Every time my parents quarrel, it will be very fierce, so I am particularly afraid of my parents. What should I do?

Indeed, parents' quarrels will certainly hurt children's young hearts in the morning, which I know very well! So when I was a child, every time I saw my parents quarreling, I was particularly scared, and I especially didn't want them to quarrel.

So, what should we do in the face of parents who quarrel fiercely every time? Let me talk to you about some of my thoughts and experiences.

First of all, since we know that every time they quarrel, they are particularly fierce, so we can certainly think that they are usually too bad-tempered or stressed and need to vent through quarreling, right? Then we can behave well in peacetime, be sensible, try to make them angry as little as possible, let them keep a peaceful mind and live with their families, so that their temper will definitely get smaller and smaller, and they will definitely not get angry and strike the table when they quarrel.

Also, if you think they are under a lot of pressure and have nowhere to vent, you can ask them to take you out to play, and you can go shopping. Maybe a change of mood will release the pressure they are holding in their hearts, and maybe they will be calm when they quarrel again.

Of course, since we know that they often quarrel, do you know the reason why they quarrel? If you don't know the reason for their quarrel, then you can't solve the problem fundamentally, so no matter how much you do, it's only a temporary solution, not a permanent solution!

So, if you don't want your parents to quarrel again, don't be afraid. When they quarrel, they should have the courage to listen to what they are arguing about, who is the main fault and why they can't solve this problem all the time!

Then, you can talk to them alone after they stop, and don't see them looking for cigarettes when they are angry, which will definitely backfire!

For example, you can talk to your father first, tell him that you are scared every time you see them quarreling, and beg him and your mother to stop quarreling. As the saying goes, tiger poison does not eat children. I think your father knows that you often have psychological shadows because of their quarrels, and he will definitely regret it. He will definitely consider your feelings.

Then you can persuade your father to let your mother go. After all, he is a big man and the head of the family. He quarrels with his wife all day, which is very humiliating. You must praise him more and set up his image tall, so that he will restrain himself because of a man's face and stop arguing with your mother so fiercely!

Then you have to convince your mother. You should also tell her that every time they quarrel, you are scared and beg them to stop arguing. I think your mother will be overwhelmed by maternal love when she finds out. She wants to protect you and won't hurt you again.

Of course, you should also persuade her to understand your father more. After all, it is not easy for a man to be outside. It is definitely unacceptable to quarrel with him after returning home. It is better to communicate more between husband and wife.

I hope you can convince your parents with your own wisdom and let your family spend every day happily!