I have served my mother-in-law for more than ten days, and I really can't stand her bitter mouth. What should I do?

My mother-in-law slipped in the toilet ten days ago, and her hands were fractured in radius and her lumbar spine was fractured. After both hands are fixed, you can't move at all. The lumbar spine is also broken, so I can only lie in bed, but I can't get out of bed at all. I eat and drink Lazar in bed. I have served the old woman in the hospital for more than ten days, and I really can't stand her mouth. Next, she will stay for more than ten days. I'm afraid I really can't stand her.

One by one, listen to me. I just said some facts, maybe just my one-sided words, but I don't fabricate facts. Just complaining, there is no obvious contradiction with my mother-in-law, let alone deep hatred.

When her mother-in-law was a girl, she was the boss of the family, with a younger brother and three younger sisters. Mother-in-law is a typical son preference. When she was a child, she suffered a lot and was beaten a lot. Everything in the farmland is done by her younger brothers and sisters, and the most tiring and dirty things are done by her. My father-in-law is the only child in the family, and there are two sisters below. After her mother-in-law married her father-in-law, she did housework to honor her in-laws, but at that time, life was very hard, so it was good to have enough to eat. Later, my parents-in-law did some small business under the leadership of relatives, and the days gradually got better. But my mother-in-law can't change her usual style. Maybe she used to have a hard life. A lot of things have to be won, robbed and maintained by ourselves in order to eat and wear warm clothes. As a result, she is a typical person who does not like others to take advantage of her, but likes to take advantage of others.

Besides, her personality is overbearing. What she thinks is right is right. Fortunately, my father-in-law is weak, otherwise the family would really fly a dog and jump.

My mother-in-law gave birth to three sons, and my husband is the third. She and her sister-in-law were naturally offended. Hardly had the eldest sister-in-law entered the room when her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to quarrel. After quarreling for several years, they simply stopped seeing each other. Now they haven't seen each other for twenty or thirty years. Walk like a stranger.

Ersao's family is in Guangdong, and there is not much contact with her mother-in-law, so there is no contradiction.

I am the third wife. When I first joined their family, I was angry with my mother-in-law. On the second day of my wedding, she gave me a ride. After the banquet at home, it was particularly dirty, and there were many tables and benches, all borrowed from neighbors. My mother-in-law said that she would take care of his business with her father-in-law, and ran away with her bag, regardless of whether there were so many things to return at home or whether I knew my neighbors. She said that I would clean up my house and she would come back in a couple of days. On the third day, she came back, ran to our new home and found a pile of bedding on the bed, which I had put neatly in the cupboard. She was particularly unhappy and said that new bedding should be put on a new bed 1 month. Who told you to put it in the cupboard? Didn't your mother teach you? But before we got married, obviously, she told me that it could be put in the cupboard in three days. I was stunned by her shouting.

Then I had a baby. She took care of me for a month when I was confined. After only 30 days, she disappeared and never came to my side. Her reason is that she doesn't care about her first two grandchildren, so she doesn't need to help me with my children. She won't help me. At that time, I was still young, and I was raising children at home alone, and I had no experience at all. I often eat only one meal a day and have no time to cook. Hungry and full. Neighbors think I am thin and don't like me, so they call me mother-in-law. My mother-in-law said I was useless and couldn't eat by myself. What's the use?

At that time, I felt angry and felt that her heart was too cruel.

After maternity leave, I went back to work. At this time, my mother-in-law is willing to help me take care of the baby. The reason is that as long as I work to earn money and don't play at home, she will help me. Well, I just took maternity leave at home.

Her speech is so ugly that I often cry because of her anger.

You have to buy two new clothes secretly, otherwise she will say that it is not easy for her son to make money outside, which is extravagant and wasteful, and how much money he has at home can't be spent. She hasn't bought many new clothes in her life. Indeed, my father-in-law is a tailor, and my mother-in-law has made her own clothes all her life, and she has hardly bought any clothes outside.

Once, the Spring Festival was coming, and I bought her a down jacket in the shopping mall. It cost more than 700 yuan at that time. I happily went in and asked her to try on the new dress. She was particularly unhappy at that time and said, who told you to waste money? When do I need you to buy me clothes? I didn't like the clothes you bought last year, so you returned them to me.

Then I got angry and never bought her clothes again. I'm not reluctant. I'm afraid she'll say I'm wasting her son's money again, but I also have a job. I have been married for more than ten years, and there is not a day that I don't go to work. I also have the ability to make money.

One more thing, it is unbearable that my husband and I have a good relationship with our two sisters-in-law. Under the interference of my mother-in-law, we lost the feeling of being brothers. My second brother lives in Guangdong. One year, during the summer vacation, we were going to play in Changlong, Guangdong. When we set out, my mother-in-law told us not to go to my second brother's house, lest he should spend money. Actually, we went with the group at that time, and the accommodation was arranged. When I went to Guangdong, I just went to have dinner with my second brother, and my mother-in-law told us not to go to my second brother's house. Up to now, the second brother has lived in Guangdong for almost 20 years, but we don't know where his home is.

Second brother went back to Wuhan, and the three of them have been living in our house. My house is relatively large, and our family always warmly treats them for a week or two. But her mother-in-law asked them to give us living expenses, which was particularly embarrassing. The original good brotherhood is like a deal. Of course I don't want this money, but I'm embarrassed to embarrass my second brother.

These little things have been too many over the years. You can never expect your mother-in-law to give you some financial help. All the savings earned by her mother-in-law in business are spent on her three trips every year. She doesn't think travel is extravagant and wasteful. Three times a year, she feels less. She never cares about her children and grandchildren, but sometimes she interferes too much. The three daughters-in-law who interfere the most always go back to their parents' house with things in their hands.

We have moved out in recent years, and we are not so close to our mother-in-law. Maybe distance produces beauty, but when we are not together, we can understand each other.

My mother-in-law fell down the other day and was seriously injured. Lumbar fracture, can't get out of bed, can only eat and drink Lazar in bed. My hand is broken, and I have to feed myself. I work with my father-in-law. He takes care of me for half a day in the morning, and I take care of my mother-in-law in the afternoon and at night. I have to deliver food to my mother-in-law. I have to go to work in the morning. I'm really tired after ten days.

I'm tired when I'm tired. I just do my job, but I really can't stand my mother-in-law's sharp mouth.

For example, when the meal was delivered at six o'clock in the afternoon, she said, what are you doing here so early? I said that in the hospital ward, don't we all eat from five to five thirty? Well, next time I deliver food at 6:40, she says you want to starve people to death. I made potatoes. She said that potatoes are flatulent and she won't eat them. She said that she loved melon, so I cooked it twice in a row. She is unhappy again. She said, you want me to eat melon every day. I made her salted duck eggs. She asked how much it was, and I said. 1.3 First, she is unhappy again. You are stupid. All the salted eggs I bought are one yuan. Only you are stupid.

Needless to say, my father-in-law is scolded by her mother-in-law every day. Her mother-in-law's mantra is, you are so timid, what are you doing?

My mother-in-law 160 kg, urinates and defecates in bed every day. I'm just a 100 kg villain, and I can't move at all. I suggested hiring a care worker, but my mother-in-law said it was free. As a matter of fact, we can afford to hire nurses.

Every day I help her put the urinal on the bed, and her whole hand will be broken. Several times a day, but in this way, I didn't get a good word from my mother-in-law, and I always said it badly. I don't know why she can't move her hands, she can't move all over, she's still nagging, and she has no time to stop.

Today, I brought her rice. She said I brought too much rice and wasted food. She said it was not easy for her son to make money, and I really didn't know what to do. If I bring less, she says I don't have enough to eat, so I need more. She also said it was a waste. Sometimes I really want to throw away the bowl and leave.

After coming out of the hospital, I couldn't stand the injustice, so I called my mother. I told my mother what my mother-in-law wanted. Neither daughter-in-law came to take care of her. I worked my ass off to listen to these unpleasant words from her face. My mother advised me to bear with it, saying that my mother-in-law would be discharged from the hospital in ten days, and it would be nice to go back. Then she advised me that this life is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and it is good for young people to endure it in the next life. Mother-in-law is not bad in nature, but she hates her mouth.

Well, I won't be angry after writing this article, and I will continue to take care of her tomorrow. Who let her be my mother-in-law and my husband's mother?