What does a man need to prepare to propose to a woman's family? What's the point?

Different places have different requirements for men to propose marriage. I don't know anything about other places, so I'll just talk about the marriage proposal custom in my hometown, what men need to prepare when they go to the woman's house, and some ways and means.

My hometown is in Shaanxi, and it is an essential etiquette for a man to propose marriage to a woman's house before marriage. First of all, the man must bring a gift when he goes to the woman's house. This will not only make the woman's family recognize the man's family, but also make the woman feel the respect of the man.

So, what should men pay attention to when they bring gifts? I often hear my parents say that alcohol, tobacco, sugar and tea should be prepared for the meeting ceremony. And the gifts prepared should not be too bad. You can buy more expensive cigarettes and alcohol, which not only looks classy and atmospheric, but also makes the woman's family feel valued.

I remember that when my boyfriend proposed to my family before I got married, he and his parents bought a lot of things together, besides tobacco, alcohol, sugar and tea, there were many nutrients. Because, before, my parents always disapproved of us being together, so I was cold to my boyfriend. My boyfriend has been trying to get my parents to accept him. Of course, you must behave well when you propose. Because the gifts he brought were all my parents' favorite, his impression in my parents' hearts also gained extra points.

Secondly, the man should prepare bride price money when he goes to the woman to propose marriage. The proposal is to make the two children get married smoothly, so the bride price is essential. When preparing the bride price, communicate with the woman's family in advance, how much is needed, and give the bride price money to the woman's parents on the day of marriage proposal.

Due to different local customs, the amount of bride price is not equal. So, what's the point of preparing the bride price? I don't know what is particular about other places. But we usually have 88,888 or 66,666 there. This is not only a kind of good luck, but also reflects the value of a daughter. Therefore, the bride price is a must.

Finally, parents should discuss the date of marriage after meeting, and it is best to set it early. By proposing marriage to the woman, the two families can communicate and understand each other's thoughts, so we should set the wedding date as early as possible, which will not only have enough time to prepare for the wedding, but also allow a couple to arrange their own time, such as honeymoon or work after marriage.

What a man needs to prepare when he goes to a woman's house to propose marriage will vary from person to person and from place to place, so what is the most important thing to prepare. As long as the method is right, the effect will get twice the result with half the effort. If the marriage proposal is done well, the marriage will naturally go smoothly.