After closing the circle of friends, the whole world was quiet.

A few days ago, such a Weibo became a hot search, which successfully attracted the attention of countless netizens.

# No friends were fired #

The thing is, a woman in Lu 'an, Anhui Province said that she recruited to work in a media company through the Internet, and after working for about three weeks, she was told to go to the company for resignation the next day. The woman rushed to the company to ask, and was told that she was dismissed by the company because she did not send a circle of friends related to the company during her work, and then she was assessed as unqualified.

Seeing this news made me feel extremely scared. As a person who has closed his circle of friends for a long time, it doesn't even have a chance to enter that company.

But today's circle of friends is no longer the circle of friends it used to be. Even, I'm glad that I discovered this function very early.

Get up in the morning, brush my circle of friends and have a look at my friends;

squeeze into the seamless subway, and don't forget to take out your mobile phone and brush your circle of friends;

During meal time, you should also make such difficult actions as brushing your mobile phone while eating;

Even when walking and driving, people are looking at their mobile phones ...

I don't know, have you ever had any experience? Nowadays, people spend more time on their mobile phones than we can imagine.

If the first action after lighting the screen of the mobile phone is to brush the circle of friends, then this time can really accumulate a large laundry list. I often hear that many friends around me lament how the day has passed so quickly, just as the song goes: Where has the time gone? I am old before I feel young.

The circle of friends is the thief who steals your most time. After I closed my circle of friends, the whole world became quiet.

There are four kinds of witchcraft circulating in Asia on the Internet: transsexual surgery in Thailand, cosmetic surgery in South Korea, cosmetic surgery in Japan and PS surgery in China. If we compare the current and previous circle of friends, we will find that most of the current circle of friends are P-shaped, and there is nothing original or plain (not absolute), all of which are Mito Xiu Xiu. Of course, this is not the point I want to express, nor is it here to lament the declining world.

think about it carefully. You have to send a circle of friends, take photos, ps, and then carefully compile a talk before publishing it. Have we carefully calculated how long this process will take? It's not over yet, it's just the beginning. After it's finished, you have to always think about how many people browse, how many people like it, and how many people comment. In short, your attention may have to be scattered in this circle of friends all day.

As for attention, I have emphasized it many times in previous articles. Only attention is our most precious wealth. The essence of the world is exchange. Anything we want, we should use attention as a bargaining chip.

when I realized this, I found that the circle of friends is actually a time black hole, which will devour your time inadvertently.

Another reason that prompted me to close my circle of friends is that my circle of friends is full of all kinds of advertisements. Some people may say, if you block those advertisements, it will be gone. But if I tell you, if you block advertisements, the circle of friends will basically turn over and over because of the dynamics of those people. Do you think blocking is useful? This sounds like a sad story.

In the past, the circle of friends was an original selfie, sharing food, sharing beautiful scenery and recording feelings;

Now, the circle of friends is advertising, purchasing and swiping the screen, punching in all kinds of cards, Nine palace map sunbathing and praising;

advertising, purchasing, and praise-accumulating are just part of most people's work, and life is not easy. Who wants to risk being blocked and send friends to the screen one day? Who doesn't want to earn more money through a part-time job? In fact, advertising, purchasing, and praise-accumulating have only one purpose, so that they can gain benefits. There is nothing wrong with this book.

But profit is not based on this loss of friendship between friends. Sometimes, problems that can be solved with money should not be bothered by friends, and friendship between friends should not be used as a tool to make money, nor should friends be the object of making money. Isn't it?

therefore, trust is the cornerstone of all transactions. Sales promotion that is not based on "trust" is playing tricks on cows.

truly outstanding people don't need the encouragement of friends, the sense of existence from the outside, or the flattery from friends. More importantly, they all have an internal driving force, which makes them outstanding.

There is another important reason: because time is valuable and attention is precious, you can't waste it in your circle of friends. Imagine how much time those people who are busy at work every day, even those who are trotting to eat and go to the toilet, can spend in their circle of friends? No time is the most wanted and truest answer.

from this point of view, those who love to keep a dynamic circle of friends are probably caused by leisure.

Of course, we also believe that it is true that some people don't want to show their lives publicly. A friend of mine has had a lonely dynamic circle of friends since he played WeChat, and it was several years ago. He said that life is your own, there is no need to show it to others, it is a waste of time, and it is meaningless.

so, my friend, I suggest you close your circle of friends. Maybe you will say, will I miss a lot if I close my circle of friends? Lose contact with friends!

Personally, I found that the world hasn't changed dramatically since I closed my circle of friends. On the contrary, I have more time available, and my brain no longer accepts any advertisements, so the whole world is quieter.

Yang Jiang said, "We were so eager for recognition from the outside world that we finally realized that the world belongs to us and has nothing to do with others."

if you think about it carefully, what will happen if you send a circle of friends, and what will happen if you don't? The result won't make any difference. People who care about you will not leave because they can't see their circle of friends; People who don't care about you have made friends, which only increases their curiosity.

The rest of your life is very expensive, just live a wonderful life.

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