The elegance and self-restraint of mature women are the elegance that women exude with their gestures.

Women who don't study will become ignorant and vulgar, and will be abandoned by the times. Even if you look like a fairy, dressed in luxury and fashion, those masks painted with matter are shallow after all, and no matter how beautiful they are, they won't last long. On the contrary, as long as she likes reading and is full of bookish spirit, even if she dresses simply, she will still look noble, elegant and charming.

A woman who has read enough good books will become excellent. Because the book gave her confidence, cultivated her true, beautiful and pure feelings, and made her gentle and considerate, full of intellectual dignity and beauty.

There are storms in life, and books can give you wisdom and become an umbrella against the wind and rain; Life has dangerous beaches and reefs, and books can guide the way and become a bright lighthouse; When life comes to an end, there are bright spots in the book; Life is poor and rich, and the book has its own golden house. People can be chaotic and abandon chaos, but books are always loyal.

A woman who loves reading is a beautiful scenery. She may not look amazing, but her speech is extraordinary and her manners are beautiful and dignified. When the simplicity of nature and knowledge are combined, it will be as soft as water and as thick as a mountain, and it will stand out from the crowd and make people admire it.

A woman who loves reading will be particularly conspicuous because of her overflowing intellectual temperament. Even if she walks among a beautifully dressed woman, her personal charm will make her stand out.

A woman who loves reading is a thoughtful person. Because reading can make people Xiu De cultivate their temperament, have infinite wisdom, have a far-sighted vision and purify their hearts.

Women who love reading love nature and life. Flowers and birds, trees, blue sky and white clouds, stars and bright moon are all a poem or a painting, and they are all a daydream or a state of mind in their lives. Their rich spirit enriches their lives.

A woman who loves reading has a smart and beautiful mind, broad kindness and understanding. She understands life as poetry, prose and novels. She enriches her inner world with honesty, friendliness, self-esteem and integrity, and leads others' eyes with nobility and dignity.

Books make women smart, tough and mature. It is important for women to understand the appearance of packaging, but it is more important to nourish the soul. "Keep company with books and never sigh."

Read more books and read some good books. Knowledge is the only beauty product, and books are women's fashion. Books will make women beautiful forever.

The beauty of a woman is three points destiny takes a hand, and seven points depends on dressing up. And reading is the dressing of the soul, and it is the beauty of the soul.

A woman who loves reading is chic. She is neither a flower nor a vase. She is just a cup of light green tea with a faint fragrance. Even without makeup, it looks radiant, elegant and natural. A woman who loves reading must be confident and beautiful!

A truly noble woman is never afraid of the polishing of years, but only lives more elegantly. Every woman needs to understand that the more she lives, the nobler she is, which is closely related to her own quality and background.

Only by not being dragged down by life, not attached to men, self-respect and self-love, but becoming the master of life, can live high's sense of advanced.

Women can be ugly, but they can't live lowly. A woman's beautiful appearance can only maintain a short-term goodwill, but nobility flows in her bones and exudes a refreshing fragrance.

A woman's "nobility" is an inner self-restraint, and it is the elegance that a woman exudes with her gestures. At any time, women should make themselves more noble in order to win men's cherish and love.

Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. The lower a woman lives, the more she likes to have the following performances in chat. When men meet, they should stay away.

I like to have an affair with men in chat. In fact, no matter who they are, the level of people who like to play ambiguous is very low. But there are many men and women who are not familiar with her, but what she said to you on WeChat is very ambiguous.

This kind of woman must be a man who loves sweet talk, and is called "male god", "brother" and "dear". Many men with low emotional intelligence will really be fascinated by this and fall into each other's trap.

Wait until we really get along, only to find that the original woman in easy virtue. On the surface, it makes you believe that she has a crush on you, but it's not just for fun.

When chatting with men, a woman who likes to play ambiguous is good at showing weakness in front of men. Naive girls always look miserable. They always use men's good feelings for themselves to satisfy their vanity and live a very low life.

Talking without proper restrictions will hurt people when chatting. The communication between people depends on a mouth, and a few words can completely expose your personality and your personal accomplishment.

The measure of your speech is your achievement. A person's highest achievement is measured by his words. A woman's speech can fully expose her temperament, and speech is a woman's highest charm.

A woman who knows how to talk is often not much different. Some women, in order to be quick, talk about everything, poke people's pain, expose people's scars, don't care about others' emotions, and don't hurt others with words. This is very low-level behavior.

An educated woman should speak kindly and know when to shut up and when to leave room for others.

I like to cry in chat and ask men for money. Women who live a noble life often know that economic independence is the beginning of personality independence.

They are very independent both economically and spiritually. They have their own ideas and work hard, and they don't need to rely on men. They never cry to men when chatting.

Women living at the bottom have no sense of independence. They like to rely on men to support themselves and spend men's money. When chatting with men, no matter whether they are boyfriends or girlfriends, they will cry and pretend to be poor and ask men for red envelopes.

It can be said that this kind of behavior is very low-level and immoral. Such a woman will only get meaner and meaner, and no man will really respect her.

When a woman reaches out to a man for flowers and looks up to him, you have lost your place. It is clear that only women living in the lower class like to ask men for money in chat.

A woman can only be attractive if she has a noble heart! Whether emotionally or in the workplace, elegant and noble women are truly worthy of appreciation. If you want to be loved by men, women should invite live high to be noble and wonderful.

The charm of a woman depends not only on her beautiful face, but also on her inner noble temperament. Only women who live in the lower classes like to chat with men like this. It can't be wrong.

A truly noble woman, whether young and beautiful or white-haired, will always be noble in her bones.

Because only inner nobility can keep a woman elegant all her life. Those noble women are like a gentle breeze, and people who get along with them will feel warm as spring.

Remember: being beautiful is an advantage, and being able to live noble is a skill. A woman may not be beautiful, but she must live a noble life.

With the continuous progress of society, people's education level is getting higher and higher, and a brand-new bright group-intellectual women is gathering around us more and more.

Their rich knowledge, elegant temperament and unique style attract public attention.

In today's society, intellectual women have their own work, career and personality. They are often economically independent, independent in character and not bound by men. They are women with a strong sense of self-control.

Such women have more love for life and family, wider interests and hobbies, and have their own values and missions.

In real life, many men like intellectual women. Although men sometimes can't help listening to a "Farewell of the Ages" on the Qinhuai River, they will always love those educated women in their hearts.

Now, people have generally accepted compulsory education and quality education. It can be said that education is a very important thing in life, and the development between literacy and illiteracy is completely different.

There is a humorous story: one day, a man took his wife to a friend's wedding. As soon as he entered the door, his wife said to the pole on the door, "Du Fu can move." After reading it, everyone around you laughed.

The husband was also very helpless after reading it, saying that "it is hard work to make up for the mistake", and his wife blushed at that time.

Although this is just a humorous joke, it shows the difference between knowledge and ignorance. Knowledge can broaden our horizons, arm ourselves and make ourselves better.

It must be a trivial matter for an ignorant person to joke. On the other hand, it reflects that people without knowledge are more difficult to walk in this society than those with knowledge.

As the saying goes, "Man struggles upwards, but water flows downwards". As a modern woman, if she wants to gain a foothold in society, she needs to arm herself with knowledge and make herself stronger.

It is an irrefutable truth that knowledge changes fate. Women should master more knowledge, and whoever has more knowledge will be more successful.

Good doers study their affairs, and good scholars study their reasons. Arm yourself with knowledge, which is the best "tonic" for women.

Not long ago, on the bus, I chatted with a boy from Shenyang University. He said, "Now some high-spirited girls are unwilling to marry us poor college students because of their knowledge and education. Because we have to start from scratch, there is nothing left, there is a good job and there is no good job ... "

I can't help saying, "Love is two of a kind, a lover, not money." He shook his head in pain.

In fact, women nowadays have discretionary beliefs about love, especially intellectual women. She didn't mean to look down on poor students, but because of her knowledge and quality, she had a higher standard of living.

The highest standard of human life is the pursuit of happiness, and a woman with culture and self-restraint can't tolerate her own grievances.

So how to be a knowledgeable and cultured woman? Just relying on academic qualifications and going to college for graduate study? Definitely not.

Writing an article pays attention to "reading thousands of books, writing like a god." Improving your knowledge level is actually the same as writing an article. Only by reading more can one have insight and persuasiveness to life.

Read more books. As the saying goes, there are poems in the belly. Reading is a good habit of self-cultivation, especially for women, reading has become a particularly important thing.

Women's reading can adjust themselves, reduce pressure, and also increase their knowledge, so that they can know what's going on in the world without going out.

Moreover, reading can also improve one's cultural level, make people more cultured, find a good job for oneself, and make oneself invincible in a highly competitive society.

Reading nourishes human nature. Reading can cultivate your temperament and make you gentle and bookish.

Read a lot of books and write like a god. Reading more books can improve your writing ability, and writing articles can make you think quickly.

You can never get tired of reading old books. You can only learn by reading them carefully. Reading can improve your comprehension. You can know the truth as long as you read them carefully.

Reading can make a person accumulate knowledge, and a gentleman can learn to get together. In short, reading is a good thing, and women should develop the good habit of reading.

Know fashion. Aristotle once said that beauty is more worthy of recommendation and easier to be accepted than letters of introduction.

Indeed, statistics show that good-looking women generally have a relatively high probability of success.

It can be said that excellent beauty is a kind of competitiveness of women. A woman who dresses in fashion can always give people a sense of beauty, but if a woman dresses in fashion and talks about the words and topics of the last century, she can only be called an "antique".

Therefore, women should not only be fashion spokespersons in clothing, but also update their knowledge at any time to keep up with the pulse of the times.

Extensive knowledge. Extensive knowledge is the beginning of interpersonal relationship, and dabbling in knowledge is the most taboo.

As long as it is not particularly contradictory, we must learn to participate in activities, and all kinds of knowledge do not need to be too precise, so that we can better communicate with people around us and learn more.

In fact, as long as you like knowledge, you don't have to dabble in it all, because there is no need to be arty and pretentious.

Be a clean hostess no matter how busy you are, and don't let others mistake you for a nanny at home.

Improve the quality and taste of life, life without quality will only make people unrecognizable. We must believe that a beautiful woman is not necessarily beautiful, but a woman with knowledge and connotation must be the most beautiful.

Language should be decent and elegant. A crosstalk performer once said, "My eyesight is better than yours 100 times. Even if two flies fly by, I can see clearly which is the male and which is the female. "

After that, he always felt that the audience's laughter was a bit harsh and he felt uncomfortable. One day, he was walking in the park and saw a little girl ask her father, "Dad, why is one butterfly chasing another?" Dad replied, "It's Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai."

The crosstalk performers changed their lines as soon as they heard it, and then the audience laughed much better than before.

He changed his mind, "My eyesight is better than yours 100 times. Even if two butterflies fly by, I can see clearly which is Liang Shanbo and which is Zhu Yingtai. "

This is the charm of elegant language. The appropriateness of communication language in life is the foundation, which can maintain the harmony of interpersonal relationships, and elegance is the highest realm of language, which can show your cultural heritage.

Don't be a trivial woman. A woman's character can be seen from her chat content and way of doing things.

If you always haggle over every ounce, always gossiping behind others' backs, and even always have no quality in words and deeds, then even your friends will gradually leave you.

A woman who always haggles over every ounce, gossips and has no quality at all is like living in a haze, complaining too much and caring too much, which directly reflects that you are full of negative energy, which also directly reflects that you are not doing well.

Whether it is positive energy or negative energy, it will have a "butterfly effect" on you personally and around you.

For a woman, if you are always sad, always haggle over every ounce and always full of negative energy, it will not only affect your personal interpersonal relationship, but also your love life and even your face value.

Looking around, it is not difficult to find that those girls who are happy and positive every day, full of vitality and positive energy, even if they don't have a high face value, will give people a very pleasing feeling and make people feel comfortable with them.

On the contrary, those women who are always full of negative energy, always haggle over every ounce, have no quality, and always look miserable, even if they have a good-looking online red face, they will not make people think they are good-looking.

What's more, people who are always frowning will soon get wrinkles on your face.

Therefore, a woman should be an elegant woman, generous, elegant, generous and informal, so that a woman will be welcomed by her friends, everything will be smooth and her fate will be better.

In short, women's elegant temperament, rich knowledge, and their unique self-restraint, wisdom and even emotional intelligence actually come from the cultivation of the day after tomorrow.

A woman with good taste and self-cultivation knows how to enjoy life, how to carefully condition herself and how to make herself live more beautifully in this society.

You know, in this vast world, what you strive to improve yourself is never to please anyone, but to please yourself and make yourself live better, more comfortable and happier. * * * Encourage!