I quarreled with my sister-in-law because she scolded my mother. It's outrageous. My mother is a very virtuous mother.

Didn't your quarrel with your sister-in-law make your mother more embarrassed? Because you are often away from home, you can still see them enslave your mother like this, and then you quarrel with your sister-in-law and even beat her. As soon as you left, they bullied your mother. Can you help?

Arguing is not the solution to the problem, and impulsiveness will only make things worse.

Your mother is a good mother, but she is too kind to refuse. She always contributes to the children, but she can't get the gratitude of your brother and sister. You should have a good communication with your mother and help her plan her future life, such as:

What about mom's pension in the future? Who is she going to live with?

Sister-in-law is not good to her and brother is not filial. Can this couple count on it

How is your mother now? Is there any other way to live besides making cows and horses for my son and daughter-in-law? Think more about yourself, take care of yourself, don't say enjoy life, at least you can't work all your life, and you don't enjoy it at all.

Then, combined with your mother's idea, the whole family sat down to discuss the issues of support and pension. I mean, your mother shouldn't pamper your brother so much. Everyone should take a charter and focus on the mother's life, instead of letting the old people return their age to their children as servants. Your mother, you and your brother, there is absolutely no need to be rubbed like this by your brother and sister-in-law.

The key is: negotiate your mother's pension, communicate with her well, and don't get into trouble with your brother and sister-in-law by virtue of your own values and impulses, because it will embarrass your mother.