What are the correct chatting techniques that 99% of people think are correct? Can you tell me in detail?

1. We should learn divergent thinking. Divergent thinking is an important way of chatting, but the scope of talking about the current topic is very narrow, but through this topic, you can also think of many things. When you talk about children's topics, you can talk about boys' and girls' lives and children's learning. When you talk about learning, you can talk about books, and through books, you can talk about the writers who wrote the books. If you follow this way of thinking, will your topics become infinitely richer? Are you still afraid that you can’t talk about your feelings with others?

2. Reaction is more important than skill. We must remember a principle. When chatting with others, responses are more important than the skills themselves, so being responsive to others can make up for your lack of chat skills.

3. Find a good topic and start. Chat with your girl and try to be the center of the conversation. Unless you are handsome enough to be Daniel Wu, you will remain silent and let your sister find the topic for you. You are always passive. Talking about a pleasant topic is certainly the right way to open a chat room.

4. The chat room should be divided into multiple objects, and different chat methods should be different for different objects. At least you should have two chat systems: strangers and acquaintances. When these two types of people appear at the same dinner table, they should be a little more restrained with acquaintances and ask more questions about strangers. Only by mastering the necessary basic information can you judge whether this person is serious or informal.

5. You cannot act recklessly just because someone you know is present. You'll often end up embarrassing yourself in front of your friends, and your own friends won't expect you to say anything straight at all times. Use "Sorry, I'll be more direct" to minimize the damage. People will only remember your injuries. Therefore, when you have something important to say to remind the other person, a pause will be more effective than this remedy. If you want to speak out, don't be afraid to cry. If you want to feel heavy, don't say it.