Children don't listen to us at home and even talk back to their grandparents. What should a five-year-old child do if he is rebellious and disobedient?

Five-year-old children began to have a sense of independence. Later, they gradually didn't want to listen to their parents, and some even sang with their parents, which made their parents feel very headache and felt that their children had become "bad". Parents should understand that children's autonomy is not a bad thing, and children have grown up.

What should a five-year-old child do if he is rebellious and disobedient? 1, spend more time with the children. In fact, you can go out for a walk, play some games, or take your child to do some sports, which can increase the relationship between parents and children, especially the friendship with children, and make him trust his parents more.

2. Encourage and tolerate children. Parents should not simply and rudely deny disobedience, but should know that children are self-conscious. At this time, we must give appropriate encouragement, and at the same time, let the children increase their hands-on ability, such as learning to clean up simply and do some housework within their power to make the children more independent.

3. Take "cold treatment" for unreasonable things. Although the baby at this stage has a strong sense of self, it does not have the ability to make correct judgments. For some unreasonable requirements, parents should adopt a "cold treatment" approach, and don't give the baby the illusion that "I cry for a reason". Remember not to be soft-hearted and obey the children's ideas, otherwise the consequences will be more serious.

Help your child learn to express his or her feelings in words. In fact, parents can slowly help their children learn to express their emotions in words. For example, when they are angry, they say "I am angry" instead of throwing things or crying. Although this process will take a long time, parents can master the correct expression as long as they wait patiently.

5. Let children understand the truth through life events. If the child has some wrong practices in his life, he should be told in time that it is wrong to do so. For example, children always like to play and jump, especially in the house, which will affect the normal life of the residents downstairs. Adults should stop it in time.

6. The power of example. To educate children, parents should first look at their own shortcomings. We should also constantly learn to improve our self-cultivation and humanistic quality, because the power of example is endless. Don't forget "what saplings bear what fruit, what seeds they plant and what flowers they bloom".