Marry money, never marry love (Which is happier, marry love or marry money)

Introduction: In today's society, many women are neither married to money nor to love, but easily compromise with life and marry "forbearance".

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In today's society, do you choose to marry love or money.

This question is very difficult for any girl.

Everyone knows that it is really difficult to live a good life when you are married to love without material guarantees. Although the person in front of you is your sweetheart and you have emotional sustenance, the lack of material and the hardships of life are always a problem. It will kill our will to marry love. After all, poor life is a disease that can kill a person.

So is it better to be married to money?

Not necessarily. No matter how rich you are, there is no spiritual sustenance. The days when you are just an empty vase are also a kind of suffering. Who wants to waste his life next to someone he doesn’t love? After all, life still requires A lover comes to share his joys and sorrows.

But often you can’t have your cake and eat it too. Usually, this kind of marriage that brings money and can be married to love, the probability of it happening to many ordinary girls is like winning the jackpot in a lottery ticket.

However, this multiple-choice question of bread and love usually only happens to girls who have just entered society. More often, the sufferings of life will tell you: you can neither marry love nor have the opportunity to marry money. You usually marry forbearance and compromise.

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Zhou Zhou is now a 35-year-old middle-aged woman. She often has milk stains all over her body and shuttles back and forth between her two children and household chores.

People who have seen her when she was twenty would find it difficult to connect her now with her past.

When Zhou Zhou was in her teens, she was famous for her beauty. Her big, watery eyes were the envy of many girls. She had fair skin and a tall figure. Even the old people praised her: she is so pretty. A girl.

At that time, many people said that Zhou Zhou was definitely the material for a wealthy family.

Later, Zhou Zhou fell in love. The other person was not from a wealthy family, but had a similar family situation to Zhou Zhou. Although Zhou Zhou fell in love based on the premise of falling in love, there was always a feeling of resistance in his heart. , I feel that under such conditions and being with such a person, I have simply treated myself badly.

However, before Zhou Zhou could think deeply about it, the relationship broke up due to many conflicts.

When they broke up, there was no inseparable and earth-shattering weeping as imagined. Instead, both of them were calm and relieved.

Later, Zhou Zhou had several relationships one after another. They all hoped to marry for love and have money to stabilize them. Unfortunately, without money in each relationship, even love seemed so pale, even those boys Even Zhou Zhou’s temper can’t be tolerated.

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Later, when Zhou Zhou entered her thirties, the loss of collagen began to shake her desire for both bread and love, and her family members began to have frequent Introduce someone to her.

Finally, Zhou Zhou lowered his head in front of age and reality, and began to deal with one blind date after another.

After that, I found a suitable one. I don’t know whether it was a compromise with age or a surrender to life. In the end, Zhou Zhou got married. Then they began to live in a forbearing marriage, which lasted for five years and gave birth to two children.

Zhou Zhou and her husband do not have the passion they imagined. They live a life of "using each other" and have no financial freedom.

First of all, the two of them exhausted all their efforts to solve the house problem, and also used half of their parents' life savings. Next came the various worries in life and the cost of growing up two children. Before this problem was solved, the next problem came to the door.

Their ordinary marriage was not as smooth sailing as they imagined, and they were frantically testing on the verge of divorce.

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I still remember that when Zhou Zhou gave birth to her first child, she had a big conflict with her husband. At that time, there were problems in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the relationship between husband and wife. The coldness was so extreme that Zhou Zhou planned to divorce, but in the end due to various reasons, Zhou Zhou continued her marriage and gave birth to a second child.

When she gave birth to her second child, her husband began to wander around outside again and stay up all night. Zhou Zhou had long since lost the confidence to divorce. She just thought about how to get married for the two of them. The child calls the man back to fulfill the family.

At this time, the mother-in-law started to make trouble again, blindly saying that the reason her son did not come home was because Zhou Zhou could not keep the man, and she also said that Zhou Zhou was half responsible.

Zhou Zhou was so angry that he had to disobey his elders, and tried his best to find out where her husband was staying. He put down his two children and ran away from home. It can be said that he used all his strength.

Her husband also figured it out later. Although he had troubled Zhou Zhou a lot, he still went home and became the father of his two children.

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Now Zhou Zhou is surrounded by two children all day long. The younger son is also two years old. Those proud appearances only left a deep feeling on her body. Wrinkles and youth are just memories.

That day, I asked her the question of marrying for love or marrying for money. She smiled contemptuously and said: "Just fantasize about this kind of question. Do you really think that life Will they give you a choice? They usually force you to submit."

Although her answer was a bit pessimistic, it was still true.

When a girl marries love and money with her youthful fantasy, she has already begun to compromise in life.

If marrying love is a kind of luck, then money must be obtained through one's own efforts. Usually, many people fail to wait for their love and have been worn down by age and life. Smoothed the edges.

Money and love are accessories in your life. These things may become vital to you, but they will never become your lifelong support through marriage.

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When you think that if you marry love, you will have a lifelong happiness, you may have given your life to the feelings that others have paid for you. Once this happens, If you are emotionally withdrawn, you may not even have the courage to live.

When you feel that a man’s money can make you worry-free about food and clothing, you may have given your life to the person in your marriage. When the man no longer supports you, you may not even have enough to eat. It's all very difficult.

Therefore, instead of fantasizing about this choice, it is better to live your current life sincerely, let today's efforts become tomorrow's pride, and make the rest of your life no longer so mediocre.

Even if you really can't marry money or love, don't give up your life easily. Marrying a make-shift marriage, quarreling every day, and being tormented by life is the most beautiful thing about a person. Sad.

Therefore, make good use of your life, improve yourself, and make yourself better, so that you can better wait for and welcome a better love. Then, use your own efforts to achieve your own financial freedom.