Ask the child to put away the toys, but he won't listen or throw them all over the floor. How to discipline disobedient children?

Disobedience is the expression of children's desire for independence and the awakening of children's independent consciousness. As parents, we need to know our children calmly and communicate with them more. Understand the reasons for children's disobedience, so as to give gradual enlightenment and education.

How to discipline disobedient children? Distract your attention. Children's attention is easily distracted and attracted by new things, and they should be good at shifting their attention from what they insist on to other novel and interesting things or things. Once the child's attention is diverted, he will soon forget the requirements and unhappiness just now. Prompt first. After mastering the law of children's willful behavior, the "three chapters of the law" prevent willful attacks. If you just want to take your child to the mall, make an appointment with him in advance: "I went shopping today to buy clothes, not toys, and I promised to take you there."

Deliberately omitted. When a child loses his temper or rolls around because his requirements are not met, parents should ignore him, do not create a useless environment for him, and do not negotiate with him. When ignored, children themselves will get bored and make concessions. After that, give the child a simple and serious explanation, explain why you can't do it, and encourage him with words like "I believe you will be obedient in the future". Demonstration. Use the child's psychology of liking fairy tale characters to inspire him to overcome willfulness. If a child refuses to eat spinach, parents can say, "Don't you like real Bao Xiao? He likes to eat spinach. "

What are the reasons for children's disobedience? The children have too little company. If parents give their children too little companionship, the children's hearts will be full of resistance to their parents' discipline, and even have the idea that parents love to get along with themselves. If parents seldom spend time with their children, they are blaming their children for their mistakes every time they talk to them, and children will naturally have a lot of dissatisfaction. Therefore, as parents, we must give our children more companionship and care, and don't always discipline them when they make mistakes.

No authority in front of children. Parents should establish their own prestige in front of their children while establishing close relationship with them. You can laugh in front of children at ordinary times, but you must be serious when you make mistakes. Only in this way can children realize their mistakes and obey their parents' discipline. In short, when parents discipline their children, they must make them aware of the seriousness of the matter. In addition, parents must keep their word in front of their children and can't break their word.

Set an example in front of children. If parents often watch TV at home, how can they accuse their children of not watching TV? Before accusing the child of making a mistake, see if you have made the same mistake, so as to convince the child. Therefore, as parents, you should set an example in front of your children in everything, so that they will not be obsessed with you.