A few hidden rules of dormitory, can you talk about them?

The present situation of contemporary female dormitory is eight words: gossip, holding a group, crowding out and quarreling. Sister in front of others, calculating behind others. If you don't lend her toilet paper, you can still be killed by a small group. You can't finish 60 episodes of Zhen Huan's biography in contemporary dormitory. The rules of dormitory survival. Don't be a cannon fodder in Zhen Huan's biography in the dormitory. The dormitory is just a nest where you sleep. Being isolated has nothing to do with your study, graduation and getting rich. Roommates randomly assigned by universities have a low chance of becoming good friends. If you can talk, you are my friend. I'm sorry if you can't talk. You sleep with the mammal next door to me. What if the relationship with the dormitory is too stiff? All right.

First, establish personal boundaries. Roommates say that you don't like to hear and do things you don't like. You are afraid of destroying the relationship, but generally don't say anything. Haven't you heard of the broken window effect? If the broken windows are not repaired in time, more people will destroy more windows. The more patient you are in the early stage, the more resistant you are in the later stage. She'll just think there's something wrong with you Remember, every time you are kind and timid, you will blur your personal boundaries and the bottom line will appear in time. Telling the truth first is the foundation of maintaining a relationship.

Second, roommates are just roommates. A sister said that her best friend in the dormitory quarreled and was angry with herself, and as a result, she told her secrets. Remember, don't be stupid just because someone invites you to the toilet several times and buys milk tea several times. When you tell her the secret, you have to bear the risk that she will tell everyone. Don't say anything casually. Some things only rot in your stomach.

Third, learn to keep a low profile. Women's jealousy is really terrible. Even if your living expenses are tens of thousands and your boyfriend is handsome, don't mention it if your roommate doesn't ask you, just say you are lucky. You have to believe that there are really few people in this world except your parents who want you to live better than her. The speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional, and in the eyes of jealous girls, it is all to show off. Low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude.