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Is it standard for parents to take care of their children? As one of them, can you tell the truth?

As a concerned person, seeing this problem, I also want to talk about my heart.

Now the social rhythm is developing faster and faster, and young people are under great pressure in all aspects, especially the young couple who have children after marriage. Who will take care of the children has become the biggest headache. Because children are too young and need special care, they need not only a lot of energy, but also input. If conditions are good, he can support his family expenses by working alone, but most people can't. At this time, you can only rely on your parents to take care of you.

Parents have the ability to take care of it, which is better. If they don't, it's really a headache for young people. As far as I know, many families are making ends meet. As a cared-for member, I have a deep understanding of this problem.

Taking care of children is not a matter of one or two days, and it needs to be with him for a long time. When I first gave birth to a child, the unit only gave me five days maternity leave. It is these five days that let me know how physically and mentally exhausted it is to take care of children. Feeding, changing diapers, buying all kinds of things, dealing with his constant crying, fine during the day and basically not sleeping at night. I feel like I'm falling apart. Every day is a struggle.

After the holiday, I can't do without going to work. What should I do? I can only invite my old mother out, and I often feel very ashamed of my parents. I am old, and I should enjoy my retirement, but I have to take over such a thing. I feel very tired to take care of them for a few days at the thought of being a strong young man, not to mention my elderly mother, who is also in poor health. As a child, seeing in the eyes hurts in the heart. No work, no income, no income. How to maintain this family? The only hope is that the children will grow up quickly.

But he needs someone to pick him up when he goes to school. Who will pick him up has become another question. Every morning, I need to get up early and send my children to school early. The other children haven't come yet, looking at the empty classroom, only my children are left. I am very distressed. I can't help it I have to go to work. My children will finish school at four o'clock in the afternoon. Who will get off work at home at this time? It is impossible to ask for leave, because the leaders of the unit have always been interested in frequent leave. At this time, parents really need to go out again. It's better when the child is not sick. Once he was ill, he had to ask for leave again. For a long time, I had a headache about it.

Because my parents are old, they often have physical problems, and they really feel that they will collapse one day. Who can blame? Blame yourself for incompetence. I am sorry for my parents and my children.

But life goes on. What makes me happy is that I can see my children's happy smiles every day. Seeing him happy, I forgot my fatigue and gave myself motivation. Parents also like their little grandson. I was deeply moved by the happy smiles on their faces. Come on, only by struggling can we make our life better and have a foundation to take care of our parents and children!

Finally, I wish all parents in the world can be healthy, all children in the world can be happy, and I wish young people who struggle for their families can live a little easier, just like me!

As the name implies, this cannot be the standard of our ancestors!

Everything grandparents do for their grandchildren is self-evident, and I believe everyone with a discerning eye knows it well.

First of all, because there are several generations, grandparents often spoil their grandchildren. Whether it is reasonable or not, most of them will try their best to meet their requirements. They often indulge their unruly and unreasonable behaviors, and the consequences of these attitudes are unruly, self-centered, selfish, indifferent and unwilling.

In addition, parents do everything for their grandchildren, which makes their children escape their due responsibilities and obligations. They should be their own careers, but they make their parents work hard, while young couples stand by and watch. This deformed form is also easy for their children to develop the bad habit of being lazy and shirking their responsibilities.

Moreover, due to the generation gap, the outdated concepts and knowledge reserves of our ancestors can no longer meet the knowledge needs of our grandchildren, which is not conducive to their knowledge acquisition and concept formation.

Therefore, bringing grandchildren should not be a standard for grandparents. Of course, it is normal for children to be too busy to help, but the priorities of responsibilities must be clearly defined, which is not good for three generations.

There is no standard for this question, which varies from person to person. According to the traditional concept since ancient times, after a daughter-in-law gets married and gives birth to a child, her mother-in-law will be in debt to serve, take care of the child, cook and work in the fields next month. When the mother-in-law is old, the daughter-in-law will serve her!

But now, people's ideas have changed, there is no standard, and each family makes decisions according to its own family situation!

I am a grandmother. To be honest, I am willing to take care of my son. First of all, because I like my grandson, I am closer than my own children (we all say every generation here)!

Secondly, sons and daughters-in-law have to go to work. They need me, their own children, and they can't ignore the difficulties!

However, people are different. Some parents can live and think for themselves and leave their children alone. Some parents don't give money to their children without them. Anyway, there is no standard as long as both sides are willing!

Not necessarily! But that's the truth.