Performance of steel straight man

First, words that hurt people will be said directly, and they don't understand amorous feelings and are not afraid of women getting hurt. A so-called steel straight man, in the process of chatting with women, will not worry about whether what he said is appropriate, whether it will make women feel uncomfortable after listening, and even hurt women's hearts. Even if it hurts people, he will say it directly. In the process of chatting, he doesn't understand amorous feelings at all, and he doesn't know any interest, which makes women have no interest in chatting. Such a man, chatting for a day, will make women feel very annoyed, even if the other conditions of the man are good, women will not like it. Second, stingy, always self-centered, don't think that straight steel men will be generous, even if they give gifts to women, they will choose the cheapest and most economical items. Therefore, a steel straight man is often very stingy and stingy in the process of interacting with women. And the most important thing is that a straight steel man is always self-centered and always says that I think so. I think this is right. Such a man doesn't listen to other people's opinions at all, let alone adopt them. He lives completely in his own world, and after letting women date him several times, he will feel bored. Third, his life is sloppy and irregular, and others are not allowed to say that he is often a straight man of steel. His daily life is very loose and irregular. Even if his life is a mess, others are not allowed to tell. Fourth, selfishness, thinking that you are good and handsome, is a heartthrob. Steel straight men are mostly selfish. In the process of dealing with women, he always considers his own interests first, whether he will get hurt or not. What women can't stand most is that such men always think that they are good, handsome and attractive, and women are greedy for him when they associate with him. To put it bluntly, the straightforward steel metropolis is a bit narcissistic, which will make women not only unbearable, but also annoying. No matter what topic you talk about, you will come to an impasse. The most obvious feature of a straight man in steel is that no matter what topic you talk about together, he can always talk about it and make your chat process come to a deadlock. Even the hottest gossip news at present, he can talk to you until you have nothing to say and make you angry. Therefore, most women will find it annoying to associate with such a man, because chatting with such a man will make them feel bored and bored. In a word, for a straight steel man, it is mostly because he is too stubborn, always self-centered and doesn't know how to empathize, which leads to such a poor popularity in the eyes of women. Of course, as a woman, if she wants to give herself a good future, she is definitely unwilling to marry a straight man of steel. Sixth, linear thinking The most obvious feature of straight men is linear thinking. They are not good at guessing other people's subtext and hints. Sometimes honesty makes you wonder if you are afraid of marrying a fool. Know a treasure mother and listen to her husband. That's a typical straight man. I haven't seen any nerds at work at ordinary times, so I have no brains when I go home. For example, my husband helps me collect clothes, and people really only collect clothes and pants and hang them outside; Let my husband help wash the dishes. People really only wash the dishes, and the plates and pots are still in the sink. When cooking, I asked my husband to bring me an onion, and they really brought me an onion. You haven't asked, "Why is there only one?" The somebody else also reasonable "you say one, want a few can't directly say! Blame me now! " 7. Not very expressive, not romantic at all. On Valentine's Day, wedding anniversary or birthday, some husbands will decide what gift to give their wives in advance. The idea of straight men is quite strange. If they can't find the right gift, they will go home empty-handed. If the wife is angry, people will still think: am I not a very big gift myself? As a living person, I just need a heart that loves you. Why don't I buy things by credit card? I feel very sad. Is our relationship inferior to material things? Of course, some straight men will remember to give gifts under the guidance of their wives, but seeing his carefully selected things really makes people want to go back. I know a treasure mother. I heard her talk about her birthday. Her husband gave her a knife and said with a big face, "Didn't you always say that the knife at home doesn't work?" I bought you a new one specially, which is practical and cost-effective! "Later, on our wedding anniversary, my husband gave her two big grapefruit. I asked why? Husband said thank you for giving birth to two sons, grapefruit, son, son! I really want to turn against him. I don't quite understand and want to understand, but I still can't understand your feelings. Unlike straight male cancer and male chauvinism, straight male husbands are actually willing to pay attention to their wives' feelings. In life, they will not be selfish or make various demands under the banner of being good to their wives. But because of the attribute of straight men, they always don't understand women's words and behaviors, and they want to understand, but they just can't. Well, it really makes people angry and want to be happy. Performance of steel straight man 2 Identification of steel straight man, with these five characteristics, how many did you win? 1. Living in their own world, "steel straight men" all have their own emotional world outlook, values and aesthetics, which are almost paranoid and unable to extricate themselves. They are like writers and directors of a play. All the characters in the play should act according to his logic and thinking, or you have a problem. 2, the confidence of fans "Steel Straight Man" has a mysterious sense of self-superiority, including gender superiority. They are completely self-centered, thinking that women are inherently weak and cannot live without men. They are also very critical of others and often show their dissatisfaction and unhappiness with others. In short, they are very narcissistic, narcissistic to conceit. 3. Another typical symptom of male chauvinism "steel straight man" is male chauvinism. They are very controlling and like to discipline others. Especially for women, in the eyes of "steel straight man", women are in a subordinate position to men, so they should obey his arrangement and agree with his views. 4, doing things simply and rudely "steel straight men" have a paranoid personality, they are strong, controlling, and like to brainwash others, so doing things simply and rudely, informal. 5. Paralyze yourself and refuse to listen and accept. In addition, "steel straight men" also have a strong sense of self-paralysis. Once the authority of the fantasy world they created is broken and violently attacked by the outside world, they will not be as arrogant and self-righteous as usual, but hide like snails, refuse to accept any information and feedback from the outside world and remain immersed in their own world. The performance of iron and steel straight man is 3 1, which directly expresses his views. The biggest feature of straight men is directness. They speak their minds and express their views very directly. Therefore, he may ignore the current environment, and others will feel uncomfortable when hearing this view. To some extent, being too direct is also selfish. 2. I can't understand women's psychology and can't understand the subtext. Girls' psychology is very complicated and profound, and sometimes they don't know what they really want. Some actions or words they show often have many meanings. Straight men usually don't understand the subtext of girls, let alone women's psychology. So I will miss many opportunities to enter the girl's heart. 3, I don't know how to please girls at all, and I won't marry girls. To please a girl is definitely a technical job, which requires a very high emotional intelligence, because you don't want to lick her, please her too much, but to master this degree. Straight men generally don't please girls or coax them. They think heterosexuality is an advantage. This kind of personality will naturally miss many soft girls who need boys to coax them. 4, the style of clothes is extremely old-fashioned or sloppy. What age is it now? People born after 90 are old, and some young boys wear old-fashioned clothes. And I will claim that I like retro style. Come on, retro style is not old-fashioned If it is tolerable to wear middle-aged clothes, then no girl can tolerate sloppy clothes. For example, the beard is not shaved (nor trimmed), the hairstyle is particularly messy, and the clothes are particularly dirty. This is a straight male behavior that any type of girl can't tolerate. 5. I don't know romance. Straight men don't understand romance, and even how to explain the word romance, they may not know. They don't know the function of roses, they don't want to know the brands that girls like, and they don't want to know the skin care products that are extremely important to girls. They will think that all the things these girls like are useless and disdain to take the time to understand them. Romance takes time and effort. For straight men, romance is impossible. 6, too confident, can't listen to different opinions, one track-minded. Straight men have a great feature, that is, they are too confident, and the phenomenon they show is stubbornness. This is actually an advantage for technical people, but for interpersonal communication and emotional dimension, being too confident and not listening to other people's opinions seems a bit unsociable. Moreover, stubbornness and one-track mind will make others very uncomfortable, and naturally it is not so easy to gain the favor of others.