully if he likes me. So no matter how good he is, as long as you use attraction tactics but he doesn't come after you, don't pester him anymore. There will always be people who don't like you. It's not your fault, nor his fault. 3. The relationship between men and women should also include after they are together. I have been married for a long time, and I feel that getting along between two people still requires skills. As the emotional leader of the family, women must make some changes. A colleague who is about 40 years old told me that she has seen many marriages, the kind where the husband and wife have been in a harmonious relationship for more than ten years. It is not that the woman is beautiful (how can you maintain your beauty in your 40s?), but they are all The woman is good at complimenting her husband. For example: Baby, look at how delicious the food daddy cooks! We ate them all; hubby, you are really good at taking care of a baby. He likes you telling him stories the most, and he doesn’t even want me to tell him! I think this is very reasonable. In fact, it is not easy for two people to get along for a lifetime, because everyone has highs and lows, and moods have ups and downs, but women’s emotions are more resilient, so they must play a leading role in the family’s emotions. Praise your husband in this way In fact, it is a disguised form of asking the husband to share the housework. The more a person contributes to the family, the more he values ??the family.

Which one is better, those fathers who have been busy working and neglecting to take care of their children since they were young, or fathers who never miss any stage of their children's growth and psychology? How to Attract Boys to Chase You 2 1. Approach as friends. Some girls are impatient. When they see a boy they like, they will ask: "Handsome boy, do you have a girlfriend?" "Can I chase you?" "You can do that." "Will you be my boyfriend?" To tell you the truth, a boy will only be excited for a moment at most. After all, it is not common for a girl to talk to you and confess to you. But after that time, he will calm down and either reject you directly or Keep you as a spare tire. The correct way is to pretend to approach him unintentionally, without being too purposeful. For example, students can pretend they don’t understand a question and ask him, or if their computer is broken, they can ask him to help fix it, etc. In short, don't reveal your purpose right from the beginning. You can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. Approaching as a friend first can make the other party let down their guard and face you more naturally and honestly. 2. Show appreciation rather than affection. Girls are creatures that become cuter the more they are pampered. In fact, there is another sentence to this sentence: boys are creatures that become cuter the more they are praised. So if you like a boy, don't be stingy about praising him. Boys are born with heroism and like to be admired and affirmed. No boy will be interested in a girl who dislikes him every day! On the contrary, the kind of girl who praises and admires him like a little girl every day will be particularly popular with boys. This is also the reason why many men with strong women and weak men will cheat on weaker women, because we boys need a sense of presence too much. But be sure to remember that your compliment is just appreciation, not a good impression! You have to praise him every day to make him happy, but also not seem to want him so much and want to be with him. Only in this way will he feel good about you and be curious about you. Showing your trump card too quickly will only make boys think you are boring and boring, and treat you like a bitch. 3. Try your best to show your own advantages. I have always said one thing: the essence of liking is attraction. When two people are together, it's never who chases the other. In the final analysis, they are attracted to each other, and they get closer and closer. Therefore, instead of trying to please and stalk him every day, it is better to adjust your mentality. Although you like him, you and him are equal, and the relationship you get from a low position will definitely not last long. He has advantages, and you also have your own shining points, and what you have to do is to discover your own shining points and amplify them. Don’t be humble at this time! Excessive modesty will only make you feel more inferior. You must have confidence in yourself and show your strengths so that others can see them. No one will notice you being unknown in the corner. Trying to shine is the right way to attract others. 4. Deepen the sense of presence in his life. We all know the principle that a drop of water will penetrate a stone. The accumulation of quantitative changes will lead to qualitative changes. If it appears in his life every day, he will get used to it in a short time. These are unchanging laws. Some girls are too impatient. When they see a boy they like, they want to take it as their own immediately and have a relationship. Boys' feelings also need to be cultivated slowly. So I have to be patient and live like his atmosphere. Maybe my presence is not very strong every time, but I have to hang out in front of him every time. For example, find reasons to chat with him every day, find opportunities to create encounters, or bribe him. Friends always mention you in front of them. These behaviors may seem useless, but believe me, if you persist for a while, he will get used to your presence in his life, and he will be a little uncomfortable without your news suddenly. 5. Create a sense of crisis. A person's perception of gain and possession is always weaker than loss. In other words, if the boy you like has captured your psychology and feels that you will never leave no matter what, he will Subconsciously, he doesn't cherish you very much. He will hang on to you. It doesn't matter whether he agrees to be with you or not, because even if he doesn't agree, you will still like him and you will still hang around him every day. Therefore, it is wrong to blindly output. At the appropriate time, you must learn to retreat and let the other party feel the loss.

After using the above methods to maintain a stalemate for a period of time, if the opponent is still unmoved, you can start to retreat! Create a sense of crisis that he may lose you at any time: you used to talk to him every day, but now you suddenly don’t; you used to admire him a lot, but now you don’t care about his deliberate behavior; you used to always want to ask him out, but now you agree Went out with other boys. If you want to capture, you must first manipulate. No one will put much effort into the prey that has been obtained. What is not available and what is likely to be lost is the best. As long as your looks are okay and not too bad, and the boy you are chasing is not very different from you, you can basically use the above methods to successfully seduce a male idol. If you have tried all the methods and still can't woo him, When the time comes, just give up and don't hang yourself on a tree. One day there will be such a person who will take the initiative to approach you, instead of letting you rack your brains and brains to chase after him. All you have to do is take care of yourself. If you bloom, the breeze will come naturally. How to Attract a Boy to Chase You 3 During a conversation, touch the other person's arm inadvertently. For example, when a boy is telling a joke, and you pat his arm happily after hearing it, you can create opportunities for the boy. For example, if there is something on your head, You know how this thing got up, but you have to act like you can't find it. Asking the boy to help you deliberately get closer to the boy is relatively passive. You can also take the initiative to attack the boy, such as getting the boy close to you but far away from you. For example, if you like some of the other person's accessories, such as hats, scarves, watches, etc. that are far away, let you wear them with your back turned when wearing them. After wearing them, you can turn around and kill them. You can even go one step further and put the hat back on purpose. After returning home, we will go to the boy and tell him that he accidentally put it back on. We will make an appointment next time to return it. This is the second chance to get closer. When we return it, we can also spray some perfume on the hat. No. Experienced boys will think that this is the scent of your hair. When we meet next time, for example, in winter, you can wear a suspender and a coat outside, and take it off for a moment when there is heating in the room. . . . You taste it, you taste it carefully. If you go to a casual restaurant, you can order a drink with a straw. What are you doing? Do you still remember the habit of pouting when taking photos? Directly beeping is too deliberate. We can pass the drink. Drink, but don't drink it slurpingly, take a sip, hold it in your mouth, pout, and look at him with a cute expression. Do you have a favorite celebrity? Yes, but don't talk about the good-looking ones. Just go to someone like Shen Teng. Choose those celebrities who are not good-looking but have souls. You don't have to say anything. Just tell me to show you a photo and then send one. You say you like the photo of you and the dog, but the focus is on the long legs in the photo of the dog? Otherwise, if you like it, you can go to our house to see the legs, no, it’s the dogs. Hey, I wrote so many items without realizing it. Actually, I only wanted to write 6...