Among several brother families in the countryside, why is the one who stays in the countryside the least popular?

Because almost all the parents of that generation felt that they could go out of the mountains and take root in the city, which was considered promising, while the people around them felt that they did not, but they did not know that these people stayed with their parents, not because they were incompetent, but because they were filial.

First, parents always think that farming is the least valuable. In rural areas, most of them don't have factories. Even if there is investment, they are owners of wood factories, board factories, pig farms and planting bases. In the final analysis, it is still a coolie. Therefore, even if their family income is high, the older generation seems to have no office scenery in the city.

Of course, there are also people who work in other places. No matter what kind of day they live, they won't tell their parents directly. When they go back, the scenery is infinite, so parents in rural areas don't know about it, but it's wonderful to go back during the New Year. Naturally no one will say anything about them. If you look at those who stay at home, you will naturally look down on them.

Second, see you every day, there will be disputes sooner or later. Let's talk about the problem of getting along. The one who stayed in the countryside is controversial. If there are many arguments, you will definitely not remember each other's kindness. You often say that the other side is not good, and you will pick on the other side. Of course you won't like it.

The one who runs away from home doesn't see you several times a year, and it's always a surprise to call back occasionally. Whenever he is not feeling well, the waiter at home will hand the cooked pork porridge to the doctor, but he will be scolded if he is late for dinner. The one outside, as long as he calls back and hears something wrong with the old man's voice, praises him for being filial and caring for the old man.

Such things, even the whole country, are unified. You can read the comments section if you don't believe me.

Third, people who are sponsored by them don't often give money. Money is a good thing, and everyone recognizes it. The one who stays at home is responsible for all kinds of expenses at home and can't give money to the elderly often, so he won't be missed by the elderly.

Let me give you a simple example: the eldest son is outside, and the youngest son is at home. One day, the eldest son air-conditioned his home in old man put. The old man is very happy and can talk for more than ten years; What about the youngest son? He pays the electricity bill for this air conditioner every year, which is more than the air conditioner, but he can't remember it.

Also, outside, I will take some money back every year and give it directly to the elderly, who are happy; At home, it is also thankless to take care of the diet and daily life of the elderly. When they are sick, they still try their best to treat them.